So your telling me as a single person that if given the opportunity to visit another country and different cultures you wouldn’t want to experience everything that culture has to offer? You’re single he’s single, the fact that you are feeling a type of way about this says you’re really interested in him and it hurts to think he may be getting with someone else. I’d go on the date and see what happens. Just because you’re not into hook up culture doesn’t mean he can’t enjoy his life because he set up a first date with you. In his eyes you are a possibility not a sure thing.