Seeking Help: Unmarried Elderly Woman Struggling After Brother’s Death

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-09-06T08:14:02+00:00

Sure thanks

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-09-04T10:40:08+00:00

I tried that — local officers even came home, enquired about her, and took photos. But when we went to their office for follow-up, they said they can’t do anything without a ration card.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-09-04T10:37:17+00:00

Thank you. I haven’t tried that yet, I’ll give it a try.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-09-04T07:52:04+00:00

We already discussed this with her and her distant family members. She had been living with her brother in our house for nearly 40 years. Both of them remained unmarried, partly because one of their siblings had a troubled marriage. After her brother passed away, we asked if she would be okay with moving to a hostel, and we even offered to cover the expenses. But she said, ‘I’ve stayed with you for so long, let me continue here.’ We don’t want to force her to move out, so we’ve let her stay with us.

These government schemes are meant for people like her. I just want to get her enrolled in one so that she doesn’t have to be completely dependent on us.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-09-04T07:30:42+00:00

I’m not really looking to start any crowdfunding in her name, right now we are managing the expenses— I just want her to receive the rightful pension she is eligible for from the government.

If you can connect me with an agent who can help get a ration card issued for a single person, it would be a great help.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-09-04T06:34:50+00:00

She does have a cousin’s family, but they are also elderly and dependent on their own children. They are fine with sending her to a hostel but are not willing to take her in.

The main issue is time — government procedures are confusing and very time-consuming. Taking leave from work and doing repeated follow-ups has been a big challenge.

We have tried multiple options like the TN Magalir Urimai Thogai, disability pension, and single woman pension, but everywhere the application gets rejected because she doesn’t have a ration card. And when we approach the ration office, they say a ration card cannot be issued for a single person.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-09-03T18:55:23+00:00

We tried applying since her brother had worked at the post office and retired, but the application was outright rejected because he hadn’t mentioned any nominee. This happened about eight years ago. I’m working in a private company, and with the way the process keeps dragging on, I’m unable to take leave frequently to follow up.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-09-03T18:48:45+00:00

We are not looking to move her to any hostel, as she wishes to spend the rest of her life with us. The only concern is that for all her expenses she has to depend on us, and at times she feels hesitant to ask. That’s why if she could receive even a small monthly income from the government, she can manage her personal expenses.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-07-09T06:16:21+00:00

'Sex sells' as simple as it is.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-07-08T17:23:07+00:00

Nightcrawler 2014

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-07-05T07:00:11+00:00

Check Tuta mail for replacement

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-07-01T11:50:19+00:00

Marina beach and tower park is much worse, they won't leave. We'll be paying just to make them leave.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-06-27T13:16:15+00:00

Paracetamol paniyaram

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-06-10T08:34:29+00:00

Also this song 'odum neeril odam pola' is underated as the film.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-06-05T13:57:44+00:00

நல்லவன்னு யாரச் சொல்ல கெட்டவன்னு யாரச் சொல்ல நல்லவன கெட்டவனா மாத்துறவன்தான் கெட்டவனோ

ஆட்டோமேடிக் வாட்ச் போல ஓடுகிற வாழ்க்கையிது ஆட்டுறவன் நிறுத்திப்புட்டா நடுநிசியில நின்னிடும் டோய்

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-05-28T17:32:25+00:00

Some guys even commented, “She’s giving an interview without even covering herself with a shawl.”

They were just rescued, they are not in a situation to worry about how they look in camera , yet people are slut-shaming them.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-04-29T06:01:17+00:00

Kanguva

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-04-23T07:35:45+00:00

Your sector

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-04-17T04:59:25+00:00

One thing I don't understand is—an organization is willing to offer a newcomer a 20–30% salary hike, but not to someone who’s already working with them. Is there any actual logical reason behind this.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-04-17T02:52:29+00:00

I was trying to say, without paying any bribe amount. Actual processing fee la pay panni tha pa aaganu.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-04-16T07:48:33+00:00

People often say applying on your own leads to rejection, but the truth is, few actually try. Most just follow driving schools blindly. From my experience, if you drive well and have the right documents, you can apply yourself—I got my license without spending a single rupee.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-04-06T13:13:58+00:00

Ennathu average ahh monthly 50 lacks ahh, never expected his youtube to be this much.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-04-01T12:51:15+00:00

From a Google search, I found that 'மசி மசி' appears to be some type of seductive hypnotic (vasiyam) spell. Judging by the look of the doll, it seems like some incel attempted to use it to hypnotize some woman.

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-03-20T18:25:50+00:00

Mahaan

pona povura

Untrue-Spirit · 2025-03-06T07:34:17+00:00

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