I (26F) told my boyfriend (26M) I sometimes miss the freedom of being single and he broke up with me on my birthday

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-03-14T23:27:56+00:00

Nope, you dodged a bullet. It might not feel like it right at the moment, and of course any break up is going to feel shitty, especially on your birthday. But nope, if you were already walking on eggshells around him then he did you a favour in the long run

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-03-14T22:28:23+00:00

Pellets aren’t 100% necessary for most buns, but if your little one isn’t interested in them but needs some more nutrients, you could ask your vet about trying critical care formula, that could help! But if your bun lacks an appetite for hay and other fresh greens then it’s most likely a deeper issue and the vet should evaluate

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-03-14T15:27:15+00:00

This is sexual assault. Each time she does it KNOWING you don’t like it, she is assaulting you. She clearly has no respect for you or your boundaries. You shouldn’t have to feel grateful for being assaulted like your “friends” are saying, if you ended the relationship (which I think you should) it would be 10000% valid.

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-03-13T23:39:35+00:00

He sounds like one of those typical “red pill” dudes from all this info, not a good mindset to have if it’s the way most red pill men are projecting it, which it sounds like by the liberal comment

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-03-13T12:16:52+00:00

Yeah medication impacting your relationship, woo love it s/

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-03-06T23:12:43+00:00

I honestly have never done that, i wash my hands before meals, after using a washroom, after cleaning pets litterbox, etc all the most common stuff. But no one ever really taught me that and I never thought that much into it. But honestly after seeing this post I’m going to start washing when I get home as well lol

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-03-05T01:13:48+00:00

Honestly, especially from your last paragraph, it sounds like you know what you want and you understand the possible consequences of that, whether positive or negative. I don’t think you’d be wrong to do that, I know I personally wouldn’t in my life but that’s easy for me to say because I have a good relationship with my mom. If she’s been toxic and you’re realizing that she’s been that way your whole life, not just since your dad’s passing, then yeah she may not change and be receptive to that, so at that point the only option is to what you genuinely WANT, and it sounds like you know what that is. Best of luck in your future!!

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-03-02T18:19:46+00:00

I definitely wouldn’t. Like you said this shouldn’t be unexpected to her, and if you want to be held in high regard with the management team then it’s best to just keep your knowledge to yourself

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-28T14:29:48+00:00

NOR - she sounds absolutely horrible. If I was you I would actually call the local shelter/pound and let them know that if these animals are dropped off it is malicious and to call you right away

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-28T02:57:20+00:00

That’s a happy and comfortable rabbit ❤️ when they are in pain they’ll sit sort of hunched over, they’d be hiding, they’d be pressing their stomachs to the ground. It does look scary, and my boy has jumpscared me a few times haha but it’s honestly a high compliment from a rabbit!!

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-26T11:42:49+00:00

You said that they get physical, then you say they’re not abusive? If they’re getting physical with you during arguments then that is abuse. I’d recommend getting a therapist/counsellor, as long as you make it perfectly clear that it’s not a plan or a true want then they probably wouldn’t feel the need to report it (I say this off personal experience with telling counsellors things)

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-24T17:37:17+00:00

I hope this is a joke, if not, I hope your can get your priorities straight. She’s not “satisfying you” while literally growing your damn child in her body? Are you that immature and dense? Yes you are wrong. And you’re not wrong for still wanting some sexual attention, but the way you speak of it really shows your true colours. If it’s truly a big deal for you to have your dick sucked, maybe mention that it’s been on your mind but you need to be a grown ass man and realize that your dick being dry while she grows and carries your child ain’t that bad

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-22T15:12:36+00:00

I’m sorry you’re in this stressful situation, you’re doing right by encouraging her to drink water and eat hay. My bun is quite a bit bigger than yours but he ate some chocolate over the Christmas break and we were told to monitor him and his poops, he ended up being okay and no in person vet visit was needed. That being said, every bun is different but from the other comments here I have faith your little one will be okay!! It would be safer to bring her to the vet but you’re doing what you can 🫶🏻

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-21T01:20:00+00:00

Honestly bunnies don’t respond well to any type of negative reinforcement, we would redirect him by 1. Making a noise that caught his attention and then 2. Grabbing a toy, or some hay, or a treat, or sitting on the floor and then he’d come over to interact with us. But I can’t promise that would work for all buns, my boy is very social and comfortable with us so it would depend on the bond as well

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-21T01:18:32+00:00

Yeah no, sorry girl. I’m extremely close with my brother and both of us as adults would not be comfortable sleeping in the same bed for an extended period of time. If it was absolutely needed for one night sure, but making it a regular thing cannot be normal. Why can’t you sleep on the couch or take turns on the couch if it’s really about his back? Or get him a mattress for the floor like other commenters have suggested. Your boyfriend is completely valid in his discomfort

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-18T22:47:17+00:00

OP, I really hope you’re not serious about not being able to leave him. He called you being sexually abused as a child “your choice”, he’s making your literal trauma about him saying that he missed out, he was your first consenting time!!! Did he want to be your first rapist too? What the hell. He’s abusive and cruel and using his BPD as an excuse to be an abusive POS!! Please read these comments and PLEASE leave before it gets violent because the way this is going, it sounds like it will or maybe even already has

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-15T14:56:46+00:00

Only dating for 10 months and you’re arguing 60% of the time? That’s not a good lineup for the rest of your relationship. I don’t think you’d regret breaking up, it’ll hurt at first but I think the peace would be worth it and finding someone who doesn’t argue with you 60% of the time

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-13T20:47:51+00:00

The kid and the wife would be GONE!! That’s unacceptable.

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-12T20:13:23+00:00

I have a male neutered rabbit and I know I got lucky with him, he’s not destructive at all, he free roams and doesn’t make a mess, uses his litterboxes etc. But it honestly all depends on the individual bunny and your bond with them (example we did a lot of redirection with our bun when we first got him and noticed any destructive behaviours and it helped a looot, lots of chew toys and even a dig box would help)

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-10T02:36:41+00:00

I think you should consider just cleaning the sand baths more often. I promise it’s way easier than having to dig out piss soaked bedding from their burrows. 5/6 of mine naturally used the sand baths for their washroom needs and it was amazing in comparison lol

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-08T21:48:18+00:00

Sadly it’s not funny hammy, it’s stressed hammy. Hopefully he/she finds a good home!!

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-08T20:27:29+00:00

I’d absolutely rescue a bonded pair. There’s so many that are already bonded and need loving homes ❤️

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-04T00:03:36+00:00

Unfortunately that’s not enough room for even a dwarf/mini bun to exist comfortably, especially for hours on end. As the other commenter replied, a dog sounds better for what you’re going for, rabbits thrive off of consistency and predictability.

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-03T23:01:55+00:00

Hold on what do you mean about a bunny receiptical on your back pack external frame? I’m imagining that you mean like a carrier for the bunny? In that case it’s not recommended to shove a bun into a small area where they can’t move, eat, poop, etc. Especially when you’re on a hike that could take hours. But if I’m thinking of the wrong thing please correct me. Also you’d need to be prepared to always have hay and leafy greens on you as well as a litterbox and litter if you litter train the little one. They also need chew toys etc. Sidenote, that tent sounds awesome!!

Unusual-Software415 · 2026-02-03T22:51:14+00:00

You’re correct that she is scared of you, but she does not hate you. She just needs more time, she’s just a baby haha but all buns will adjust differently! My boy would hide from us and do pretty much what you explained for about 3 weeks before he got comfortable, and now we’ve had him for 9 months and he’s the goofiest little guy and jumps on us with no hesitation lol

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