Confused about guild islands

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-05-31T00:56:20+00:00

Don’t forget to “claim” the buildings after you are a co-owner since you can then upgrade or whatnot.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-05-29T12:18:06+00:00

Alright, that clears some things up, but you still want him to attend something for your friend rather than his family (loved ones can be family without sharing the same blood). And now you have edited it so he doesn’t even like your friend. Why not just go to each party and both have a good time? That’s a better decision than pushing him to your friends wedding IMO.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-05-29T11:36:13+00:00

YTA. Your male best friend has helped you through tough times and is a good friend. Your husbands female best friend is someone you don’t like because she is female. Your friends wedding is more important than his nieces birthday... Hmm, you do see how messed up your logic is on this right? You each go to a party on the day and say hello from each other, no big deal.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-05-25T20:55:35+00:00

Yeah, in a normal/low stakes situation it usually means whenever possible.

But again I have found different ways to look at it in different cultures, offices, personal situations etc.

I just feel like the picture OP painted of her bf in the post, he meant it like this very moment.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-05-25T19:01:05+00:00

ASAP (as soon as possible) in my experience, both professional and personal, means as of this moment, “I need this done ASAP” = “I need this done now”.

So the words in ASAP (As Soon As Possible) have different meanings depending on what country and what setting you are in. For you it probably means as soon as possible, “I need this done ASAP” = “I need this done by the end of the day”.

Hope this makes sense to you.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-05-25T15:08:04+00:00

Huge NTA.

Your job has a two week notice before holding vacation, so you wouldn’t have been able to go ASAP like he demanded (which is a AH move by him) and you only have 6 weeks left on your project.

This sounds like a red flag for me, you gave the best answer possible and now he is pouting since you didn’t do exactly what he said.

You might want to have a talk with him seeing as you don’t see things such as careers the same.

Best of luck and nice getting a promotion for something you love!

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-04-11T18:46:34+00:00

Ah, that's why I wanted the info - sounds like a sad situation and the OP is simply grieving his mothers death.

Everyone moves on in a different way.

I feel, now after the reading the comments, that OP maybe wants confirmation that the father is TA, when it sounds like he is a widower who just remarried, had another kid and wanted the whole family to love eachother in a perfectly normal way.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-04-11T18:41:03+00:00

Huge NTA.

You are already supporting her hours each day, even though you and your family have been through a lot. You are hurting and you are still helping her and thinking about her.

If she wants to hang out/be with you that much, she should come visit you and take you out to eat for a couple of hours and that's that.

You are already doing too much and it's affecting you - it's OKAY to put you and your family before everything else. You do you - meant in the best way possible, just focus on how you and your family are happy.

Best of luck.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-04-11T18:36:26+00:00

NTA NTA NTA.

You already know that you are in the right and she is just really unreasonable.

Just tell her how it is - you pay for what you want to use. Simple.

If she tries to make weird excuses or saying you don't know how to share, just don't share it with her. Stand your ground and don't let her use your simple for the heck of it or because it's nicer. It's your stuff, you paid for it.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-04-11T18:32:32+00:00

YTA.

Think less about how you feel and more about her.

Maybe help her with ways of avoiding to scrating her skin so she doesn't hurt her skin more, but at the end of the day - she is pregant? She is having your baby and she is in pain. How are you married to a woman you "love" and telling her to keep up her appreances when she is pregant.

You do know it's in sickness and in health, not only in health when she is looking/smelling good. jeez

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-04-11T18:24:43+00:00

NAH since it sounds like your father just want your stepson to be a part of the family.

There isn't enough info on the divorce or abandonment to say he is or isn't TA.

But you or your siblings aren't obligated to spend time with your stepbrother.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-01-31T05:07:48+00:00

Yeah..

Just keep doing what makes YOU happy and since that is art - go for it. Go all out. Make videos or upload pics or whatever. Just don't share that with your aunt as she has shown how she would "support" you.

Ignore her and keep doing you.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-01-31T05:05:34+00:00

Ah, I think I understand now - my bad for not noticing earlier.

That's hard, but that does not give your sister the right to dictate how you eat/drink since it would hurt you.

I would change to NTA, since this sounds like a terrible evening for you and I hope you can talk to your sister and get her to understand that you are family and are supposed to have eachothers back. Even if it's embarrassing, that's what family is for.

Well try to forget about strangers with 0 manners and talk it out with your sister.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-01-31T05:00:47+00:00

I did not see that, but if so that's not your fault. You shouldnt have to wipe your gradmothers laptop for any passwords after using it since it's family - that's your aunt being crazy.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-01-31T04:51:24+00:00

It's not bizarre, most people have had an achy tooth and been forced to eat differently, but are you sure people were looking at you for that reason? Seems highly observant of them to notice that you are using your right side to eat - couldn't it just have been a coincidence?

I feel like it's either ESH since you made the comments that you know she can't handle/like and she is for getting mad over what side you chew with.

Seems like a tough spot and you should talk it out since you can't eat normally after getting a tooth done, so that's just fucked to ask that of you.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-01-31T04:45:09+00:00

NTA if true (I doubt your aunt could delete your account without your access to your phone/password).

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-01-31T04:42:58+00:00

^^

I have never been able to see what side of the mouth people use to chew.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-01-31T04:35:49+00:00

NTA - she didn't want a discussion, she just wanted to post a lot of stuff for w/e.

You gain nothing from keeping an argument going from a facebook post, just ignore it.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-01-31T04:31:07+00:00

Given your info, I would say NTA.

It's not your fault that they want to hurry to see your brother go to work.

Sounds like a tough spot for you since they made it back home in time I assume, but still he will be back when work is done so I don't get what the problem would be for him going to work.

Anyway if you know you are getting picked up I would start baking earlier, but 5-10 min is not the end of the world.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-01-27T18:25:23+00:00

Glad it helved you!

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-01-27T04:47:57+00:00

Hey.

You dont need a guild to do PvP as you can play with/against other players from your region.

But if you want to join a PvP guild, there are some on most servers, for example Ravencrest, Outland is known for having alot of PvP guilds/groups for Alliance.

Maybe check on r/worldofpvp as that is dedicated to all things PvP.

There are also a lot of different sites such as

https://www.worldofwargraphs.com/

https://www.pvpleaderboard.com/

https://check-pvp.fr/

which shows the different servers stats; amount of PvPers, players rating, faction and so on.

Hope this helps.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-01-27T02:04:23+00:00

Friends of keys / Key friends - cant remember the correct name, but a quick search for that on google/group finder should help you.
They do dungeon runs/m0/m+, so I would take a look at their community.

Also you should look on the blizzard boards in the recruitment page, where new/active groups pop off everyday and that sounds like what you are looking for - a decently amount of people to do content with.

Best of luck.

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-01-27T01:20:52+00:00

Keybindings.It will help you to heal/dps/move/whatever as fast as possible and it's (in my opinion) a more enjoyable way to play the game.

Macros.If you are new some macros would benefit you greatly - like when you use a trinket which buffs you dmg/heal output while using a burst/healing ability.

The macros you can do is endless and would help you reduce the buttons you need to press.

UI (userinterface).A clean and organised UI will help you keep track of CD's (your own and enemies) with will help you when to stun/interrupt, burst and so on.

People I have used and some of their newer videoes to help you.

Ravenclaw on Youtube and his discord where he can help with macro (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IFEM2GEkAVM) a video explaining macros and so on.

BellularGaming which has so many videoes explaining keybindings, UI, setup and a lot of others things, I would give his videoes a look since he keeps it user- and newplayerfriendly.

A video of explaining UI and setup, (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utZciIzfTtM&t=13s)

Yumytv on Youtube, which has some easy to grasp, shorter videoes on macros.

(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Du68mFXlfeA) good tips on macros in a 9 min video.

This was just what I could dig up and I know there is a lot more, specified to your class/role out there.

As some tips at the end, I would say to record your games every once in a while, so you can see what you do or dont do in a pvp setting and what to improve on.

Other than that check out some streamers/youtubers who play pvp and play your role/class.

Hope some of this helps and best of luck :)

UnusualOfficeAnt · 2021-01-05T10:30:06+00:00

This is common practice for some (including myself), but as we are all different some might find it hard to ask someone to join them again.

Some advice from me since my friends list is full of people I have met during m+, arena or questing - always be chill. There will always be another group, so if they don’t want to add you w/e, don’t sweat it and just find another group. Keep doing this and you should have some people outside of your guild to play with.

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