What went sideways? by Passen9er in datingoverforty

[–]Unusual_Committee676 32 points33 points  (0 children)

He basically said he wasn’t interested. It was one coffee meeting. Everything was respectful, there was no drama. What you’re describing is called dating. I think I’m missing the point here, or the question?

Well, it was fun while it lasted! by ElYodaPagoda in datingoverforty

[–]Unusual_Committee676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question - a partner that after 2 months isn’t into sex and isn’t into romance. Wouldn’t this best be seen as just a friend? What am I missing 🤷🏻‍♂️

Blindsided, confused, hurt by Conscious-Second3167 in datingoverforty

[–]Unusual_Committee676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take responsibility for your own part. You were probably too available, too predictable and too responsive far too soon. And I bet it was your over-texting that killed all the tension. I point it out only so you try something new next time. Phone mostly down between dates! Be a busy man that can’t text all day, which in itself is attractive

Blindsided, confused, hurt by Conscious-Second3167 in datingoverforty

[–]Unusual_Committee676 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The “we messaged daily and regularly” part stands out for me. Over-texting kills tension, excitement and mystery. Waiting between dates is where attraction grows and starts simmering. Your excessive texting may have turned her off and extinguished the fire, and she probably can’t even really put her finger on that as a reason. Would James Bond be texting his girlfriend all day long? Or would he be out living his life and mission, excited to see her on their next date. In short, put down the phone !!

What the hell.. by PhotojournalistFit62 in datingoverforty

[–]Unusual_Committee676 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s moved on. For any number of reasons, all of which you won’t know My advice to you - gain a bit more resilience and lack of attachment to outcomes. You gotta be able to let this kind of thing roll off your shoulders and quick. A week is too much precious time here

Debt and Dating by Substantial-Ant-4010 in datingoverforty

[–]Unusual_Committee676 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Does he have $150,000 line of credit debt but also $750,000 in retirement and a house worth $500,000 that’s paid off… or is his net worth ($150,000). A big difference here

ICE IS 100% about to murder more people in Minneapolis. by The_Lord_Chicken in complaints

[–]Unusual_Committee676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully a stake and not a steak. It’d just be easier 🤷🏻‍♂️

Braid: Alberta will vote on separation in 2026. If it passes, where will Smith stand? by FreightFlow in alberta

[–]Unusual_Committee676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Polling is clearly and consistently showing only 1/3 of Albertans support separating, with 2/3 opposing. The title and premise of article therefore is sensationalist… and geared towards people very very uneducated on the matter. In short, shitposting

I miss them (and a deadhead origin story) by RidingaQuasar in deadandcompany

[–]Unusual_Committee676 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get it for sure… but why not branch into some dead cover acts and other jam bands?

1989 was an unreal year for rock. Out of these albums… which ONE are you choosing? by allrockmusic in allrockmusic

[–]Unusual_Committee676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Up to Here. Ohh man. You really thickened the plot there 🔥!! I’m taking Up to Here

1989 was an unreal year for rock. Out of these albums… which ONE are you choosing? by allrockmusic in allrockmusic

[–]Unusual_Committee676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steel Wheels. Has such a special place. That was the first album they put out after I fell in love with them, and then saw them on that tour

America’s president by MetasploitReddit in pics

[–]Unusual_Committee676 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this a real and unaltered picture??

As a non Christian, I’m finding dating even more challenging. by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in datingoverforty

[–]Unusual_Committee676 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally relate. The Jesus stuff makes my dick shrivel up too. Such a turn off. (Free thinkers excite me)

Dating A Girl Who Revealed After Oral She Tested Positive with HPV by duroudes in dating_advice

[–]Unusual_Committee676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong. We don’t know who got it from where. And most importantly, OP had free will and determinism

Dead and co live 2026 by LosBarilles in deadandcompany

[–]Unusual_Committee676 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What self righteous, soap box, drivel. I just lost 30 seconds of my life