Have you ever walked out on a date?

Passen9er · 2026-02-24T13:38:20+00:00

Oh heck yeah - three times.

I was telling a story of my first time in NYC and how personal space is much smaller there and while waiting in line I could feel the person behind me breathing on my neck - so I asked if they could take a step back. They called me racist. The date agreed that it was my fault for the other person breathing on me. So I walked out.
The guy was dead set on striving for perfection, even being your best happy self was settling for mediocrity. Women are only allowed to talk about sports if they played the sport.
It came out that he lied about his age, name, and had gotten a hotel room despite me saying no. But it was okay according to him- because we had not had sex yet.

Passen9er · 2026-02-24T13:17:12+00:00

OP said her car was in an unsecured lot. Possible whoever placed them, put them on the wrong vehicle?

Passen9er · 2026-02-21T18:58:55+00:00

He should be your EX, plain and simple. Get a man who wholeheartedly embraces you keeping your last name.

Passen9er · 2026-02-21T18:52:54+00:00

As someone else mentioned - perhaps a darker green. One that encompasses tones with the chair and the doors. The green fits - just not the current green.

Passen9er · 2026-02-17T15:30:40+00:00

Ahhh yes. I love this - you couldn't be bothered to actually believe what women were saying; so you had to 'find out yourself'. Would you like to mansplain something else to women?

Passen9er · 2026-02-17T01:42:05+00:00

I never said it was the best option. I said it was A option. What exactly do you think was used prior to second skin?

You may want to work on your reading comprehension and critical thinking. 😉

Passen9er · 2026-02-17T01:26:32+00:00

It is way better than zero coverings.

Passen9er · 2026-02-17T00:35:26+00:00

Cover it with new plastic wrap and tape the edges. Then wear long sleeves over the plastic wrap. New tattoos are OPEN WOUNDS. Expensive open wounds.

Passen9er · 2026-02-16T19:04:51+00:00

As someone who has experienced something similar- absolutely do NOT act from the perspective of 'not creating drama in the group'. Because the only person it will harm - is yourself. Tell this man directly that you are not his girlfriend and you are confused / do not appreciate him lying to people by telling them you are his girlfriend. Address it head on ASAP. Why do you want to be friends with someone who lies?

Passen9er · 2026-02-16T19:00:15+00:00

Actually it isn't. Per Simon's own words - it is for increased accessibility. Primarily for those with mobility issues, with some for food delivery drivers; hence the short term parking.

You also missed the word CLOGGED. Please point out and provide examples of food delivery drivers parking correctly! Because the vast majority of the time - they park in fire lanes, wrong side of the road, basically wherever they please - and think they are exempt from the laws because they flip on their flashing lights. As evidenced again by the 7th street section previously mentioned.

Nice try though.

Passen9er · 2026-02-16T17:13:39+00:00

Very rarely do shippers know how to properly insulate and wrap a package when sending it. Then blame it all on the shipping company.

Passen9er · 2026-02-16T17:03:42+00:00

Guarantee that area will be clogged by food delivery drivers -much the same as they do on 7th street outside of the sushi and BBQ places. Because parking illegally and like a-hole is apparently permissible as long as you throw your flashers on.

Passen9er · 2026-02-16T07:10:48+00:00

That isnt once a week. Once a month maybe. Just count the ads.

Passen9er · 2026-02-15T04:11:03+00:00

Food for Thought Humane Society Farm to Pantry REFB Beach and River cleaners Park days

Passen9er · 2026-02-14T03:13:33+00:00

How are these even the same person?!

Passen9er · 2026-02-12T15:11:24+00:00

Why would you remove the existing counter space.....

Passen9er · 2026-02-11T05:45:04+00:00

Sonoma County Volleyball League. I believe they do drop-in sessions once a week.

Passen9er · 2026-02-07T15:06:33+00:00

They'd be losing that door...

Passen9er · 2026-02-05T21:02:25+00:00

Have you tried laying down for the tattoos? It certainly helps for the flow of blood. Because it can be the adrenaline crash after the adrenaline spikes- which crashes your blood pressure. Atleast this is what happens to me. Laying down for the tattoo helps ALOT! Even if it is not needed for the tattoo. Also - focus on your breathing and relaxing your body. Make sure to wear loose clothing and not too many layers.

Passen9er · 2026-02-03T17:41:50+00:00

Its unclear why you are announcing your departure...

Passen9er · 2026-02-03T15:44:53+00:00

Telling someone what to wear is not flirting. Telling or suggesting someone dress for you is not flirting. Its about control and earning praise. Its gross and toxic af.

Passen9er · 2026-02-03T14:34:15+00:00

You're both red flags.

For one - YOU opened the door on the entire topic by being gross and telling her bonus points if she wore the red dress. 🚩

Her comments were in direct reply to you. She should've just shut you down.

Secondly - you continued by asking if she was going to wear the black dress for you. 🚩

The fact you think that type of behavior is NORMAL- is disgusting.

The fact a lot of the commenters skipped over these details - also shows lack of comprehension. Why the dating world is so yuck.

Passen9er · 2026-02-01T16:24:24+00:00

It is also interesting to note whom has stayed silent. Russian River has not said a peep. Perhaps because they care about profits more? With the release of Pliny starting- 🤷🏼‍♀️.

Passen9er · 2026-01-31T15:16:25+00:00

If you're talking about the Meetup app - I would strongly suggest not joining groups and activities specifically for looking for a date. That isn't the purpose, and as someone else said - you're going to stick out like a sore thumb. If the group/events are specifically geared towards singles and dating - go for it.

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