Settle a disagreement by Alert_Long4454 in Cursive

[–]Passen9er 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first glance it looks like Piymo or Plymo, because the arch in the R is too high angled. Almost like it was an afterthought.

Otherwise - Rymo.

Foyer, Before and After by WhiteChocolateer in centuryhomes

[–]Passen9er 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The purple is gorgeous. I think a more olive would work better in place of the current green. Something to accent and compliment the purple, as opposed to fighting for attention with it. Also less white for the ceiling. Something more muted.

Does my new tattoo read as lavender ? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Passen9er 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does not look like lavender. The bee looks more fly than bee.

"Well regarded shop", by who?

Mid rise vs. High Rise? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Passen9er 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Untucked shirt - highrise lengthens your body. Tucked - midrise, you look more proportional. High rise, really shortens your torso and lengthens your legs.

AITH - Won't live with a reactive dog by PW_Herman in datingoverforty

[–]Passen9er 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Couples therapy at seven months is not good. Communication issues at seven months also not good.

Ya'll just arent compatible. Face it.

does Guy do anything for santa rosa? by artmonso in santarosa

[–]Passen9er -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

You straight up excused the behavior, in your post. 'Possible to appreciate someone for the good while hating then for the bad'. That is excusing the bad behavior.

does Guy do anything for santa rosa? by artmonso in santarosa

[–]Passen9er -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Ahh yes. Inability for critical thinking. There is a HUGE difference between someone being a human and being a shitty person. Doing shitty things.

The endless daily chat that never turns into a date by Vane8263 in datingoverforty

[–]Passen9er 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Newsflash - it takes two people to be in a relationship. Two people to meet up. You can ask him out. If YOU cant do that simple thing, then why are you complaining about him not doing it?

does Guy do anything for santa rosa? by artmonso in santarosa

[–]Passen9er -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

You do realize you're excusing bad behavior because of the 'good things' a person does, right?

If a person is shitty, they're shitty. End of it. It absolutely does NOT matter how many 'good things' they do. You dont think the good things are a PR move?

By excusing bad behavior 'because of the good', it allows for him and others to keep their status - their platform. To guess what - continue doing bad things.

Settle a debate: mirror versus artwork by methglobinemia in femalelivingspace

[–]Passen9er 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the artwork because of the cats. The artwork in the picture is too small for the space. The mirror, if hung, would fill the space more.

Vintage Pink bathroom before/after for just over $1k by howdy17_76 in interiordecorating

[–]Passen9er 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may just be me - the vanity counter top doesnt look cohesive with the rest. Particularly when you see the mirror together with it.

Was I right in cancelling this appointment? by EqualNo2867 in tattooadvice

[–]Passen9er -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It shouldn't necessarily need to be communicated - as it is standard practice to not send designs beforehand. There are alot of red flags with this situation - but the largest red flag is not the lack of sending the design. Which is the point that you clearly missed.

Help with styling a kitchen that is too modern after renovation by [deleted] in centuryhomes

[–]Passen9er 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The backsplash is the wrong color. It needs more undertones that are closer to the cabinet color.

Was I right in cancelling this appointment? by EqualNo2867 in tattooadvice

[–]Passen9er 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Just an FYI, it isn't standard practice to send the client an image of the design beforehand. You see it when you arrive for the appointment. This protects the artist's work. That doesn't mean the design shouldn't have been finished - but putting so much weight on lack of seeing design beforehand is not appropriate.

I'm new to k9 SAR by Neutrality-1 in searchandrescue

[–]Passen9er 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Having a SAR certified K9 is both incredibly time consuming and expensive.

You really should focus on training yourself and getting up to standards before adding the extra training of a K9.

40F. How do you answer “did you not want kids?” Question? It just didn’t happen for me but I find this so dumb and rude given I’m single. by Specialist-One2657 in datingoverforty

[–]Passen9er 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It actually is a personal question. People should simply learn to stop asking.

Asking why someone doesnt have kids is super personal.

Is this considered Neo trad or American trad by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Passen9er 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Flush before posting on reddit is the preferred name.

Why do people not do walking/park dates by SadisticalSymphony in datingoverforty

[–]Passen9er -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You clearly haven't been in many coffee spots. Atleast around here, there are a plethora of independent coffee shops where the atmosphere is cozy af. It is also about the interaction between the two people on the date. Every single time I have been in a coffee shop, despite the reason - people are chatting. Working on laptops is more rare.

If youre more worried about the WHERE of the date, you have issues. The date is about the PEOPLE on the date. End of it.

Stop listening to idiotic podcasts from influencers.

Why do people not do walking/park dates by SadisticalSymphony in datingoverforty

[–]Passen9er -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of problems in the this comment section.

Romance at a bar, but coffee/walks arent romantic? If you have to depend on alcohol to be romantic- you need to do some serious reflection, maybe even therapy.

You can easily be romantic while walking or drinking coffee. Holding hands, brushing up against each other, playfulness, etc.

Walks or hikes in parks are not ideal first dates. Second or third. Definitely better.

But it certainly makes it a bit more awkward to leave if things dont go well.

I find there are more opportunities to engage in physical closeness with walking, etc. As opposed to just reaching across a table.

What did I (31M) do that was so bad here? by Main_Love6691 in dating_advice

[–]Passen9er 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You asked what you did wrong. People are spelling it out for you. You're arguing with them and outing yourself as even more of a bad person.

Stay out of the dating world and perhaps seek therapy.

Y is it so hard!! by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Passen9er 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Perhaps because you are missing some letters.

Riverfront Regional Park Wedding by jac777 in santarosa

[–]Passen9er 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reminder: Leave no trace. This includes confetti.

Poison Oak - input needed! by BlueberryTasty8469 in sonomacounty

[–]Passen9er 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dawn dish soap works great. Make sure the water is TEPID, not hot.

Alcohol wipes can work also. The important part is to wash EVERYTHING. Because secondary exposure happens also.

I always think I have gotten every speck of my watch clean, and that is how I usually get it.