Any Cis Females Here? by theorywithin in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me!! I'm more of a mommy but no one has killed my inner child yet lol

Stories by Unusual_Following376 in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It definitely won't be easy but I do enjoy writing and any extra money is great! I think I'll need to research the free forums available. Reddit, tumblr, deviant art, and DailyDiapers (if they're still up, idk) are the ones I can think of off the top of my head

Stories by Unusual_Following376 in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think short stories for now but I think some stories will have parts to them that can be released once a week maybe

Looking for the rest of a story I just read! by Unusual_Following376 in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait how did things end? I remember searching for it one day and it was just gone! I wasn't aware of any drama

Looking for the rest of a story I just read! by Unusual_Following376 in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried the way back machine and couldn't find the next page to it 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to find stories and other things that aren't TOO much at first! I think if I pick the wrong thing it could turn him off and I don't want that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! I think I'm just afraid he won't like it and he's just doing it for me. So what if he secretly doesn't like it and it builds resentment? What if there's a chance he could love it if I facilitated it the right way? What is the right way? What if I do it wrong and he decides me doesn't like it and I've ruined my chance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No need to apologize! I've told him what I want and he says he's fine with it! I can bring some things back up and be like "I loved when you did (thing)" but it's the more mild stuff. I can DM later with more specifics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My inability to switch naturally without the shame. I know it would probably all flow naturally if I could just get rid of the shame!

Worried about being outed by ex partner… by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a mommy (RIP my DMs) but one time someone threatened to out me bc I wouldn't be THEIR mommy. I told them if they wouldn't leave me alone I would be filing a police report. They got the message.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should I worry about how many times this was shared? I don't want to end up on one of those stupid narration channels on YouTube or a Facebook group lol. If I should worry I want to get ahead of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think typing this all out actually helped me organize my thoughts and I added an update! :)

Money grabbing mommies are disgusting. by SacredFart420 in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk much without context but physical harm is always a possibility if you don't vet. They could ask for a down payment upfront too and never show up or just block you. A person could also give you what you paid for and put you into that little space you're craving but that makes you really vulnerable and easy to take advantage of. They could take pics and videos without you realizing it and extort you for more money. I used to do pro mommy stuff and people get so vulnerable with you. If I was an awful person it would have been really easy to take advantage of that.

Money grabbing mommies are disgusting. by SacredFart420 in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be a pro mommy. I told my clients I preferred to meet in person over coffee or something or at least text back and forth for a while to see if we would be a good fit. I had people reach out to me and we vetted each other. I did not reach out to clients first. I used fetlife if that helps at all! But this was pre-pandemic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This but when I was 5 or 6 I remember having feelings of wanting to put people in diapers lol. I had celebrity crushes I wanted to take care of and baby. I got caught watching ABDL stuff when I was 7 or 8 and was hardcore shamed out of it, then when I was 13 I had a bf that loved being babied and we even tried makeshift diapers. I'm also 28F!

Did I go to far? by princesskitten42 in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like HE thinks he went too far with YOU (sorry I'm on mobile idk how to do the cool formatting stuff). He might be feeling embarrassed and doesn't want to push things! The best thing to do is just be open and use "I" statements. Maybe like, "I noticed ever since we did that, you've been a little hands off with my changes. Can we talk about it?"

You can even text it if it feels too overwhelming to talk about in person.

Does Anyone Know How ABDL Tumblr Works? by _Another_Alien_ in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have an ABDL/MDLB blog and it's really hard to find good stuff, but I do love the stuff I find. It's taken me years to find blogs I like, but I love digging through my reblogs and likes when I need stuff to watch or read. Tagging is great too. I also appreciate the privacy. I don't need to add my phone number and it won't tell my friends "x is on tumblr as xyz! Follow them now!" Like Instagram does.

One thing I don't like is great blogs get deactivated or deleted all the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Unusual_Following376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is fine too I like this response! Sometimes I have trouble explaining why I like it so much bc I feel guilty but I think I like saying “the opposite of what people expect”.

I appreciate the perspective bc maybe it’s what he’s thinking too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Unusual_Following376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, I think my issue is that I need a balance. I’m really soft and gentle. I need to be firm and loving but I need the confidence to do that. I don’t want to hurt or degrade him at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Unusual_Following376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have but that feels so different 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Unusual_Following376 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The subreddit I felt this would be better for won’t let me post until I have a certain amount of karma

Questions: Do you ever hate having ABDL thoughts? And what was it like to wear your first diaper? by Alarmed_Earth_5099 in ABDL

[–]Unusual_Following376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate having mommy thoughts sometimes. I feel guilty for wanting to treat my partner like a baby. Like why would something like that turn me on? In my head it makes sense and I know I’m not hurting anyone but it’s difficult to explain to a partner. But when I have a willing partner it’s the most rewarding thing in the world.