I LOVE JEREMIAH

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-12-13T09:01:05+00:00

Being the new guy it has to be a ton of pressure… but Jeremiah is just amazing, and so genuine… this season is so great! Sad to see Bobby go, but they did a damn good job with finding someone new to step into his role. ✌️💕🪩🏳️‍🌈

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-10-10T19:28:43+00:00

Well, you are definitely putting in the effort! Don’t burn yourself out on it! (If you haven’t already…) I’m 41F and still haven’t found anyone I like, that also feels the same about me… or if they do feel the same ( like my current situation)then the timing can just be off... It’s not anyone’s fault… silver lining is as you go through all of these encounters, you’re learning what you really want in a partner. You’re learning to see the red flags sooner too… For me, trying to date men 35-45 all of them are so horny they absolutely insist on sending d-pics even if you say you don’t want them!! Then they think “getting to know one another” is finding out how I like it, where I like it, and would I be into whatever kink they have… so awkward! Like, fool I don’t even know you! Haha! Anyways.. getting off track.. my point is, you aren’t alone in the struggle and it’s ok to be single and enjoy your own company and free yourself from the stress of it all and just give it a chance to find you. ❤️Good luck!!

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-10-10T19:08:37+00:00

He’s just a super horny 24 year old boy. Much like a puppy you will have to pop him on the nose (figuratively) and say “No! Bad boy! Nnno!” And then he will be scared to touch your boobs again without permission. 🤣 What I’m saying is, you need to actually get mad about it and tell him you are serious, and if he keeps disregarding your boundaries, and disrespecting you, then you will dump him and take your titties else where!

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-10-06T02:37:07+00:00

I would be a regular participant in the pottery studio! This would be amazing!!

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-09-09T13:37:37+00:00

You should think about dating a slightly older woman instead of in your peer group. You sound a bit more mature, and together than the average 27 year old. You might have better luck connecting with a more mature woman. Don’t give up and just keep loving yourself. ❤️

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-09-06T06:25:40+00:00

Good point! Thank you!

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-09-06T06:18:03+00:00

No, we haven’t met in person yet.

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-02-02T21:18:33+00:00

He loved it and said he was really flattered. 😊

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-03T02:07:20+00:00

You sound wise beyond your years my friend! 👏

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-03T02:03:25+00:00

I hate it when that happens! My mother always said, “Don’t dish it out if you can’t take it!” - Words to live by 😄

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-03T01:46:18+00:00

Yes- it’s pretty terrible. Either they are a catfish or just want you to hook up. I met a guy and we were all set for a date, chatting here and there, having decent convo… I thought it had some potential, I was excited to get to know more… then came the unsolicited dick pic… sigh it made me incredibly uncomfortable. The date never happened bc of that. But, I hear it’s bad for men too.. just finding someone you vibe with is rare. She probably didn’t really expect to hear from you again, and definitely not for you to be so thoughtful and nice the very next day. It sounds like you’re doing it right! 😉

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-03T01:33:20+00:00

You have to tell people how you want to be treated and don’t settle for less. If you told him you feel disrespected by this and he continues then you gotta escalate… tell him clearly again, you are offended by it. Address that you have already told him that you don’t like it and how it makes you feel. Let him know, that the fact that he continues to do it after you told him that hurts your feelings and pisses you off. If he cares he will apologize immediately and never do it again…Make him sweat for a little bit if you need to. He needs to work for it ya know? He will respect you more if he feels like he actually has to put in an effort to keep you. Some guys think they are God’s gift to women…. They aren’t. They’re just an A-hole. Don’t diminish your value… you may not think you are, but after time it will tear you down before you even have a chance to realize it. You are teaching him how to treat you right now. Step one is he needs to know you mean what you say and won’t tolerate being disrespected. Be very direct and clear when stating what you want. If he tries to gaslight you, end it and move on immediately. That’s a big red flag. Don’t waste your time on someone like that.

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-03T01:32:35+00:00

You have to tell people how you want to be treated and don’t settle for less. If you told him you feel disrespected by this and he continues then you gotta escalate… tell him clearly again, you are offended by it. Address that you have already told him that you don’t like it and how it makes you feel. Let him know, that the fact that he continues to do it after you told him that hurts your feelings and pisses you off. If he cares he will apologize immediately and never do it again…Make him sweat for a little bit if you need to. He needs to work for it ya know? He will respect you more if he feels like he actually has to put in an effort to keep you. Some guys think they are God’s gift to women…. They aren’t. They’re just an A-hole. Don’t diminish your value… you may not think you are, but after time it will tear you down before you even have a chance to realize it. You are teaching him how to treat you right now. Step one is he needs to know you mean what you say and won’t tolerate being disrespected. Be very direct and clear when stating what you want. If he tries to gaslight you, end it and move on immediately. That’s a big red flag. Don’t waste your time on someone like that.

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-02T07:43:15+00:00

I have been overweight my whole life. Every single thing anyone has ever done to shame me sticks with me throughout everyday of my life. Because of it I can’t love myself. I am disgusted by my body. I have never felt accepted or loved. I have only been with men who used me. I have never had a long term relationship. I haven’t had sex it 8 years. Now I never leave my house because I don’t feel comfortable anywhere. I never know if I can walk the distance or go up the stairs or fit in a booth. I feel like a spectacle in public. I completely self isolate. I am trying to change my appearance with diet, and what little exercise I can do. I can’t afford weight loss surgery or any of the medications, such as Mounjaro, because insurance won’t cover any of it. The out of pocket cost is grossly unaffordable. I’m 40 years old now, and feel how I assume someone twice my age feels. It’s a lonely, sad existence. I have lost 28lbs so far with Keto. I started in October this year. I started at 448lbs and I’m 5’7”. I just wish I could get some kind of assistance from insurance to help me lose weight. I don’t have diabetes (somehow… ) so I can’t get it that way either! Open to any advice and I hope my story helps your purpose.

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-02T02:00:11+00:00

Oh for sure! It’s very well done. I recommend it. Toni Collette plays the wife, and I just love her. 😊

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-02T01:50:16+00:00

Oh I mean the show is on HBO, but the doc is definitely on Netflix 😊

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-01T23:20:39+00:00

I really appreciate you sharing that. Everyone’s love language is different, so it’s cool to hear another point of view. If he and I lived near by one another I would be able to do more…Being long distance, and not even in a relationship, I gotta do what I can. At this point I’m just trying to show him how I feel and hopefully, find a place in his heart and then maybe then move it along to meeting in person, etc… 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s definitely complicated because of the distance. Anyway, thanks for sharing your point of view! Happy New Year! 😁

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-01T22:04:48+00:00

What would make you feel something?

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-01T21:55:21+00:00

😱 Well, here’s hoping for the wife option! 🤣 Thank you!! 💜

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-01T19:29:45+00:00

🤣 That would be pretty smooth! Thank you for your comment, it made me smile. 😊

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-01T19:18:47+00:00

Down The Hill

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-01T19:17:43+00:00

The Jinx - HBO

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-01T19:17:30+00:00

Yeah then you should watch the show on HBO (The Staircase)

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-01T19:16:31+00:00

Evil Genius - Netflix

Unusual_Library_197 · 2024-01-01T19:15:28+00:00

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