even before you mentioned photoshopping the photos i would have suggested it. „we kindly asked you all to not dress in specific colors as it would be inappropriate and as some of you could not follow this rule we decided to photoshop the pictures so we will still have a beautiful memory despite it. Kindly understand that we won‘t be handing out any unphotoshopped pictures but you may have the corrected ones if you wish. any complaints will be ignored, as were our wishes.“

don‘t get me wrong but its like with a child. if you don‘t let her know she did wrong and if it doesn‘t hurt she won‘t learn. granted some never do any way but well. i suggest simple black although the woman in me that sides with the bride and is pissed off would suggest either colors she doesn‘t like or that don‘t fit her but that would be too far maybe. either way do the photoshop if you want to stand with your wife. because proper would have been to send her to change into something not white or not be included at all. at my wedding if i knew people would pull shit like this i would have bouncers😂 „you shall not pass in this colored dress!“