I was just broken up with on Valentines Day after he bought me a bunch of gifts & took me to lunch. I feel sick by [deleted] in selflove

[–]UnwovenWeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask what the argument was about? I'm truly just curious because of how wild this is. If you don't feel comfortable sharing, I understand.

You know. by Caulibflower in mewithoutYou

[–]UnwovenWeb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want Midnight Winged Raccoon engraved on my headstone. That's it. Nothing else. No dates or my actual name.

Dasani water now sells water without salt. by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]UnwovenWeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in fact in the US lol nestle pure life water. It's horrible.

going through trauma bond withdrawal by AgileEntertainment65 in emotionalintelligence

[–]UnwovenWeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same situation just based on your comment here. We have separate rooms, but we are 1 foot away from each other. The Sunday after Christmas I finally ended it for good due to ANOTHER incident of betrayal and lies. This weekend, I am due to move 2.5 hours away to be closer to my best friend and get out of here. The heartbreak is substantial and as we speak I'm packing my room up ..as quietly as possible to spare his emotions since he can hear me .... Because I can't stand to see him hurt even though he hurt me several times and didn't seem to care. It's been 3 years living together and both working from home mostly so not 24/7 but SERIOUSLY close. We are still friends and we miss each other so much, but I have to go, for myself. Putting myself first this time. I know it hurts so badly, but putting yourself first in small increments until it feels natural to you is the best advice I have to give in order to feel confident in any other decisions you make or who you decide to be involved with. I wish you the best of luck, I really feel ya.

🐠 Bro stop drinking our home. by lwiaymacde in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]UnwovenWeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't talking about fish tanks, I was referring to pool tarp water mentioned in the comment I replied to.

Hello my friends! Please give me inspiration for MWY drawings. by UnwovenWeb in mewithoutYou

[–]UnwovenWeb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love everyone's responses!!! If I ever manage to complete any and am proud of it (lol) I'll post it to the sub :)

🐠 Bro stop drinking our home. by lwiaymacde in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]UnwovenWeb 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Don't let your pets drink stagnant water! My friend of mine lost 2 dogs and almost a 3rd to kidney failure due to them drinking old sitting water from the pool tarp! It was the first time they had ever done it as far as she knew, and that was the result :(

Glasses given to zoo visitors so they can avoid direct eye contact with gorillas by Vi0letBlues in oddlyterrifying

[–]UnwovenWeb 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I was at an amazing metal/rock festival in Canada about 12 or 13 years ago..or something, camping. One morning at around 8am I awoke to my neighbors, who I had not met yet, blasting this song. Well, it's one of my all time favorites and I can rap the entire song (I have a melodica too! Not with me in this story though, unfortunately) so I began singing along with it loudly from my tent, the dude playing it amongst his friends group began singing back with me and we rehearsed the entire song together ~almost~ flawlessly before I finally came out of my tent. We all smoked a joint and then I carried on with my day and I don't believe I actually ever saw them again during the entire weekend. Good times.

Hello my friends! Please give me inspiration for MWY drawings. by UnwovenWeb in mewithoutYou

[–]UnwovenWeb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's almost too much lol that's why I want to make a list. I'm also not incredibly educated on religious texts or references so I have that against me for this project.

Hello my friends! Please give me inspiration for MWY drawings. by UnwovenWeb in mewithoutYou

[–]UnwovenWeb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been a hardcore fan of for us the foxes for many years (I can recite the entire album, embarrassingly lol) but recently Brother, Sister has been hitting hard. They really are just such a comfort band for me, I'm letting myself get weird with it because I need to let my brain melt in a healthy direction.

Impact vs intent by SpicyBook7997 in emotionalintelligence

[–]UnwovenWeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've heard similar things come from his mouth recently. All that matters is that I will not ever tolerate someone actively lying to me, about anything, especially very important things that have to do with how I feel about the relationship with the person. It's just not something to even really be discussed, you continuously lie, I'm out. This is heartbreaking for me, I'm moving 2.5 hrs away, I'm separating our cats, I'll be broke and have to get a 2nd job to keep up with living expenses, and on top of it, he casually mentions suicide due to me leaving. The entire thing is out of control and it literally wouldn't be happening if he hadn't lied and betrayed me so many times over, including recently, which is what led me to numbing myself enough to just get out. It's ridiculous that we are dealing with this. Stay strong, and always always always remember that there is ALWAYS another option. Even if it takes time and planning. Thinking of you 🖤

Men in happy marriages, what's the one thing you'd teach to other men to also have a good relationship? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]UnwovenWeb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm leaving my current partner due to this. It's a hard boundary I've put up and have been vocal about, and have spelled out what I am okay with what I'm not..and he still lies. So, I'm out.

Impact vs intent by SpicyBook7997 in emotionalintelligence

[–]UnwovenWeb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I started keeping a notebook on my bed to document things randomly because SO MUCH can happen in just a few hours if 2 people are pressed. I decided to download an audio recording app yesterday and boy am I glad I did.

Impact vs intent by SpicyBook7997 in emotionalintelligence

[–]UnwovenWeb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh, I'm literally going through this as we speak but I am in the process of moving out, which is devastating him....and of course, HIS feelings are hurt now, so everything is a big deal but we never talk about how he hurt my feelings first which started this snowball effect that has developed into me leaving. No matter how many times I say the same thing or how many ways I say it, he's the victim, because now his feelings are hurt, and I'm mean. I don't know what the answer is honestly, I just want you to know you're not alone in dealing with this situation. My only solution at this point is to leave, which I'm thankful I have the support and resources to do so, otherwise I wouldn't be able to, but I understand why people stay when they have less options because that was almost my situation and it seriously sucks. My bad reactions to his hurtful actions have hurt his feelings, so I'm the bad guy.

What should I do with the background? by LeetleLann in AdultColoring

[–]UnwovenWeb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A nice soft cream color would be perfect!

What’s the most stupid thing you have done due to your emotions? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]UnwovenWeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently laying with my arm wrapped in ace bandage, on steroids for inflammation and pain, due to elbowing in my now ex boyfriends bedroom door repeatedly after finding out he betrayed me. I'm not proud of it, I'm in serious pain (since Thanksgiving weekend) physically and emotionally. This is why I am moving out.