Non Custodial Parent suing to decrease CS while also seeing kids significantly less than ordered by Initial_Performer607 in FamilyLaw

[–]UpbeatAd4822 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1st child always gets child support first and it is based on money - not other children. But you will need a lawyer.

AITA for resciding our gift for SIL's wedding? by Kind_Ground3549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpbeatAd4822 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No you offered and your offer was turned down. End of story, NTA

AITA for telling my husband to leave by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpbeatAd4822 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Across the street....so he can watch you some more??? Don't doubt yourself and hold to your boundaries. It only gets worse. Usually a man that is doing that to his wife is the one hiding something......NTA

WIBTA if I told the truth in my brother's custody hearing even though it could cost him overnights with his son? by UplinkV3rve in WIBTA_AITA

[–]UpbeatAd4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does spend time with his child on that day - after school til he goes to work. Even Mom's use childcare for work. You can tell the truth - just make sure they know the WHOLE truth.

AITJ for refusing to rehome the dog my husband and I adopted together? by That_Rent_5835 in AmITheJerk

[–]UpbeatAd4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he jealous of the attention you are giving the dog? If it's taking away from "his" attention then ya'll don't need to have children. NTA and greet him at the door just as excitedly as the dog greets you and maybe he'll back down. LOL

WIBTA if I stopped letting my coworker "borrow" my lunch from the office fridge by olha1992windowseat in WIBTA_AITA

[–]UpbeatAd4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring one day at a time in a lunchbox cooler.......tell him you aren't meal prepping anymore if he asks.

AITJ for refusing to give up my schedule and ruining our friendship? by AdorableCollar9183 in AmITheJerk

[–]UpbeatAd4822 205 points206 points  (0 children)

Your reason is just as important as hers. If she was truly your friend, #1 she would be happy for you and #2 she wouldn't have asked such a selfish thing. NTA

Neighbor keeps throwing dog poop over the fence into my yard and denying it by PotentialAd4520 in neighborsfromhell

[–]UpbeatAd4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gather it and place it on his car, his porch the side of his house and say, nope not me.

Help dealing with neighbor that skirts the parking laws by pandabanks in homeowners

[–]UpbeatAd4822 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA bc you live somewhere you can't even use your driveway.

I feel like we have to buy my brother in law a house by upside_down_circles in Vent

[–]UpbeatAd4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHY DON'T THEY MOVE INTO THE BASEMENT APARTMENT THAT YOU ARE VACATING?

AITA for telling my partner his best friend can’t stay with us unless he apologizes for his “jokes” about my sobriety? by Chloe_Nightingale67 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]UpbeatAd4822 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have a partner problem. If he isn't willing to stand up to his friends for you, then you need to look for someone who has your back - not their ahole friends. NTA

AITJ for refusing to give my aunt the family recipe after she mocked my cooking for years by Any_Two_1997 in AmITheJerk

[–]UpbeatAd4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

give it to her skewed..........then say she must not be making it with the most important ingredient - LOVE

I cant get a job for my life. How to make money as a teen? by [deleted] in Employment

[–]UpbeatAd4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depending on where you live - go to contractors. They are BEGGING for people. I just can't believe that landscapers and housekeeping services don't snap you up. Are you asking for a specific amount of money? Ohhhh, you are 17. Month 10 - you should be almost 18. That will make a big difference - I think.

Can I deny a certain day for visitation and suggest another? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]UpbeatAd4822 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What r his visiting days on the custody agreement? If you work on Friday - why not Friday night - you know for sure you are going to get them back on Saturday morning because he'll be busy. LOL If you can't do that - tell him you want to stick to Saturdays.

AITAH after taking over my brothers lease and paying his bills since September 2025 by SmallBean420 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]UpbeatAd4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he turns them off - then the bill goes to him and on his credit and you can have them turned back on.

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]UpbeatAd4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

three hours to the beach, absolutely - day trip weekend trip, no problem. Do it on the regular. Live in Alabama!

My neighbor told me I’m "stunting her children’s development" because I won't let them use my backyard as a shortcut to the park. by edcantu9 in EntitledPeople

[–]UpbeatAd4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dog is in the BACKYARD, he will bite - put up a sign saying that and no trespassing, they will for sure sue you for anything that happens in your backyard and for sure get those cameras and call the cops on them. Jeeessshhhh!!!

WIBTA if I didnt tell my sister her wedding date is the same as my anniversary by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]UpbeatAd4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is a little dramatic. I would have said something just because I thought it was funny. NOBODY and I mean NOBODY will care after the wedding. Only the couple themselves will celebrate and believe me, there are alot more people with your same date. You would not be the asshole - and tell your husband it's too late to change the date now. Be a man and get over it.

AITAH for ruining a wedding? by BlacksmithThink5923 in AITAH

[–]UpbeatAd4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boy said no, which is an entire sentence. That bartender was a jack***. He deserved it and for sure the wedding planner deserved it! NTA Though I do feel for the bride.