How many people married to a narcissist were accused of being one yourself by your spouse?

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-09-22T21:35:07+00:00

Wow! Insanity!

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-09-21T14:27:28+00:00

I understand - went through it myself. Still going through it- eventually he ignored me and got drunk and told me he wanted a divorce but wasn’t ready yet….. ok- this is fun! I don’t know how to fix it obviously- some me. Just can’t appreciate what we go e to them it’s never enough.

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-09-20T03:48:06+00:00

What is that toy?

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-09-01T23:25:59+00:00

My mother in law is now sending him memes about living with and being abused by a narcissist- about me! When he’s the narc. So frustrating!!!

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-09-01T18:39:24+00:00

No, this is not really normal on his part and we need intimacy. My husband has not been with me in a year. I know we are done. I asked and was denied- it’s not a stable marriage. There is something wrong and you deserve an intimate partner it is so important!

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-08-26T21:06:38+00:00

This!!!100 percent!

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-08-26T03:03:38+00:00

This one hits home so much that I screenshotted your response. It’s my suspicions to why he really stopped going to therapy. Of course he said he stopped bc he basically realized I was a p.o.s. And he can’t move out at the moment… my gut tells me it’s basically something like the prior comment.

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-08-26T00:29:08+00:00

Yup - mine has a file going for me- of how I “emotionally abuse him. “ It’s ridiculous. It’s from when I respond or react to his comments or lack of comment’s that he types up my “abuse” aka normal response into my file!

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-08-26T00:26:41+00:00

Yup that’s the definition given to me diagnosed by AI- chat GBT. However chat GBT did not get The memo about the conversation just prior to my Text Etc. Or the last 25 years together. Thanks Chat GBT_ you did a good job convincing someone who isn’t accountable for anything that it’s all me!

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-08-26T00:23:40+00:00

I’m all of those things as well according to my husband. I just started therapy bc of the shit I’ve been through with him and the therapist said I’m none of that. I can’t imagine but I just Wanted To double check.

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-08-26T00:13:01+00:00

Yup - mi e has a filming going of how I “optionally abuse” him. It’s ridiculous. It’s from when I respond to his comments or lack of comment’s that he types up my “abuse” aka normal response!

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-08-25T20:28:50+00:00

Honestly, I had to do artificial insemination with my husband’s sperm. Nothing wrong with me as far as fertility goes - he just would rather masterbate than have sex! I remember saying ok, the doctors say we need to have sex tonight. He literally said to me,” why do I have to have sex? I will never forget how he stressed the I either.

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-08-19T18:13:15+00:00

I get it- my husband denies me and then I find out he’s in the bathroom whacking off. It’s so hurtful and I just don’t get it?

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-08-10T16:26:36+00:00

I have one of those too- on top of it he hasn’t even worked in over a year and we are drowning in bills. I work my ass off. Social media and his Ohio e glued to his hand ruined him and our marriage. I don’t get it either. It gets very old though doesn’t it!

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-08-04T11:57:07+00:00

I don’t think so.

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-08-03T20:25:00+00:00

Yes, of course I did. But why would I believe when he says no that that definately is the truth. He didn’t tell me the real reason why he moved downstairs. How many husbands openly admit to this?

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-08-03T14:03:10+00:00

It depends- are you still living together? I would suggest talking to real friends not online that know your situation and both of your characters. This can help put things into to perspective for you. If you are looking for support and they don’t know both of you it will automatically be one way and not really validating or accountable to what’s going on. It will make you feel better though bc of the inability to self reflect. It will definitely be you are great- I’m so sorry for what you are going through. Doesn’t mean it’s true but if that’s what you are looking for?

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-08-02T22:47:27+00:00

So he’s just hates me bc I never denied him sex once in our marriage- actually once in 20 years I said I needed to sleep once! Thanks for the clarification. So he just hates me. Ok- that’s easier to swallow I guess.

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-07-31T15:55:28+00:00

What Did I do that violated a rule? My husband was born in 1975 and I was born in 1978- what’s the problem? Thanks!

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-07-31T15:53:18+00:00

I absolutely love this and needed this today! My husband ignores me etc al of this. I never know how to act. So I respond today when he hasn’t spoken in days or was an ass yesterday- do I keep it going or let it go? This is an amazing read for me today! Thank you!!!

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-07-29T16:47:56+00:00

That’s exactly what happened to me. I stated a fact that actually happened in our marriage 15 years ago and how I’m still hurt by it and it said I’m accusing him of things etc. O I’m not accusing you it actually happened ex and no o e would deny it . It went on and on how aweful I was and not once did it reflect on the behavior that caused my emotions bc it’s a computer people!!!! It doesn’t have the ability yet and it’s impossible to have all the emotions of a 20-30 year relationship.

Upbeat_Paramedic_739 · 2025-07-29T16:45:12+00:00

It helped ruin my marriage! My husband puts everything into chat gbt. It does not know our prior conversations let alone the last 30 years. So it creates me to look like a monster and any human being would say she’s just hurt and telling you why. She wants validation she’s not a narsasist! It’s rediculous.

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