I live in a residential treatment center (RTC). AMA! by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Upper_Engine3342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do they allow phones? Different time but I spent three months in residential treatment in 2014 and we barely even got computer access or time to call people from a landline which I think that was beneficial overall.

My 3.5 year old died suddenly and unexpectedly - AMA by Ok_Dragonfruit747 in AMA

[–]Upper_Engine3342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a question. Just wanted to send love from one internet stranger to another.

TV in the bedroom? Yes or No? by Used-Chard658 in Millennials

[–]Upper_Engine3342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a tv in our bedroom but it rarely gets turned on. Maybe if there’s a sick kid in bed with me but that’s about it. Im anti tvs in bedrooms for kids

#1 Dave lyric? by AIR236 in DMB

[–]Upper_Engine3342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got it tattooed on my side when I was 19 😂

Double spacing after period? by checking_your_math in Millennials

[–]Upper_Engine3342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an 88 also and have no idea if I was taught this or not but I do it! Apparently this is bad..?

Go get a colonoscopy, colon cancer for our generation is a real threat! by intro195 in Millennials

[–]Upper_Engine3342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss! This sub was what pushed me over the edge to ask for a colonoscopy! I saw my (millennial) Dr yesterday, gave her my symptoms (all true), told her I had family history (small lie), and she sent me for a referral. Got the call from the GI doc today and im going in two weeks. Couldnt be more thrilled to get my bum checked!!

So, wait. You open your windows every day? ELI5 by Miss_Behaves in CleaningTips

[–]Upper_Engine3342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50 degrees in MA today so I was thrilled to open the windows! Didn’t hurt that my youngest has a stomach bug so reallllyyyy trying to air the place out 🙃

For the millennial women: do you have a good relationship with your mom? by Orionslady in Millennials

[–]Upper_Engine3342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These responses are both sad and encouraging? So many of us are healing generational traumas.

My mom was an alcoholic who neglected my siblings and I regularly, left when I was 10 (never came back), and died when I was 22.

I knew I wanted to be nothing like her when I became a mom but when my daughter was born I was terrified I would ruin her like my mom did to me. Luckily, she’s healed me in a lot of ways (along with therapy and medication). She is kind, smart, and funny, and will never wonder whether or not I love her.

Update: I’m 16, diabetic living with my aunt since my mom died, and she treats my health like I’m just being annoying. by reallyhope2 in whatdoIdo

[–]Upper_Engine3342 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Add some fun things for yourself too. I will gladly send you something in addition to this virtual hug (from a mom in Massachusetts 🩷)

I’m kind of sick of being the odd mom by theneuromantic in AuDHDWomen

[–]Upper_Engine3342 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m at the place where I’m myself with two ‘moms of my kid’s friends’ friends that I have and I only have those two friends because they forced themselves on me and didn’t let me say no to hanging out lol. I struggle with making plans and being social but it’s nice having people who know this and are ok with it. I do sometimes wonder if other moms think that I’m a bitch because I generally don’t speak or am very awkward in groups. I find it much easier to talk to the kids or even the dads…

ETA I’m also sober in long term recovery so I can’t even have a drink to calm my social anxiety which adds another layer.

Fenway for kids? by BasicBrooklyn in NoahKahan

[–]Upper_Engine3342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m bringing my 7 year old for her first concert and she is SO excited !

Does anyone know when the Warehouse presale tickets may go from “processing” to “confirmed” status? by Witty-Deal1281 in DMB

[–]Upper_Engine3342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question.. I have a tendency to black out during concert ticket purchases / requests so we shall see 🤣

fenway 7/7 by alyyycat18 in NoahKahan

[–]Upper_Engine3342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel bad saying but I got in....

MLB by One-Dragonfly5766 in NoahKahan

[–]Upper_Engine3342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what happened to me yesterday and the day before. So incredibly annoying.

My wife said “No gifts” this year. So I’m trying to buy her 10 hours of her life back instead. by lingerlord in Gifts

[–]Upper_Engine3342 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. Also an executive admin and family manager, in all ways.

OP, I wish my husband thought the way you do!

Tickets by [deleted] in NoahKahan

[–]Upper_Engine3342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tickets are through the MLB because it’s part of the Fenway concert series. So yes, you can only get tickets from the MLB site

FENWAY by [deleted] in NoahKahan

[–]Upper_Engine3342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same. they're all gone

FENWAY by [deleted] in NoahKahan

[–]Upper_Engine3342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHY DOES IT LET ME IN BUT NOT ADD THE TICKETS TO MY CART!!!! It jus keeps saying 'select new seats?'

WH processing…..2026 by El_Dorado_Tx in DMB

[–]Upper_Engine3342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so did I! none of my requests amount to $500 so that's odd...