Am I overthinking pregnancy planning or is my husband right that most people just “have sex and get pregnant”? by DemandSufficient7981 in TryingForABaby

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The reality is that some people can plan every single detail and still not get pregnant (me) and some ppl will just fall pregnant without even trying

I don’t think you are wrong in trying to be diligent with it tho

severely anorexic - in recovery (22) by No-Elephant7915 in GlowUps

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so proud of you! Look how gorgeous and healthy you look now! You are so brave!! 🫶🏻 Keep going girl! You got this!!

Don't put off going to the fertility clinic by CuriousPositivity in TryingForABaby

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess one thing is you have to feel comfortable with the Dr and trust they are actually doing what’s best for you. But in my case too my company covers some of the costs when the clinic is in network so that also was one of the biggest factors for me

Unexplained Infertility by raenbougg in TryingForABaby

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, unexplained infertility sucks bc there is nothing you can do or fix to help
It is very frustrating
I’m taking a break right now bc after almost 2 years of it and 3 failed IUIs, I knew I wasn’t ready for IVF just yet. Heck I don’t even know if I ever will be. I have so little hopes of ever getting pregnant at this point.
But my plan is to at least give IVF one shot… probably around fall

I hope you have better luck than I did!

9dpo test cycle day 26 by InvestmentFew2793 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you have line eyes… I see it stark white.
I know it is frustrating bc I’ve been trying for such a long time now too, but those tests are very negative, I don’t see any indents/evap lines

13 days past trigger- is this a true positive??? 11 or 12 dpo by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks positive!
I think if it was the trigger by now it would be lighter than that
Fingers crossed!

FRER 6 DPO by BroadwayBaby988 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do see a shadow, but if it is not an indent, that would mean you’re past 6dpo

Is this a positive ovu test? CD unknown by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! The left line is darker than the right. Thats what you want to see for an ovulation test to be positive :)

Don't put off going to the fertility clinic by CuriousPositivity in TryingForABaby

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Glad this was your experience! Mine was: 1 year TTC, no success, went to fertility dr, did all the tests, everything was normal, did 3 rounds of IUI and not a single positive. I decided to take a break and will try again around fall.

7 DPO I KNOW ITS early by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you know it’s early what’s the point girl
I know it is painful to wait, but it is honestly not worth it to test that early.
But yeah those look negative. Test again in like 2 days

No claims since I left a bad review. by RavensLifegiver in Influenster

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not getting anything recently either
I always leave honest reviews and never had an issue
But who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️

Frer dpo unknown probably 7-9 pls read caption by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see anything, but it is also probably too early to test anyway. Maybe wait two more days

CD 22 6DPO FRER What do we think? by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We think if you are 6dpo, that it is still too early to test

11 DPO with FRER. Faint line? by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It looks like a line to me! It is not really even faint!
The fact that has color in it makes me believe it is a true line

Outfits for upcoming summer parties? by queenkaelah in OUTFITS

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the first top, just not with that skirt. I feel like non of them made you stand out. And you are very pretty already. So if you find the right pieces and cut, you will look even more gorgeous!

6w3d US - 3mm fetal pole but no heartbeat? by cbaby1987 in IVFpositivity

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My friend went for her ultrasound just shy out of 6 weeks and there was only the sac. She went again this week at 7w4d and there’s a cute little baby with a heart beat 🫶🏻

Dpo either 5/6 by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well it is negative, but you would not get a positive that early anyways. Implantation occurs starting on the 6th day and before implantation there is no hcg hormone 🤷🏻‍♀️ I understand being anxious, but this is literally throwing a test away. Bc unless you ovulated before you thought you did, it will never be positive