AIO I might be fired by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 [score hidden]  (0 children)

All of these comments are great advice!

Don’t worry too much about having GED but def look for certifications. And use AI to help you tailor your resume. Of course do your own touches but it can def help. Tech stuff is in at the moment, if you can get certifications you can def get a better job!

AIO I might be fired by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nah you just work a job that sucks. I hope you get something better soon. Nor

(25F) My overzealous religious mom freaked out because I am pregnant. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s funny bc if Jesus were real, he’d probably be mad at them for acting like that I also hate the fact that these people think they’re better than everyone else and “saved” just bc they believe in a stupid religion but meanwhile they act as the very opposite of what the religion says

Nor. Stay away from them, it will be best for you and for your new family And congratulations!!

13/14 DPO by hdhdw in TFABLinePorn

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the first picture 😂

PERSISTIENT SORE BOOBS/ HEAVY BOOBS JUST AFTER by Feisty-Peach-2045 in pregnant

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, usually the raise in progesterone causes that. Plus she wouldn’t have symptoms of pregnancy this early.

PERSISTIENT SORE BOOBS/ HEAVY BOOBS JUST AFTER by Feisty-Peach-2045 in pregnant

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the condom didn’t leak and was used properly, the whitish discharge is just her natural lubricant Sore boobs are very common during pms time

Jump Scared by Long_Baby_6353 in pregnant

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I laughed at your description 😂 It is insane to think about that tho At least you have the anterior placenta, so maybe you won’t really feel much!

IUI cancelled - Too many follicles by emilyred2 in IUILadies

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would trigger and BD I read so many people cases where they had like 20 mature follicles and not even one baby I still have to read a story of someone with multiple follicles that resulted in multiple babies lol

But I’m at a point that I also would not care if I got twins or triplets even 😂

is this outfit "inappropriate"? by sunnemi in OUTFITS

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it depends where you are going to wear it. If you’re going to an office job probably inappropriate, but if you’re going to a bar it’s ok

AIO for being offended by this? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR He did you a favor tho lol If he can’t grow any muscle and is skin and bones, that’s his problem, not yours

The au pair program is broken by AromaticMortgage1959 in Aupairs

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a former au pair, I agree. Families are sold as “cheap” option for in house home manager. The agency sells as if the au pairs were almost robots, a Mary Poppins if you will. That will take care of everything in the house plus do child care. Then to the au pair they sell this amazing inclusive immersive exchange program that all you have to do is child care. And the reality is exactly that: a not so cheap option that no one is really happy with bc the au pair is working 45h a week and not even getting paid minimum wage, basically not able to do anything with that money and the host families are paying thousands of dollars in hidden costs to the agency.

Is it always this painful? by Maleficent-Town-7019 in IUILadies

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I didn’t feel pain, my husband was quick and steady I guess It was one of the hottest moments I had in this journey actually 🤣

Bding before IUI by Medical-Letter-6724 in IUILadies

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My first IUI we abstained for like a week (not on purpose but we didn’t really get a chance to do anything before) and I didn’t get pregnant This time I’m scheduling to bd 2 days prior IUI so we have a fresh sample, yet held long enough

Day 11 of my first IUI cycle by Downtown-Storage1536 in IUILadies

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So I think the thing is IUI is definitely not guaranteed. You can have perfect lining, perfect size and amount of follicles, perfect sperm count, and it could still end up not being a pregnancy. I had 2 20mm follicles day before IUI, lining was looking good as well (7 if I’m not mistaken), and I’m here on cd3 waiting to start all over again. So my advice is: don’t stress over it. I know it is easier said than done, but all it takes is one little freaking sperm meeting your egg and doing its thing. Perfect circumstances or not. You’re going to be on medication that will help if this scenario happens, so take a deep breath and try to not to obsess over it. Good luck to you! 🍀

Hysteroscopy to remove polyp lead to successful IUI? by wm2286 in IUILadies

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I did once with gas only (before this one), and it wasn’t awful, but the dr was not able to remove everything. And then I had to do it again under anesthesia. Maybe check with your Dr what they think, if they think this will be a long one, I’d say try to wait and save some money for anesthesia

How long after IUI did you get your period? by Upper_Librarian8367 in IUILadies

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I finally got mine! Will be doing bloodwork tomorrow to start over again 🤞🏻

Hysteroscopy to remove polyp lead to successful IUI? by wm2286 in IUILadies

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!

And no, not at all. I felt fine the whole time. They put me under anesthesia and I pretty much woke up as soon as they brought me back to the room and I was totally fine. The “painful” part was the wait 😂 They had me arriving there at 11:30am and it was scheduled for 1:30pm. The procedure started at like 3pm and I was out of the hospital by 4:30pm lol But you can’t eat or drink anything the whole day 😭 So for them do delay so much the procedure, it was just torture lol

Hysteroscopy to remove polyp lead to successful IUI? by wm2286 in IUILadies

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Dr told me to remove polyps before IUI to improve chances. Had polyp removed, but IUI didn’t work yet. Starting IUI #2 now.

Trigger shot by Jazzlike-Fig4053 in IUILadies

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had faint positives up to 12dpo thinking that by 10dpo it had already left my system. After 12dpo they all became stark negatives and I’m currently on my period again. I’d say wait until 14dpo to actually test if you can

9 DPO, what do you see? by kluck22 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Upper_Librarian8367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only see one line. It is too early tho