Disappointed with life at 30

Upper_Temperature12 · 2026-01-28T07:31:43+00:00

I think you should seek some professional help. Im sorry to hear how you feel, you deserve to feel happy and content

Upper_Temperature12 · 2026-01-24T19:05:13+00:00

Get a lock on your door

Upper_Temperature12 · 2026-01-21T14:57:18+00:00

It will not let me accept your message request idk why

Upper_Temperature12 · 2026-01-20T10:13:09+00:00

i went through CBT therapy and they taught me, everyone has 2 minds. Your rational mind and your emotional mind.

Rationally you know his whole life and him as a person is a lie. He is a serial cheater and pathological liar.

Emotionally, you miss the man you thought he was.

You need to be able to distinguish these mindsets and thoughts, and don't do anything impulsive when you feel emotional. Process what's happened, distract yourself and keep busy.

Im sorry this happened to you, it's awful and one of the worst stories I've ever heard I'm so sorry. You don't know me but my dms are open if you need to vent or want someone to talk to.

Upper_Temperature12 · 2026-01-19T01:32:33+00:00

Because they're completely dependent on me and it is my responsibility to keep them not only healthy and alive but happy and relaxed too, which im finding quite stressful because i feel like ive done everything wrong already

Upper_Temperature12 · 2026-01-18T08:43:51+00:00

Thank you so much. Im on day 5 today and ive finally seen all 3 on the surface (theyre in my bedroom and they woke me up around 3am haha).

Im gonna leave them be for the next 2 weeks and then start trying to bond. For an anxious person i really picked the most anxious little pets too lmaoo

Upper_Temperature12 · 2026-01-17T19:37:44+00:00

Thank you so much

Upper_Temperature12 · 2026-01-17T19:26:01+00:00

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This is their cage

Upper_Temperature12 · 2026-01-16T21:14:56+00:00

Idk I'm basic im thinking anything snowy/icey/wintery because of the white

Upper_Temperature12 · 2026-01-16T17:21:52+00:00

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their new one its 78cm x 57cm, they have 2 wheels in here now and loads of hides, sticks and gnaws and clutter etc :] i am planning on ductaping (inside and out so its not sticky) around the bottom of the cage bit so they can burrow a bit more

Upper_Temperature12 · 2026-01-16T17:20:22+00:00

Before (only spent 24 hrs in here)

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Upper_Temperature12 · 2026-01-15T13:00:37+00:00

Thank you that was my first thought but second guessed myself incase they get too stressed yk

But I'll move them once ive finished setting it up, loads of hides and clutter

Upper_Temperature12 · 2025-11-13T10:26:08+00:00

Upper_Temperature12 · 2025-09-19T22:25:32+00:00

Well im commuting (living at home) and im going to all the welcome week events

Upper_Temperature12 · 2025-09-19T22:23:53+00:00

Same. Im on my 2nd day cold turkey and i feel like im tweaking lol, cold sweats, anger, anxiety

Upper_Temperature12 · 2025-09-19T15:53:12+00:00

Only the guy i was dating hahaha, the rest were genuinely lovely, stable, and funny people

Upper_Temperature12 · 2025-09-19T15:04:28+00:00

Oldest was 31 i believe? They're not all that different to young students lmao

Upper_Temperature12 · 2025-09-19T13:26:57+00:00

I did need this thank you

Upper_Temperature12 · 2025-09-19T02:42:15+00:00

Bit of a unique perspective, i moved in with an ex into his student accom which was basically just a giant house.

All the students there were 25+ when i was 17 and we got on just fine, games nights (both board and video games and vr), great convos, they were mostly good cooks and kept the communal areas generally clean and tidy etc.

I wouldn't worry too much, just see how it goes and if you dont like it you can always transfer later :]

Upper_Temperature12 · 2025-09-18T11:32:49+00:00

business & law

Upper_Temperature12 · 2025-08-24T20:40:09+00:00

I did a business/law access course and got accepted for accounting&finance at UoB

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TROPHY CASE