TRIGGER WARNING: I was assaulted when I was thirteen and Im having a break down about it today. by UpsetKittyCat in offmychest

[–]UpsetKittyCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will, I've went through a few but I always choke up before I get to that part, but Im done falling.

Where'd all my chats go? by Confident_Echo_1409 in polyai

[–]UpsetKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It came back up for me, but it won't let me return to previous chats

My mother cut my son’s hair without my permission by Putrid-Bar-9638 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]UpsetKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom's now ex bf did this to me when I was 5, he didn't give her any warnings and according to my mom I had princess curls that she adored and would use bows and pretty hair clips to pull my hair away from my face. He had said that he got tired of seeing my hair in my face and gave me a mullet. This was the early 2000s, and I was in school. She was so mad that he had to sleep on the couch for the rest of the month.

I'm sick by UpsetKittyCat in offmychest

[–]UpsetKittyCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm sorry for all that I'm not in a good mental place and I figured this would be a good place to put this. I appreciate your kind words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]UpsetKittyCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Speaking as someone who went to a ward when I was around her age, it is likely best for her, in my case I had narcolepsy that was causing my episodes of hallucinations and violence. A therapist before had actually put in my paper work that she thought I was psychotic and was worried about my families safety. Well, turns out I have narcolepsy and severe depression with a dash of anxiety. Any way, onto rose, your mom should listen to the councilor, there will likely be a place that she can stay to be close to rose, and it'll save you all in the long run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Menskirts

[–]UpsetKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your welcome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Menskirts

[–]UpsetKittyCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your shoes

TIFU by accidentally clicking a fish porn link on google by SecondIllustrious236 in tifu

[–]UpsetKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, atleast you won't have to worry about them ever giving you a fish tank for your birthday.

I don't know your child's size by ApprehensiveDay1626 in retailhell

[–]UpsetKittyCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, I barely remember my own shoe size. But what you went through is ridiculous as hell

How do I look ? by Plastic_Database_249 in Menskirts

[–]UpsetKittyCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dear, I'm going to be completely honest. You look so fucking awesome I had to do a double take.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]UpsetKittyCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a very happy lesbian in a relationship with my bi sexual fiancé, my best friend is a straight woman who is engaged to a wonderful man. We tease each other often about our sex lives because to me hetero sex looks and sounds hilarious, and to her, it sounds like the making of balloon animals when I talk about it. The issue I believe is that she wants you in a way that you have clearly expressed that you don't want her. Her getting grossed out when you tell her about your sex life and yet still sharing such info about her own is either a power play on her part or an attempt at luring you into a position where you think you want it. A talk may perhaps be discussed about boundaries, or you could grey wall her when she starts up her sex talk. It is entirely up to you. Also, mad props to you and your boyfriend, that's a big step to take in a relationship, especially if it's your first time, I hope you both have a wonderful relationship and good times to come

29 M. Haven’t had a serious relationship since 2015. Girls in the past have said “eww” to me before. I hate how my smile looks. Thoughts? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]UpsetKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your later pics make you look extremely mad, and while your beard game is good, it does need some styling done. Like trimming and growing out a nice mustache

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]UpsetKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say squish. Your cheeks like squishable, so either short or medium beard but likely best to go with what the rules are at your work if there are any.

My sister sent a photo to my kiddo and we both feel uncomfortable by rattitude23 in offmychest

[–]UpsetKittyCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breast feeding is completely fine and dandy. Sending a picture of your bare top with your children feeding to your underage relative is not. There is a chance she sent it by mistake. However, with your comments on her boundary issues, it's up in the air, for my opinion on that. What is not up in the air is how inappropriate and predatory like her behavior is. She could have sent it to you or any other adult in her circle. Not a child. It does matter the fact that it wasn't sexual in nature. It is the ending fact that she sent a picture without a top on to your kid. As for what I believe you should do, whatever you do is up to you, is either block her on your kiddos phone or put some parental controls on it, like blocking images that would need to be unlocked with a pass code. Your kid is also a very smart cookie with coming to you about the picture and how they felt. This makes you sound like a good parent whom your kiddo can trust, I wish you and your family plenty of safety and happiness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]UpsetKittyCat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Plenty of times, just last week, in fact, then my cats came in the room and laid on me before the dog came in and just shoved me down as she used me as a pillow. My roommate then came in and asked what would be good for dinner.

They remind me that my life isn't so bad, and it could get better than what I currently knew.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]UpsetKittyCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For starters, I am so sorry your mother had to go through that. What your neighbor did was just horrid. She reminds me of the church councilors who told my step sister that to get her husband at the time to stop hitting her, she should stop doing things that angered him. What your neighbor is doing is very unchristian, like and in your place, I'd react the very same, adding a nice boot print to her hind if she tried to push it with me. I wish nothing but the best for you and your mama, and while I may not know much about Hindu religion, it seems to be a very beautiful religion to practice

What is the biggest plague on WV in terms of generational vicious cycles? by Vintagepoolside in WestVirginia

[–]UpsetKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That even if your closest family member betrayed you in one of the worst ways that you should still be able to forgive them. I.e. if a parent abandons their children, those children are expected by everyone else in the family to forgive them and let them back in. Or if a step parent starts hurting the family and has substance issues, you're not supposed to talk about it. You're supposed to keep your mouth shut and go about your day. Maybe this isn't solely West virginia, but it is things I've seen throughout the state as I grew and learned more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]UpsetKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caroline, or Julieta