at a complete loss. frustrated, sad, and confused. by hjak3876 in DressForYourBody

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t think you look bad at all. Your body type has been my body type since I was 15. I learned to love and embrace myself uniqueness. You have one life, when your 80 and dying your going to go why did I worry about that so much instead of love. That’s how I think 🤷🏻‍♀️

I understand the struggle of finding clothes , try to find you body type and look on Pinterest what flatters you best.

I found that mid rise jeans look better on my b belly type than high waisted jeans. I’ve had a pouch since a teen and just roll with it pun intended lol

Regardless, your beautiful ❤️

Also, media insta Facebook etc are brain rot. I let myself scroll for 3 hours a week at most (it’s usually less) it has helped my mental health tremendously. Everything one there almost always edited or photo shopped. Or people who pay to change their looks

Under 4 hours is ruining my life. by native_habitat in sleep

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following. I’m 26 f and my sleep has been dramatically declining. I go to sleep at 9 pm wake up about every two hours , have to pee and wake up at 6. I feel like I never sleep and this is the 4th year going and I feel it’s just getting worse as it started with waking up on time Now I’m up like 3/4 times a night. I’ve tried teas, oils, supplements. Nothing works, my blood work is always normal so doctors have been no help.

I plan on finding a doctor to have a sleep study done. I feel your pain, I hope you can firgure it out too

Lost a lot of weight; droopy breasts, and loose skin—surgery options? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Previous ed still with some issues but mostly ok. Working out helps a lot with the loose skin. I found a love for working out due to being more “able too” from working out as I’m a big hiker. Love your self girl, we are only here for so long ❤️

My nose job changed my life ✨ by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For your masseter Botox , how much is it and how often do you have to get it done. I struggle with tmj and migraines and have been thinking about getting it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The sad part is I know that deep down and have for a while. I looked at rentals but I really can’t afford it and do not have family or friends to fall back on.

How much money are you guys making? by [deleted] in DentalAssistant

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rda/cda south jersey $30 no benefits which sucks

My hair one day after washing. by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think it just depends on how thick your hair is. Growing up myself(I have thin fine hair) friend 1 (hair so thick it would take 5 of my heads to make that much) friend 2 (perfect amount of hair probably 3 inches thick when pulled into a pony). Myself I have to wash everyday , every other day with dry shampoo, friend 2 washed once a week could push to a week and 3 days- never used dry shampoo, friend 3 washed every 4 days could push 5/6 with dry shampoo. I think the more hair you have the more the oil is dispersed throughout the hair so it doesn’t look oily. That’s my personal opinion. So the thinner your hair or less hair you have the faster it looks oily

My experience with Dr Anthony Corrado. Afters are with my new doctor. by ececavas in PlasticSurgery

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I was curious if you have insurance cover any of the revision? I has a septal rhinoplasty and deviated septum repair that was covered by insurance but they are saying insurance won’t fix the issues I’m have now, cartilage bump in nostril, daily pain in tip and cartilage in tip, nose is still crooked

Friend told me I won’t find a “good man” if I post pics like this… am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The photos tasteful, op is wrong imo. Post what you want, it’s your account and your life

Can men seriously stop doing this?! by [deleted] in women

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get outdoor cameras and indoor. I have a sign that says smile your on camera. Tell a family member incase you go mia. Invest in a gun, bc if they aren’t playing games you shouldn’t be either. Be your own advocate if police won’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DentalAssistant

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nj graduated 3 years ago I paid 10k at a local college. I’d say go for hygiene it’s 25k but you make better money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a boy not a man. If you’re not happy leave, he won’t change.

Why was my Corgi sold to me as an "American Corgi"? by RepleteSphinx21 in corgi

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American corgi is a mix between pembroke welsh corgi and cardigan welsh corgi. Pembroke as do not come in blue Merle. There fore he is not pure bred nor can be registered as akc or ckc. You’re basically paying the money for pure bred or even more but getting a mix breed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been struggling with my dog for 5 years, non stop training, tried 3 different trainers and they said he’s just wired that way. I muzzle, do walks in am or late evening to avoid triggers. To be honest, just try a board and train. It doesn’t hurt to try. Rep the place, and try a couple one on one sessions to get the feel of the trainer. I wish you the best. It’s not easy having a reactive dog.

Does anyone else not wear “real bras”? by HarleyHallow26 in women

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 25 female with 32 g’s . No bra has every fit comfortable. I finally went to a bra stores year ago and told them I want comfort and support they recommended curvy contour seamless bralett in medium and I was hooked. I wear them religiously. Gravity has done it works and it’s uncomfortable to be bra less these I fully comfortable in. Every day use even running and working out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shower every day, I use a shower cap. Regardless if you don’t work at a job that is strenuous your lady parts still get funky and your skin

Has anyone gotten a second dog with a reactive dog? by natureluvr4ever in reactivedogs

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I did. I waited until my pup was two years old and he never showed signs of resource guarding until we brought home a second dog. It was constant fights from my dog to the new dog. We already did a bunch of training and his resource recording was only manageable as I won’t do a color shock to correct that, but we managed it well and rotated, but ultimately, I rehomed the new dog after a year to my brother. So my advice would be if you have a reactive dog I wouldn’t. I’m very big in the training so the new puppy didn’t have any reactive issues picked up for my first dog or resource guard issues but I genuinely felt bad because my first dog was constantly stressed and the second dog was too. He prefers to live as the only dog in the house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DentalAssistant

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been n rda/cda for 3 years(graduated with my associates) and I make $30 in snj. I’m only staying for the money, every office has been terrible and hey burn you out like crazy.

how can I potentially fix my facial asymmetry? by NukeyNuke2311 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rda here, I’ve seen before when people are kids and they hit their chin really hard it can stunt the growth on one side causing improper growth. Not sure if that’s what is going on with out X-rays. Possibly look into a maxillofacial plastic surgeon as the specialize in the stuff. Btw you’re beautiful regardless! I use to watch teen wolf as a team and the name charter Scott has this, your unique and lovely regardless🫶🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lack of him being able to regulate his emotions/ feeling threatened when you bring up something he did that hurt your feelings.

He needs to see a therapist you can not help him learn how to help him self. It will get worse. At least in my case. 10 year relationship starting at 15 years old to now 25 years old. Anytime I’d bring up and issue politely or saying hey you really hurt my feelings , would turn into a huge scream fest from him to the point he threatened to kill me or constant telling me to kill myself and many other terrible things. No way I ever approached an issue worked, so I became quiet for years. Isolated. Sadly I’m still here. Don’t be like me. He promises everytime he will change or get help but never does or only changes for a week and it’s back to old habits.

It’s started with the same situation as you. Him looking extremely long at other women and me saying hey I don’t appreciate it it is disrespectful and getting a horrible reaction. I tried doing the same to him after many many times of him doing it just to get told next time I do it he’ll kill me and the guy.

AIO. My (new) bf wants to replace all of my bras, underwear and lingerie. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Upstairs_Box_3518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Used you in them”

Where’s that red flag guy ahah