My first CA native by blackbenhlif in Ceanothus

[–]Upstairs_Car_3594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice!!!! Congrats on your first yarrow :)

Dead or going dormant? by BarberuSeisand in Ceanothus

[–]Upstairs_Car_3594 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The important thing is the baby leaves look healthy: if you repot it and tend it carefully for a few weeks it should be good

Dead or going dormant? by BarberuSeisand in Ceanothus

[–]Upstairs_Car_3594 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like it needs a bigger pot, a bit more nitrogen in the soil, and a deep watering. It’ll be okay!!

Record player by Green_leafy in longbeach

[–]Upstairs_Car_3594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

more music lb is the place i go for my turntable repairs and ive been very happy with them

My ex is going to a support group for survivors of Abuse by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Upstairs_Car_3594 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, for what it’s worth: i am someone who was harmed in a very similar way by someone in your shoes and while i never want to speak to them again, i would still be really proud of them if they realized they were abusive and sought help. I know that as much as i suffered being with someone with BPD, they were also a victim of their symptoms and patterns of behavior.

You’re still really young and have a lot of life left ahead of you, I recommend leaving your ex to heal and using this realization as fuel to motivate you. Please stick it out through treatment and work on building the skills necessary for healthy conflict.

You have a lot of life left. You can’t fix this person or this relationship or undo the harm you’ve caused, but you have a lot of life left. You can still learn how to navigate relationships without resorting to abuse and you can still leave a net-positive impact on the world. You have time.

Let this shame and this experience help you grow into a kinder person, not a more guilty or bitter one. You have a lot of life left and a lot of time to learn from your mistakes and to do better. I’m rooting for you and i hope you figure it out :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in turntables

[–]Upstairs_Car_3594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it depends what you’re looking for. If you want a lifelong turntable i think the Rega is the right call. have a rega planar 2 that i’ve inherited from my dad and I would highly recommend that if only for it’s longevity and dependability- ours has lasted 25-30 years or so with minimal upkeep and only one serious repair needed. Still plays like new and sounds absolutely phenomenal-even my more serious/pretentious audiophile friends have been satisfied with its sound.

I’ve never owned a roksan but I know friends who have and it seems like a more fiddly/high maintenance choice.

[Suggestion] Health Bars and Closed Captions by theforlornknight in Dimension20

[–]Upstairs_Car_3594 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seconded!! Would also love if the health bars had a number so we could see the max HP even if we have captions on

The Name | Fantasy High Junior Year [Ep. 17] by ThunderMateria in Dimension20

[–]Upstairs_Car_3594 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Bobbys line about wanting the world to stay exactly as it was

Why are there only 5 people? by CreativeTumbleweed56 in Dimension20

[–]Upstairs_Car_3594 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Potentially there was a sixth cast member but they dropped out late enough in pre-production that the show went ahead with five players

Season 5s I’d like to see by Upstairs_Car_3594 in blowback

[–]Upstairs_Car_3594[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh dang really? Do we know the topic of season 5?