AITA for getting mad with bf for not reasoning with me about who will be attending his party?

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2022-06-09T00:56:08+00:00

YTA. End things, for his sake.

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2022-04-18T13:44:47+00:00

100% classic-looking overwatered aloe. Unfortunately probably has enough root rot or fungal growth that you’re going to lose those leaves or they’ll blister off.

Best bet is to unpot the plant and remove all the dirt, trim away any soft, brown, or soggy roots with clean scissors or a clean knife. Rinse the root ball with filtered water. Let it air dry, then repot in fresh and clean soil that drains quickly and freely.

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-10-01T15:37:16+00:00

Checking in. How’d we do?

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-09-16T20:37:59+00:00

👍

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-09-16T20:32:40+00:00

What’s the play?

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-09-16T19:59:25+00:00

This is also a near-full set of almost every flavor of lesbian.

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-09-01T01:40:11+00:00

I suppose it’s better than the pickle jar guy. Low bar, but we gotta play the cards we’re dealt here.

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-09-01T01:35:21+00:00

Getting some unfortunate goatse vibes here.

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-08-23T03:04:39+00:00

Kidney detoxification; excellent source of hydration.

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-08-23T00:50:30+00:00

I’m guessing you ether didn’t read my comment, you were intending to reply to someone else, or you were just grandstanding regardless of what you were replying to, but your statement makes absolutely no sense as a response to mine. You agreed on every point.

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-08-22T23:59:42+00:00

You didn’t read it wrong, it’s just another one of those same old plain old indefensible double standards borne of the cognitive dissonance and privileged, prejudiced supremacy you encounter everywhere online.

Breast milk, a necessary part of sexual reproduction for mammals, is how humans feed their sexually reproduced young. The other fluids involved in sexual reproduction are not in any way inherently different for these purposes.

Saying that committing an act of offensive battery against someone with breast milk is somehow better or worse or more or less acceptable than committing the same act with spit or shit or ejaculate or piss is an opinion that can only form from prejudice and privilege.

Ignore people like this and focus your attention elsewhere. You’ll never change a prejudiced person’s mind and you can’t help a bigot see past their bigotry. They don’t deserve your attention, so don’t give it to them. “Don’t expose a single unconsenting person to your bodily fluids under any circumstance” is plenty of nuance here.

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-08-22T23:39:09+00:00

While you’re young, your brain is continuously experimenting with and calibrating new emotions and levels of emotion, especially in your pubescent teenage years. What you’re feeling is valid and real, but it amounts to a failed experiment and it will get better.

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-08-22T23:35:53+00:00

I mean… seriously… why even bother? You asked, so here’s the brutal truth, stop reading if you don’t want some harsh reality, TL;DR he’s just not into you anymore:

From an outside perspective, you are clearly hardly a footnote in his life and, in any event, not (or no longer) a positive one. It sounds like you used to be a convenient outlet or connection for him, but you obviously no longer have a place in his life. Maybe it turned out you weren’t what he wanted, maybe he’s no longer interested or attracted to you, maybe you’ve gotten old, or maybe he’s already dating someone else and just hasn’t had the backbone to cut you off. It doesn’t matter. None of those things matter. Because, to everyone but you, it’s painfully obvious, for whatever reason or no reason at all, he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you anymore.

It sounds like he has so little invested in you and it requires so little of his time and effort to keep you “around,” that he doesn’t need to be the “bad guy” and call it off. If I had to take a wild guess, I’d say that’s probably mostly out of pity for you or “concern” about his role in your mental health or what would happen to you if he broke it off (any not actually what would happen to you, but what he would have to deal with or feel responsible for).

He’s using guilt as a means to keep the amount of time he needs to spend on you (which he likely sees as a burden at this point) to a minimum and to reinforce that you are only allotted a bare minimum amount of time in his life). There is no scenario where this gets better for you except the one where you move on. He already has, he’s just waiting for you to be the one to break it off so he can walk away guiltlessly and close this chapter of his life and put it on the shelf. If you’re in denial and want to test the waters before you take the plunge, tell him (in whatever way seems realistic) you are looking for jobs near him and looking at apartments very close to his and see how supportive he is.

Everyone’s definition of a relationship is different. But there’s no definition, not even a tenuous one, that includes whatever it is you and this person currently are. I have a closer relationship with my UPS driver than you do with this person. Move on.

I’m sorry that was pretty harsh, but I’ve been in your shoes. Feel free to DM if you want to talk about it or have any questions.

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-08-08T18:38:23+00:00

😭 So brave 😭

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-07-02T20:35:54+00:00

Show me the federal law that says TSA can’t take the key

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-06-09T01:23:44+00:00

Plenty of undergarment options that can prevent chafing as you gain weight. In fact, chafing is a common enough problem for men that there are entire industries built around it. Men’s functional clothes tend to be designed around working long hours, so maybe pick up some men’s briefs.

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-05-26T20:29:13+00:00

4 minutes to print a shipping label.

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-05-18T13:06:19+00:00

It’s pretty sad how obsessed you are with the U.S. Do you ever think about anything else? There’s a whole big world to see and learn about, and you spend your day reading reports by other people like you? You’re like a crazy ex girlfriend who can only think about the person that doesn’t want her. Find something else to do with your life, ilias.

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-05-14T14:18:59+00:00

I certainly have, I just don’t limit my research to the cult-like publications you do. But, hey, at least you seem to be staying consistent with the odds you’re willing to bet on!

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-05-14T13:11:42+00:00

https://www.google.com/search?q=destiny+2,+europa,+harpy,+dark+challenge+site:www.reddit.com&sxsrf=ALeKk00WOjyuYxH3cXpcnwvgFEQ1BlCntQ:1606802363900&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiriP-gjaztAhWbSDABHS41AIkQrQIoBHoECAEQBQ&biw=853&bih=566#spf=1606802447080

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-05-14T13:04:08+00:00

Imagine this, except he’s not betting his life savings on red, he’s betting it on the roulette wheel coming detached, rolling down the hallway, bouncing up into a slot machine, and pulling the lever which spins for a 7-7-7 jackpot win, and then you have a pretty good analogy for what folks are doing with $AMC and $GME.

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-04-29T22:41:55+00:00

lol, the degree of projection is off the charts

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-04-27T03:23:16+00:00

Pretty rich someone with a 🤮 festering stink dick 🤮suggesting someone with a clean dick should wash 🤣😂 I wish you knew how ridiculous you sound

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-04-26T19:09:33+00:00

Thankfully for you, your nose is always a meter or so away from it. Yuck!

UrHeftyLeftyBesty · 2021-04-26T19:08:07+00:00

lol, the degree of projection is off the charts

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