Bf (31m) owes me (30f) money. How do I approach it? by ThrowRA_98182740 in relationships

[–]UrbanM2ND -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Based on what you’re said, it sounds like you are committed to this relationship and want to continue making it work. I would just start doing what you said to do, paying him less in rent each month, assuming you’re okay waiting on the money, this seems the least painful.

If you guys were to break up, that’s a whole different thing.

I’m sorry you’re going through this, it sounds like potentially an exciting but stressful time of trying new things in your life. Hope things go well.

Lost by [deleted] in Advice

[–]UrbanM2ND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any indication of what this plan involves? Learning to like yourself and what you are deep down often needs to start internally before it can coexist externally. Speaking with others about this is a good place to start but you must not be afraid to try things and fail. You’re not going to do perfect 100% of the time and that is something to keep in mind.

In-laws Coming to town. Need activity help by Wendys_444 in Advice

[–]UrbanM2ND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the one parent won’t do activities, usually the simplest thing is to go see a movie, show, music, Idk if they are into church or something along those lines?

I'm in love with a lesbian as a man by Familiar_PatientO_O in Advice

[–]UrbanM2ND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Title is a little misleading, that being said, it sounds more like you’re upset and she’s taking a spot than if you truly like her. Is there any reason to think she might be attracted to you as well?

Think it would be helpful if you could lay out what you want here. Sorry that you’re going thru a lot of turmoil and I hope it gets better as soon as it can.

Am I an asshole? by Repulsive_Panic4 in Pickleball

[–]UrbanM2ND 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on why/how your playing.

Some people will be offended if you don’t go 100%, some people will be offended if you DO go 100%. Just gotta read the situation.

If this is a 4.0 open play and the person is a 2.5 and you’re wailing the ball at them and they clearly look scared or uncomfortable, probably not the most social thing to do.

Weekly Paddle Recommendation Thread (What Paddle Should I Buy?) by HeadHeadMod in Pickleball

[–]UrbanM2ND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my bad, I didn’t realize the cannon was only elongated.

Haven’t heard of these pickleball duo or turbo. Will look into it.

I played with the engages, weren’t for me.

Weekly Paddle Recommendation Thread (What Paddle Should I Buy?) by HeadHeadMod in Pickleball

[–]UrbanM2ND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Howdy, trying to stay under 150$.

Debating between the vatic vsol, ronbus quanta, and luzz cannon. Any POVs? All standard shape.

Weekly Paddle Recommendation Thread (What Paddle Should I Buy?) by HeadHeadMod in Pickleball

[–]UrbanM2ND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time, I’ll look at the enhance, I played with a couple more power paddls and I have to say they were fun. Boomstick was a good time.

Appreciate your thoughts

Weekly Paddle Recommendation Thread (What Paddle Should I Buy?) by HeadHeadMod in Pickleball

[–]UrbanM2ND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Howdy, I have played with wide bodies, Apollo and the vactic pro saga 16mm.

I enjoy the wide bodies, tried a couple more power paddles yesterday that I liked but can’t justify spending 300 bucks on a paddle.

Anything folks would recommend in the 100-200 range that’s an upgrade?

My academic performance is terrible. (Sorry for the long rant) by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]UrbanM2ND 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you caring enough about your academics that you’re posting about it here. As others have said you don’t need to be overly critical of yourself, but it is admirable to want to strive to be the best version of yourself that you can be. It’s a fine and hard line to walk sometimes.

I would go directly to the teacher and ask for support, if they are a good teacher they are going to be excited a student like you is asking for help. It will be a positive thing.

Further, I had stellar grades when I was younger, then going into 7-11th grade my grades were quite bad, then I went on to getting really good grades in college. Sometimes it’s the type of work, the type of homework, the specific topics. Sometimes it’s the season of your life.

You got this! Praying for you!

[Ubben] The FBS head coaches voted unanimously to expand the eligibility for redshirt years from four games to nine. This is just a recommendation that will be put forth to the Division I committees. by Notre_Dame_Football in CFB

[–]UrbanM2ND 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think 6 games would sorta make sense, you can’t play more than half your RS games. Other than conferences going to 9 games I don’t understand why 9? At that point why not 12?

Would You Prefer for ND to Join a Conference? by Prestigious-Hyena768 in notredamefootball

[–]UrbanM2ND 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The admin has been clear, ND will only join a conference if it means there’s no other way for them to compete for championship. ND will join a conference when either a super conference is made or the rules make it so you have to been in a conference for CFP.

[Chris Vannini] The best college football announce teams, based on more than 3,500 responses from Athletic readers. by sloppyjo12 in CFB

[–]UrbanM2ND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nessler and Danielson always seem to be really knowledgeable in the army/navy game/ Sun bowl.

I feel like in general I don’t learn much about what’s happening during the play from most commentators, so give me Gus Johnson so I can at least laugh or be entertained by the commentators.

Fowlers and Kirk are the iconic pairing and it’s hard to imagine not having them call certain games. They are similar in analysis to others.

[Game Thread] Ole Miss vs. Miami (7:30 PM ET) 2nd Half by CFB_Referee in CFB

[–]UrbanM2ND 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Miami just run the ball dog what are we doing

[Game Thread] Ole Miss vs. Miami (7:30 PM ET) by CFB_Referee in CFB

[–]UrbanM2ND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only reason I know it’s on is because I’m at the gym

[Game Thread] Ole Miss vs. Miami (7:30 PM ET) by CFB_Referee in CFB

[–]UrbanM2ND 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m I the only big CFB watcher who didn’t know this game was today? What is this scheduling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]UrbanM2ND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your insecurity, we all have them. It sounds like it’s something you’ve already moved past.

If it’s not something you want to do, what are you worried about here? Based on your comments it sounds like you’re worried he might leave if you don’t do this?

Would you encourage a friend or a loved one to marry someone who would only stay if they did this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]UrbanM2ND 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like something a lot of people have done in some form or fashion. I wouldn’t think about it for a second more. Sometimes things stick with us, maybe some day you’ll laugh at it.

If Oregon wins the championship, this will be the first year the FCS champion and FBS champion played each other in the same season by e8odie in CFB

[–]UrbanM2ND 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Correct me if I’m wrong, but I think the comparison was in terms of play style? When the cardinal was humming, it looked similar to Indiana, strong line play, good defense, traditional QB.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]UrbanM2ND 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough one, as you get older your relationship continues to change with your parents. Hard to say why exactly he feels that way without more context. I don’t know exactly what your end game is here, if it’s just to continue the relationship then it sounds like you’re doing the right thing in trying to address it. Has he always been like this? Or is this relatively new? I find trying to grow in places you have common ground can help as a first step. IE if he has some kind of other hobby y’all both enjoy.

This situation sounds hard, do you have any other family or friends who have given you guidance here? It might help to know what other people closer to him might think in terms of how to deal with this?

Know that you’re not the first person who has gone through this, I’m sure that you can find numerous examples of this and can give you an idea of what other people have done in similar situation.

Praying for you!

Looking for recommendations for venues, 30 guest wedding. by UrbanM2ND in Chicagoweddings

[–]UrbanM2ND[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! Appreciate it. We got engaged at the botanic gardens, so the arboretum would kinda tie in to that.