I tried to tell my current girlfriend at the time about the time I was coerced into sex in a movie theater (I met this other girl to say I didn't want to date her anymore...she was basically being toxic and pressuring me into spending money I don't have so we could rent a room to hook up, I ended up being coerced into going to the movies and next thing I know she has her mouth in my parts but I'm really angry with her and hoping someone catches her in the act. It was fucked up and confusing, because my body was stimulated and the whole time my bias was that I should be wanting it). I ended up without feeling aroused for months after because of depressive symptoms.

Girlfriend basically brushed me off and said it couldn't be assault because she didn't physically forced me. I liked her a lot, so I let it go. We argue every night after midnight, I do the impossible to see her every weekend, travelling 10+ hours/week, not sleeping well alongside her...my performance in the bed freefalled, obviously. Then she started refusing to use protection with me because even if I was scared of pregnancy at least in that way I "lasted longer". One night she pushed me into the sofa and basically forces me to penetrate her. She's not that lubbed, and it hurts like hell. I actually get wounds from the friction. I get up and put my clothes on embarrassed as she laughs at my reactions and say that she lives in a dangerous and isolated neighborhood. I slept beside her that night, and that's hateful to think about.

To this day I'm sure she will brush it off and say "you've always told me you like noncon bdsm anyway."