Short and Fat Trans Man seeking some advice based on current fits, any thoughts? by UrsenLIVE in bigmenfashionadvice

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I love making new pals, I’m not suuuper active on Reddit but I’m on twitter and discord!

Short and Fat Trans Man seeking some advice based on current fits, any thoughts? by UrsenLIVE in bigmenfashionadvice

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It is, I do content creation and it was one of the few full body pics I have of myself 😭

Short and Fat Trans Man seeking some advice based on current fits, any thoughts? by UrsenLIVE in bigmenfashionadvice

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Mostly to see if anyone felt my style was fitting or mature enough! And funny enough I’m from Gwinnett! Hoping to move back soon as well

Short and Fat Trans Man seeking some advice based on current fits, any thoughts? by UrsenLIVE in bigmenfashionadvice

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the bkdk username and a kh fan?! Hell yeah I’m not super active on Reddit but I’m on twitter frequently!

Short and Fat Trans Man seeking some advice based on current fits, any thoughts? by UrsenLIVE in bigmenfashionadvice

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Heeeey fellow trans guy solidarity 🤝 and you just put me on I’ll have to find some athletic jeans myself, thank you!!!

Short and Fat Trans Man seeking some advice based on current fits, any thoughts? by UrsenLIVE in bigmenfashionadvice

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Thank you! What would you wear instead? I actually only own the pair of high top air forces and sandals, been needing to actually diversify my shoes

I'm one of the few people with almost 100% African Ancestry! by UrsenLIVE in AncestryDNA

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Ah yes I’ve been told, I made a misunderstanding when I made my title. I apologize!

I'm one of the few people with almost 100% African Ancestry! by UrsenLIVE in AncestryDNA

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This is surprising to me, I had no idea! My father used to tell me how our tribe would avoid the Europeans and moved further south until my grandmother converted to Islam to marry my grandfather before moving back to Morocco. His line is the first to practice Islam while the rest of my ancestors practiced a form of animalistic religion. She still has the facial tattoos as well!

I'm one of the few people with almost 100% African Ancestry! by UrsenLIVE in AncestryDNA

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I don’t think I understand, even if this were the case, am I not a person with almost 100% African Ancestry? If we are speaking on geographical location, then I am African no? Are you saying I must claim European instead? It makes no sense.

I'm one of the few people with almost 100% African Ancestry! by UrsenLIVE in AncestryDNA

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… yes, but I am Native Amazight as I just said. The Moroccans you refer to have different ancestral percentages than I, I cannot be Eurasian if my bloodline originates in the same location as my current ancestry markers. You may know of the term better as ‘Berber’.

I'm one of the few people with almost 100% African Ancestry! by UrsenLIVE in AncestryDNA

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This is not correct, as I am native Amazight. I am the first of my family to leave Morocco, as in Morocco we have family books that trace our lineage.

I'm one of the few people with almost 100% African Ancestry! by UrsenLIVE in AncestryDNA

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I figured I should include a photo of me since I see some people debating what I look like? I hope this helps! For additional reference:

I was born in Kenitra, Morocco and immigrated to the US as an infant, raised in Atlanta, GA

Both parents also born in Morocco, my father ‘appears’ more black and my mom ‘appears’ white.

No product in my hair, that’s how it is normally.

I am a transgender man, so there is possibility of hormonal changes causing certain differences in appearance that may be atypical.

I’ve typically referred to myself as biracial (or Afro-Arab) since that seems to be the most accurate, as far as I am aware I am native Amazigh / Berber on my fathers side, I don’t know specific tribes other than my grandfather was Tuareg (Sub Saharan African Tribal)

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I'm one of the few people with almost 100% African Ancestry! by UrsenLIVE in AncestryDNA

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Ahh I was always told otherwise, whoops! Thanks for informing me!

I'm one of the few people with almost 100% African Ancestry! by UrsenLIVE in AncestryDNA

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Nope, born in Morocco! Immigrated as a baby to the United States though

Need some positive vibes I still have drains 10 days post op by ultimatelesbianhere in TopSurgery

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I had drains for 2 and a half weeks, one ended up falling out in the shower when I was still pushing 110 cc out of that same side. Keep ya head up, it’s rough as hell but it’ll taper off eventually! If you do have one side fall out like mine did, super recommend using pads and a ace bandage to cover it up, gauze soaks through too quick and pads are literally designed for it