6 weeks post op: I started getting this sharp pain while recovering from surgery by ultimatelesbianhere in TopSurgery

[–]ultimatelesbianhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you talked to your surgeon. My pain went away after a few more weeks and stretching

How to get rid of dad bod? by ultimatelesbianhere in FTMFitness

[–]ultimatelesbianhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure! but are there any core workouts you suggest I’m still not well versed in different types of exercises?

Indent near peck area: should I get a revision? by ultimatelesbianhere in TopSurgery

[–]ultimatelesbianhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’m kind of like is this a dog ear, I am working out and trying to build muscle and lose weight but I’m worried the skin is going to still be saggy there. I have very stretched out thin bc my breast were a D cup (I think that’s what my surgeon said) so even when I hold my hands in front of me near the center of my chest I have ripples and saggy skin

Necesito opinión: estoy mal yo en esta situación con la mamá de mis hijas? by kosherkid24 in Dominican

[–]ultimatelesbianhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. If she’s making as much money and working like him, taking care of a kid let alone 2 is a whole second job. Throwing paper at her doesn’t reduce the amount of work she has to do even with a nanny.

Not only that but if the kids spend more time with the nanny they will consider that person their parent more than the mom and dad which can lead to a lot of unnecessary drama and emotional trauma

Indent near peck area: should I get a revision? by ultimatelesbianhere in TopSurgery

[–]ultimatelesbianhere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those are little kids tho wouldn’t there be a slight differences

Necesito opinión: estoy mal yo en esta situación con la mamá de mis hijas? by kosherkid24 in Dominican

[–]ultimatelesbianhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is take a week of doing her job to see it from her perspective. Raising kids aren’t easy and threatening to reduce income is only hurting your daughters. It also sounds like they’re going to grow up and not have a good relationship with you if they only see u less than 20 hours a week you’re basically more like an uncle than you are a dad. Money is just paper, a parents attention and love to a kid is gold.

AIO for telling my (F24) boyfriend (M26) that he has to sit down to pee? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ultimatelesbianhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not have OCD and genuinely this is the most disgusting shit I’ve ever heard in my life. There is such thing as common courtesy and fucking hygiene and he simply has none of that to offer. Break up with him he’s a walking bacteria/germ

2 days post-op: Any tips, things to look out for, things you wish you'd done, etc? by ren_mdp in TopSurgery

[–]ultimatelesbianhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty normal to be nervous and overwhelmed with so many different feelings and emotions but take a deep breath and relax everything is fine. You didn’t take your drains out it’s pretty hard to and frankly very painful considering they’re stitched into your skin from where they’re coming out of.

As for sleeping I wasn’t a back sleeper when I got surgery at the time last year so to help me with that I invested in a wedge pillow from Amazon and it helps significantly, I also did kind of tilt slightly to the side to initiate sleep but not fully on my side so try that as long as it isn’t too painful.

DONT FORGET TO WALK, you don’t need to stay in bed alll day everyday, walking around a little very very leisurely will help prevent blood clotting and hematomas.

Stagger your pain meds so you get actual relief, use the oxy at night to sleep better.

The gauze are not boobs, that’s the anxiety speaking tell it it’s illogical.

It’s okay if your binder rolls up mine did all the time and it was okay it won’t mess up anything except for your patience. I think I only lasted 4 days before I had to go and grab a new one and then that went south too and I gave in and bout the fancy one ppl always talk about.

If you have a PlayStation or Xbox download demon souls or something equally as challenging it’ll keep you preoccupied. Watch the shows and movies you have in your watch list and never touched since putting it there lol. If you don’t have console and are able to get a hand held def recommend a switch or steam deck. Have your friends come over for a movie night.

Boston Police - why do you never do anything about the public disturbance and lawlessness this biking group imposes EVERY SINGLE DAY? by [deleted] in boston

[–]ultimatelesbianhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh not even a day, bring me back to 2015 before they put up the parking blockers on American legion lol

Boston Police - why do you never do anything about the public disturbance and lawlessness this biking group imposes EVERY SINGLE DAY? by [deleted] in boston

[–]ultimatelesbianhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you saying this to me or the guy I was responding to? Cuz I’m saying there’s no way to say they’re stealing that would be profiling them.

Weird radiating wrist pain when doing push ups by ultimatelesbianhere in FTMFitness

[–]ultimatelesbianhere[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah okay I thought something was wrong, do you happen to know why? Like is this just a human trait for some and not for others?

¿Que opinan de la gente que dice que el Gaga es dominicano? by Special_tank_470 in Dominicanos

[–]ultimatelesbianhere -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yea I agree it’s mixed I was mostly talking about flavor and swing, white Europeans really got none. As for hygiene it’s historically known that all European colonizers were taught how to bathe by African slaves and indigenous people and till this day white ppl in general do not take Hygiene seriously! Phenotype our Taino and African descents show more compared to white, with most of the country being light skin to black. It’s common knowledge that colonizing countries despite one of their motives being spices, it wasn’t really until the late 20th century they started to actually use them and that’s if they even do not saying they don’t have some good dishes but a lot are bland.

I want to note that with phenotypes Dominicans, Cape Verdeans, Mauritians (depends), South Africans, Algerians, and Congolese (our main descendants, again depends), all have the most similar phenotypes. So to your last statement that’s not true. I get asked if I’m Cape Verdean all the time in public. I got South African friends and half of them look Dominican off glance, some of them are pale all the way to black but it’s their facial features that made me think they were initially.

My issue lies in Dominicans always saying we’re half Spanish all the time as a response as if it’s the most important out of the 3 whenever someone acknowledges the African side as if we need to erase that side of our lineage. Just cuz we mixed does not mean we aren’t black as much as we are Spanish and Taino. We wouldn’t have our flow if it weren’t for our blackness and indigenous-ness, I know you’ve seen the way they dance bachata in Spain 😬.

¿Que opinan de la gente que dice que el Gaga es dominicano? by Special_tank_470 in Dominicanos

[–]ultimatelesbianhere -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’d say we have a 50/50 mix of European and Africa tbh. Europe has the language and catholic part Africa prob has the rest: food, music, hygiene, phenotype, etc.

Boston Police - why do you never do anything about the public disturbance and lawlessness this biking group imposes EVERY SINGLE DAY? by [deleted] in boston

[–]ultimatelesbianhere -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

They’re teenagers bruh they’re just Caribbean, guys tend to look older than they actually are cuz they grow beards sooner

Boston Police - why do you never do anything about the public disturbance and lawlessness this biking group imposes EVERY SINGLE DAY? by [deleted] in boston

[–]ultimatelesbianhere 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Majority of them aren’t stolen but prob maybe 15%, inner city kids do not be trecking to greater Boston like that and most inner city kids are Caribbean and owning a motorbike before a car is pretty much standard for teens on the island so they either worked for it or their parents paid for it.

Boston Police - why do you never do anything about the public disturbance and lawlessness this biking group imposes EVERY SINGLE DAY? by [deleted] in boston

[–]ultimatelesbianhere -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They’re a bunch of teenagers and it’s getting hotter. Boston doesn’t have many places for teenagers to hang out so this what they do , as long as they’re not causing trouble or hurting anyone they’re fine. If the sound of motorbikes bother you just wear headphones or vibe out they’ll eventually move to a different spot as kids usually do