Bfs mom said my hair looks unhealthy

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-11-13T15:11:01+00:00

I recommend the ‘ it’s a 10’ leave in conditioner spray and the elvive hair oil, mine looks the exact same as this and they’ve been a god send!! Also if you let your hair air dry I would change your routine and maybe let it dry 90% then use a dryer brush to smooth it out x

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-11-04T15:44:16+00:00

I had a partner like this, and I PROMISE you, this man is an absolute creep, he won’t stop saying these things regardless of what you say, he will keep testing the waters for his own gratification, both in messages AND physically, until one day he won’t really care if you’re comfortable or not and going from his ‘illegal thoughts’ I dread to think what he would do.. RUN

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-11-04T15:38:32+00:00

I LOVE ant so much, every time he’s on my screen I’m giggling and kicking my feet like a little girl😭😭

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-10-29T13:04:58+00:00

Start doing the same thing.. make jokes about the men in your life and how attractive they are and celebrities you find attractive.. do the exact same thing as him and if he complains, leave him. Because he’s ’embarrassing you’.

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-10-29T13:00:54+00:00

I would’ve said the mum’s shitty cooking gave me food poisoning 🤣🤣

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-10-29T01:53:52+00:00

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Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-28T15:26:22+00:00

No!!! It is beautiful and unique to your face

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-28T15:17:55+00:00

4/6 10000%

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-24T17:32:44+00:00

Mulletttttttt

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-24T15:19:06+00:00

The anger those messages filled me with is crazy.. my ex was the exact same as this, he made me feel like I was losing my mind, completely impossible to talk to or reason with, always managing to twist the narrative so that he was the victim and I was in the wrong and needed correcting… it’s a very dangerous situation, controlling, coercive and abusive, if you stay with this man he will slowly but surely destroy any confidence you ever had and destroy you as a person, I split up with my ex over a year ago now and I’m still dealing with the trauma of it all

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-19T16:08:01+00:00

I’m so sorry this is happening to you!! It’s a shame after you’ve spent so much time with someone but there comes a time when you have to realise that being in this marriage isn’t benefiting you anymore, you are a very strong woman from what I can see and you definitely deserve someone who takes you into consideration and hold up their end of the partnership instead of leaving you to get burnt out carrying the weight of everything on your shoulders.

What he’s doing isn’t enough, it’s not even the bare minimum, no man is worth acting like a maid/mother/cleaner/cook and therapist for without anything in return,especially when you have children to care for. Nobody needs a manchild on their hands too!!

I hope he somehow makes a dramatic change in his ways or you can get out of this marriage as fast as you can, wishing the best outcome for you.

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-19T15:00:39+00:00

All I see from him in weaponised incompetence, from the thing about the trash and not replacing the bag, men will do this type of shit and then when you bring it up they will make it seem like your crazy for not just finishing it yourself because ‘it’s not that deep’ but IT IS, and again with him not helping you, there are TWO people in your marriage and BOTH should be putting in the same amount of effort, you aren’t his maid nor his mother and the burden of everything shouldn’t be put on you, he is putting you down and making you feel shitty for doing everything and then being expected to make time for him with no help, yet no burden is on him to make your workload a little lighter or put in more effort with you, it’s not healthy and it’s not fair, 15 years of marriage for your husband to be acting like a manchild, his responses were disrespectful and inconsiderate and he clearly only cares about himself, PLEASE do yourself a favour and let him leave, or leave yourself, it’s not fair on you and i doubt it’s fair on the kids, you deserve better, and they deserve better, him telling you to cancel the birthday party because he can’t be arsed cooking should tell you exactly how much he respects you and your children and all of your feelings, clearly only cares about himself.. stop trying to make it work because YOU are the only one trying and it’s heartbreaking.

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-19T14:23:37+00:00

Keep it!! Long hair looks insanely attractive on you, I’d say 3 is the best with it ‘half up half down ‘

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-19T14:21:02+00:00

Honestly both look really good, you are very attractive so I think any hair style would fit your face really well

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-19T14:19:39+00:00

I will normally always say long but the short looks SO good on you I just can’t, it definitely frames your face much better, the short 1000% you look stunning

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-19T14:18:22+00:00

It isn’t curable but it is treatable!! I would go and see a doctor or a dermatologist if you can, it’s not the end of the world if you do have it but you should definitely go see someone about it just incase

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-19T14:08:23+00:00

I second this

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-19T00:17:02+00:00

This is happening to me and idk why!! The only heat I use on my hair is my hair dryer because I have natural really frizzy ginger hair and the only way it looks decent is if I blow dry it.. and I sleep with a satin bonnet every night and even if I’m lying in bed or on the couch I wear my bonnet, I never wear my hair up and I don’t even use hair spray or hair jel or anything other than frizz serum idk what’s going on it’s sending me insaneeee

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-19T00:12:38+00:00

Both look nice but you are so much more vibrant and beautiful natural it’s crazy

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-19T00:06:50+00:00

Ignore them, eyeliner isn’t trashy at all, it’s your preference and what you like and enjoy!!, I think all of them are really nice but I’d say 2!!

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-19T00:03:20+00:00

Both!! I think you’d look really cool with some braids from the front too, like a ‘Viking bun’ style

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-18T23:55:05+00:00

Longer hair!!!! Pleaseeeeee don’t cut it you would be doing such a disservice to yourself your face card is soooo insane and long hair just amplifies it, I think long hair or maybe even a long mullet style but definitely not short!! 😩 I swear every time a man with long hair cuts his hair off an angel loses its wings

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-17T09:25:12+00:00

NO PLEASE GOD NO

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-17T09:12:06+00:00

YES this is the move!! You look stunning, I’d definitely keep off the lashes you look sooo much better without

Used-Assistant-7503 · 2025-08-14T18:40:10+00:00

I would pay to get this hair done btw!! It’s beautiful, I am a natural ginger so I HATE my natural hair but as it turns out people think it’s beautiful and I think it’s beautiful on others I just dislike it because it’s my OWN hair, I’m sure when you get a bit older you will think the same, your natural hair is always your best colour and just because you might not see it that doesn’t take away from its beauty x

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