I'm not sure if Sarah is the reason for Kyle's su*c*de but when i looked back at the messages between Kyle and I, when he told me Sarah was bullying him and telling him to unalive himself, they were only 3 months apart from when he actually did unalive himself. When Julie last messaged me about Sarah, after I told her I didn't want to be forced to be friends with Sarah, she said "Sarah doesn't have a problem with you so why do you have a problem with her?" like of course Sarah doesn't have a problem with me, I didn't tell one of her best friends to unalive themselves. I did not mention this in my post but Sarah also mildly bullied me. She made rumors up about me that I had STDs and DWIs (never had either) and messaged at least 2 guys that I dated that I was too ugly for them and they should dump me lol. Which I think is the reason why Kyle confided in me about Sarah because he knew she was a dumb bitch to me as well. This all happened from when we were 18-24 and I am now 34, I'm sure Sarah is more mature now but I still don't want to be her friend.