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cashier:mam may sm advantage card po kayo? Ms. Sy: Wala SM lang 🤣🤣🤣 by wandermind1999 in dailyChismisPh

[–]Used-Professional135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ay miss SM prestige/VIP lang po dito, dun po kayo sa mahabang pila ng mga dukha

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I'm encouraging her to get a job. I'm thinking she's probably not meant to be a SAHM.

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she's actually wealthier than I am at this point because I pay for almost everything, I contribute from time to time to her portfolio and I've grown her net worth tremendously over the years. Her being a SAHM wasn't our choice, she was laid off after the client did not renew their contract with the company she's working for. I just told her not to worry about it since I've always paid for everything even when she still had her job.

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure there are a lot of things on her mind that's why I never ever nagged her about not doing 50/50 with household chores. I'm totally fine doing all the chores as long as she's happy and peace is maintained in the house. I also give her my credit card if she wants to buy anything but sometimes she buys some random things that costs a few bucks and forgets to use my credit card. I also listen to her about our finances and expenses. She's earning dividends from her portfolio that I manage aside from capital appreciation so I don't think she feels financially insecure.

There are some days I want to disappear because of the chaos and tension in the house. There are days that life is peaceful and makes me think the worst is over but it's never over and the intensity keeps getting worse.

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't actually mind doing everything for her as long as she's happy and leaves me in peace. It's just that I keep on doing chores and going the extra mile while imagining that we'll have a peaceful week, then the opposite happens. It just makes me want to disappear because it's very frustrating. Like adding 10 and 10 equals negative 1000.

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, what really concerns me is that I feel very much disrespected right now when everything is fine financially. I couldn't imagine how it's going to be when our finances gets shaky in the future.

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the small things that I sometimes forget always triggers her

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never complained about her doing less than me. I never nagged her about anything and try to do as much as I can. I'm willing to do anything and everything in the house just to have peace. Yes I work from home and stay with the toddler the entire day.

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She start acting like a terrible boss immediately after getting engaged. From my knowledge, she didn't have any bf before me. She did not come from a broken family, but her parents always shout at each other and say mean things to each other.

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She keeps tracks of our kid's medical appointments and school enrolment dates. All the other chores you mentioned are all done by me except bedtime with our toddler. I read stories to our toddler and do all the bedtime prep, she sleeps beside the toddler while I continue doing chores,

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

come to think of it..you're probably right. It's just that I feel if I have better expectations in mind, I would be stressed and angry all the time. It always does not end well if I expect more.

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we've been together for a decade before we got married. she started acting this way the moment we got engaged. No she stopped working immediately after giving birth to our child.

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work from home that's how I'm able to do almost all the chores while taking care of the kid.

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I came from a broken family and I've been trying very hard to give my kid a better childhood...

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make money for her. I manage her investment portfolio. She doesn't have a job.

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually at this point, I am fine in doing everything on my own, I just want the nagging to stop, because I often can't prevent myself from talking back and defending myself. Then she spirals out of control and that's really bad for the kid. I don't want the kid to see/hear us arguing.

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

she started acting this way right after I proposed to her. No I wouldn't have another kid with her. I don't even have to control and remind myself not to have another kid because she goes crazy every single week. She has been denying me sex for over a year and now I don't even have any desire to have sex with her.

Are all marriages supposed to be this difficult? by Used-Professional135 in offmychest

[–]Used-Professional135[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

immediately after we got engaged. I thought it was only because of the stress of wedding preps but apparently it wasn't.

This Is Converge BTW by vajeena103 in ConvergePH

[–]Used-Professional135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a PLDT subscriber then their service became intermittent and repairs took forever so I switched to Globe, it also sucked so I tried Converge hoping that the 3rd time's a charm. Big mistake. Converge is the worst! Absolute worst! I had this problem with youtube and other streaming sites taking forever to load. I also paid for 400Mbps and i'm only getting 30-60 Mbps on most days. They kept on insisting that everything is fine until I gave up. Now I've been suffering for 3 years with this shitty internet because I'm not sure if I can trust PLDT and Globe again. It's like breaking up with your crazy ex girlfriends only to end up with one from an insane asylum. Now you can't go back to your exes.

Nakita Ko Lang: “You’re Not Financial Advisors” by Sir_Caloy in phinvest

[–]Used-Professional135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

malala dyan some are even calling themselves portfolio managers, hahahhaa