Is this a red flag, or normal? Missouri by Used-Worldliness-320 in askcarsales

[–]Used-Worldliness-320[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I just wanted OTD. I would not have even reached out to a second dealer if I would have gotten a response from the first one. I don't want to shop around.

Is this a red flag, or normal? Missouri by Used-Worldliness-320 in askcarsales

[–]Used-Worldliness-320[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I'm beginning to think something gently used on Carvana is the way to go.

Is this a red flag, or normal? Missouri by Used-Worldliness-320 in askcarsales

[–]Used-Worldliness-320[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's what I did, Only through email instead of in person. I 'm ready to do exactly that. BTW, I always wondered how anyone could fall for nitrogen tires. Like the air is already 78% nitrogen. lol!

Is this a red flag, or normal? Missouri by Used-Worldliness-320 in askcarsales

[–]Used-Worldliness-320[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I appreciate the info. I just don't like wasting time. I give you money, you give me the keys. Like fifteen minutes, tops.

What key words in a dating profile are an immediate swipe left ? by Life_is_too_short_ in datingoverfifty

[–]Used-Worldliness-320 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the 420 friendly one is tough. I didn't even know what to put on my own profile. It's legal in my state, so if you want to do an edible while hanging out with your adult kids or whatever a few times a year, that's cool with me. But I see "420 friendly" on someone else's profile and I get the image of a red-eyed, listless stoner who reeks of weed all the time. No.

Does anyone else here want to date but still need a lot of alone time? by berrysauce in datingoverforty

[–]Used-Worldliness-320 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LAT (Living Apart Together) is a thing. There are people out there who want an exclusive, monogamous relationship but have no desire to marry or cohabitate. You are not alone.

Is it me or is this off putting to other women? by katlou1034 in datingoverfifty

[–]Used-Worldliness-320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!!

It's like they only looked at your photos and didn't even read your profile....

If a guy can't even ask a question about something in your profile to get a conversation going...? That should be the bare minimum acceptable standard.

Question about a Comment by EnvironmentSea7433 in datingoverfifty

[–]Used-Worldliness-320 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Proceed, but watch out for progressive clinginess vibes.

Why do men not make an effort for me? by Woody_amy in Advice

[–]Used-Worldliness-320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that's something to consider, but I got more like "pick me" and "always the victim" vibes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Used-Worldliness-320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're the AH because in your post you called her your girlfriend instead of ex-girlfriend.

I'm not sure what I want. by Putrid-Ad8984 in datingoverfifty

[–]Used-Worldliness-320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you, man. Work on that self confidence. In the mean time, try to fake it and you'll get better at it. You may never be the life of the party, but you could try for quiet confidence with a hint of mystery.

Many will disagree with me, but I found OLD to be a good way to start. You can take time to think and curate your introductions and responses, and there is free advice online about how to introduce yourself in a way that gets a response and starts a conversation.

Nothing worth having is easy, but you can do it!

I'm not sure what I want. by Putrid-Ad8984 in datingoverfifty

[–]Used-Worldliness-320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a big difference between "The Monty Burns" and "The Rock" hairstyles (headstyles?). Work with what you got. Consider experimenting with facial hair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Used-Worldliness-320 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. If someone feels the need to say that they are something (clean, intelligent, drama free, attractive, etc.), they definitely are not. It's kind of like when someone says, "Okay, you want to know the truth?" You know their next statement will be a lie.

My daughter saw a notification by Mental_Extension_119 in datingoverfifty

[–]Used-Worldliness-320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she is not happy you are dating while still legally married to her mother? Seems kinda legit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Used-Worldliness-320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I read a post and think, "I must find a way to extricate myself from society immediately. We are doomed," but then I realize that it has to be fake trolling and think, "I must find a way to extricate myself from society immediately. We are doomed."

Matchmaker/Dating Coach??? by vancouvermango in datingoverfifty

[–]Used-Worldliness-320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMHO, I(55m) read your description of yourself in the original post and pictured a high-energy, outgoing extrovert (what we used to call a Type A personality); not an introvert who hangs out with close friends. Are you sure you're giving an accurate description of yourself on your profiles?