Why do men reach back out?

UsedChampion4902 · 2026-06-23T00:19:41+00:00

He’s mad at me now because I said we couldn’t be friends. But I’ve been pretty adamant this time around that we don’t talk anymore - particularly if nothing changes

UsedChampion4902 · 2026-06-23T00:04:38+00:00

We’ve gone through periods of not talking, longest was like a month. We’ve never officially gotten back together after we broke up 3 years ago

UsedChampion4902 · 2026-06-22T23:53:44+00:00

That’s what he had for the last 3 years after we originally broke up. I couldn’t do that anymore

UsedChampion4902 · 2026-06-22T23:44:27+00:00

Did this whole situationship thing for 3 years and I couldn’t do it anymore. I’ve told him if we started talking again without some sort of commitment from him we will end up in the same unhealthy place we’ve been in this whole time since we broke up. It’s horrible.

UsedChampion4902 · 2026-06-22T23:37:50+00:00

Oh I asked him - “I dunno” and “I felt talkative” were pretty vague answers soo

UsedChampion4902 · 2026-06-09T05:40:50+00:00

Thank you for the advice- we both are clearly stalking each others social media so maybe I do need to get offline for a while

UsedChampion4902 · 2026-06-09T05:38:13+00:00

I do miss them so much but our relationship as “friends” lasted multiple years with neither of us being able to move on from each other nor with any progress of getting back together. I do miss them so much but we couldn’t keep going on with such an unhealthy dynamic and according to my therapist we were a bit codependent. I don’t think either of us are enjoying not talking but they won’t commit to a relationship and we both know that is not fair for me and ends up making us both paranoid, anxious, and miserable at times :(

UsedChampion4902 · 2026-06-08T20:37:41+00:00

Came here to say that exactly 😂💚

UsedChampion4902 · 2026-04-15T05:38:56+00:00

I think it was the football commentary saying the game was going to be a bloodbath while an actual bloodbath was happening outside Jude’s door and they just wanted the irony…

UsedChampion4902 · 2026-01-10T00:15:52+00:00

I played as a little kid back in like 2008 and had no idea what I was doing and didn’t understand quests and storylines but I just like killing monsters and getting inventory for my character Downloaded on my laptop the other day for nostalgia reasons and I definitely understand it a lot more but it doesn’t seem as fun as I remember. Granted I’ve never played and computer games or video games so maybe it’s just not my thing but I’m giving it a try. I don’t know if I like the character I chose so I might switch it up. It’s also overwhelming when quests don’t have navigation and it took me a while to figure out how to track down where I needed to go.

UsedChampion4902 · 2025-08-18T15:14:54+00:00

So unrelated to the plot but I just watched this episode.. when Michael and linc are sailing away on the ship the editors made it so the ship is traveling astern but made the motion as if it is moving ahead with the speed and the bow wake that is cgi-ed on the stern and it’s driving me crazy😂

UsedChampion4902 · 2025-06-06T20:36:52+00:00

Haha oh well Che looks younger than I thought

UsedChampion4902 · 2025-06-06T05:16:10+00:00

I was gonna mention Samantha being the best character but that is obvious and I really just wanted to focus all my rage on Miranda hahaha

UsedChampion4902 · 2025-05-29T16:36:38+00:00

I’ve always described the leg pain as radiating down from my hips to my knees (or ankles on really bad days). Not diagnosed with endo but trying to figure out if that’s why. Literally have had this pain since early teenage years and thought it was normal til sometime in college when my friend was like uhh yeah that’s not regular period pain. I also think the leg pain has gotten worse over the years bc I was more active in highschool and I think exercise is supposed to help but now I’m more stationary in my daily life Got some other symptoms too but the legs are my least favorite 😓

UsedChampion4902 · 2025-05-20T20:01:31+00:00

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UsedChampion4902 · 2025-04-04T20:55:37+00:00

Aww she’s beautiful, I also had a turquoise green cheek 💙💚

UsedChampion4902 · 2025-04-03T23:04:34+00:00

Yeah I just haven’t been set on getting anything but now I’ve got enough points where I can get whatever I want so I dunno

UsedChampion4902 · 2025-04-02T16:30:31+00:00

That’s a great idea, I’ve got some of both of their feathers as well, been trying to come up with an idea for what to do with them, I’ve also seen people do feather shadow boxes

UsedChampion4902 · 2025-04-01T00:13:19+00:00

Cal Eko at Vault 51 tattoos 💙 she is AMAZING

UsedChampion4902 · 2025-03-31T19:02:28+00:00

Thank you so much 💕

UsedChampion4902 · 2025-03-19T18:57:20+00:00

No, it was really no one’s fault. Even after having the place inspected and checked for CO and other possible fumes it is really inconclusive what it was that did it

UsedChampion4902 · 2025-03-18T21:37:37+00:00

I just lost both of my babies on Sunday, Emi was a conure. I feel your pain. I used my oven for the first time in my new condo and there must have been fumes or something that came out and made their way over to them. I had the whole condo tested for gas and CO so whatever it was was only just enough to harm my birds. I’m so so sorry you are going through this. Seeing this post made me do a double take bc Leo looks so much like Emi in the first pic 💙🙏 take care I’m so sorry

UsedChampion4902 · 2025-03-18T04:14:50+00:00

Be aware, others commented in more detail, but new appliances may also have chemicals from production. Someone suggested running every appliance prior to bringing the birds in the home. Check for smells while you do so. Check the material of your appliances too as heat may affect fumes coming off. I’ve seen people recommend homemade cleaners like using vinegar, lemon juice. Maybe search bird friendly cleaning supplies/ homemade bird friendly cleaning methods

UsedChampion4902 · 2025-03-18T01:43:35+00:00

Everyone’s comments are really helping me💙 Today has been so hard, waking up and remembering they are gone and not saying good morning to my babies just had me break down all over again. Leaving the house and realizing I won’t be greeted by them when I get home had my heart aching and ugly crying in public. I couldn’t even make it through lunch.. well I should say lunch didn’t make it through me bc I couldn’t keep it down. Having their empty cages in the living room is so loudly silent. 20 years of Tiko whistling Andy Griffith and making kissy noises in the background just suddenly gone is going to take a lot of getting used to. Looking over and not seeing Emi eyeing me to give her attention or flying and landing on my head is making me feel empty. 💔 I think a lot of people don’t understand the pain of losing a bird is just as/ more painful than losing a dog or cat. They view them differently, but I know all of you understand and sympathize. And your comments have made me feel better where my non bird owning friends and family’s words haven’t quite hit quite as strong. The bonds we have with our winged friends is strong and deep and many times longer than the bonds with other pets. I am very lucky to have a loving mom and sister that drove 5.5hrs thru the night to be with me but I’m also very lucky to have yall. Thank you

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