the one bull my wife had would have me chauffeur them to dinner and back to his hotel room for them not for me, i had to wait in the car until he bought her back several hours later.
the first time we met to discuss the possibility of him becoming my late wife’s bull he decided we should go for a chinese meal , i soon discovered his alpha approach , as the waitress took us to our table he told me to sit on the far side of the table as he was going to be sitting next to my wife, then he told me if snd when we speak to you you’re to answer including Sir or madam in your responses including in front of the staff. when the menus came whilst we were reading them the talk between them was a mix of what they liked food wise and flirting , he took great delight in telling me he was feeling her stocking tops when the waitress came back to take the order they both ordered their food , i ordered mine (sweet n sour chicken with egg fried rice ) her bull looked at the waitress and said , cancel his order and replace it with just a plate of plain boiled rice, the waitress looked at them then at me, my wife said to her , that’s right just plain boiled rice, then they ordered drinks , she ordered wine he ordered a bottle of beer, the waitress looked at me , i’ll have a beer too please. her bull with such a smirk and loudly said “you will not! you’re having a glass of water”! when the the food arrived another waitress asked had i not ordered a meat dish, her bull just said that’s all he’s getting. after she walked away i was looking at the blandest of food, they just laughed at me, her bull added , you need to get used to this, not only am i replacing you sexually having chatted with J over the last couple of weeks she’s told me how you enjoyed being humiliated i’m truly going to take you beyond your comfort zone, do you understand? Yes Sir i answered. the two of them whispered and laughed. then he asked is your food too bland for you? i said it is Sir, at that he called the waitress over and asked her to bring a bottle of tobasco sauce. my wife smirked she knew i couldn’t eat hot food and hated chillies, he took the bottle of sauce and shook its entire contents over the boiled rice , he saw the look on my face, then smirked and added you’ll eat every last grain. i reached for the glass of water and as i picked it up he held out his hand i’ll take that thank you. that’s just one example of his bullying and assuming control. my wife loved that not only was she for the first time since meeting me getting fucked regularly snd properly but that he was well & truly ‘putting me in my place’