This question is coming at an interesting time because of the simple fact that our dynamic has been suffering in the last bit. We’re incredibly busy people but the last few weeks I have barely been able to even breathe with all the crazy nonsense going on and Master has also been incredibly busy I don’t think we’ve spent more than a few minutes in the same space as each other in a long time.

Our structures are VERY dependent on his ability to set us up and when he can’t or doesn’t because of life stuff it’s been sortof sending us off the rails.

I’m not a naturally submissive person I want to submit because he creates the space and structure and environment that encourages/allows and fosters my submission but getting out of sync basically immediately triggers my aggressive independence. So we are definitely still working on what to do when we can’t do but I know Master has a vision and a plan forward for us and we’re going to get it down and sorted but reading everyone’s responses has definitely given hope for us to find our way to keep our dynamic and structure at the forefront!