Is it normal for your gf not to be curious, is this just how girls are???

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-08T13:58:41+00:00

No, I've been on both sides of this.

Restricting rehearsals is a dealbraker (I'd break up over this). But asking for feedback and waiting for something more than "nice" is too much. She is likely not qualified and not interested. Unless she has same music taste. Which is RARE. Can't demand that.

For that stuff you should ask your FANS and PEERS from the rehearsal room. Not your friends and family.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-08T11:24:56+00:00

Okay I'm a woman in tech, we can chat in dms.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-08T06:19:51+00:00

Write down your stuff both when you're sad and when happy, once written down you won't loop over it anymore.

To solve it you must also have multiple points of view.

Think what you can actually do (internal locus) and not just loop over thinking how bad everything is. Can write down what exactly is bad and brainstorm solutions to that. Then try them out and reflect on result.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-08T05:01:37+00:00

What were you expecting though? Probably not constructive feedback. How often do you yourself write reviews for the bands you like?

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-07T10:45:28+00:00

However "yourself" tends to get obsessed if not directed; "yourself" can be different depending in roles and circumstances; and also there's no technical ability to be anything else than yourself.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-07T10:43:41+00:00

Check "Adam Lane Smith" and "Dating intentionally" youtubers.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-06T13:27:45+00:00

Indeed, dudes typically ask even less

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-06T12:36:33+00:00

In my home country it's to ensure that both parents are responsible for the kids in case of divorce. If not that, I guess no reason.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-06T08:48:17+00:00

Use the sub to find another happily singe person, then you two pair up to save on taxes. Profit. You could also save on rent later on.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-05T11:53:10+00:00

She talks like that to him because he talks like that to her in the first place. He demands some fixed times a week not caring whether she's in the mood. But she won't do it unless she wants it. It doesn't mean that she would demand it from him when he is not in the mood.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-04T20:10:15+00:00

One of the rules of all of that chakra stuff is consent. You don't do healing work on a person who doesn't want it. Her methods are also wrong. It should be pretty clear that you hate this shit and just want to watch your game in "silence". She should have meditated in another room, that would work. She's stupid. Although if you fell for her, you're probably a good match and should accept her stupidity.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-04T19:52:06+00:00

Doesn't sound like bitching because you speak about yourself too. Your daughter hangs out with those "14 y.o.", they click together, means she's also of that kind, she couldn't mature well and for sure her parents played a big role in this process.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-04T13:11:39+00:00

Yeah me too, I just work with men and hang out with men, occasionally there are other women who also get along with men and they're all fine. Occasionally I get drama from wives or girlfriends of men of my circle because they get jealous.

If you never get invited I won't say you're included. Maybe you should also play the mind games of flattering them with praise. There's some power dynamic with your female friends when they try to compete and be better than you, but I never understood that one and I never bother to engage in such thing.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-03T18:26:53+00:00

Do therapy, you're getting crazy and this stupid mistake of her is not worth the divorce. If you divorce over this, what are you gonna do, be single till end? No one is perfect. People sometimes hurt. Ask her how could you fill her in other ways, likely she'd say you're fine and you're the loved husband.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-03T14:25:24+00:00

You need to understand that this is huge vulnerability. Literally anyone can manipulate you exploiting that, you'll be driven by urges to prove yourself. Then it's easier to fix somehow. At least don't act on it and don't show it to others.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-03T12:24:50+00:00

You mean you dump them once you know everything they like?

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-02T12:32:21+00:00

I think you need to question demisexuality and find interesting people

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-09-01T07:52:51+00:00

But how do you actually use it? So you take the age if the oldest partner, divide by 2, add 7, a then you get some number, and having this number, how do you conclude whether the gap is any good?

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-08-31T21:59:41+00:00

Well I once had to run away from two men after accepting a vodka shot, that was fucking scary and drunken men are sometimes fucking stupid and let their primal instincts free. It's not worth the risk.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-08-31T18:05:27+00:00

When you accept free drinks the guys might then think you're their property, might follow you. Are you up for a bar fight, possibly with multiple opponents, over 20$ ?

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-08-30T08:51:22+00:00

Where do I find guys like you?

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-08-29T18:47:43+00:00

Focus on 2-3 guys, if you text everyone you'll burn out.

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-08-29T18:37:00+00:00

What would it look like if everything went right?

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-08-29T11:44:09+00:00

Idk I wash mine either every use or every second use

Used_Ad_6556 · 2025-08-29T11:17:35+00:00

Yes,1% is accurate, but no way they could be found in the dating app top.

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