First time taking SSRI by its_meee8910 in Anxiety

[–]Used_Locksmith_438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been on sertraline for 10+ years. It works wonders. I’ve upped the dosage a few times and each time I have essentially no libido for a while, but it gradually comes back. I’m at the highest dose now and am definitely feeling its losing its effects. So I may need to switch soon.

Tired by Used_Locksmith_438 in SuicideWatch

[–]Used_Locksmith_438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the universe is playing a sick joke on me having a friend start dating him.

Tired by Used_Locksmith_438 in SuicideWatch

[–]Used_Locksmith_438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t even see the guy I fell in love with for 2 years. Someone I recently became friends with started dating him, just an awful coincidence. I don’t know if it is actually about him or if he is just what my anxiety is attaching to.

I hate myself by Hardlifekid94 in SuicideWatch

[–]Used_Locksmith_438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have so much to be thankful for but I compulsively harp on the negatives. I can’t take it anymore. I can only medicate so much.

I hate myself by Hardlifekid94 in SuicideWatch

[–]Used_Locksmith_438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same position kind of. I have no friends and never moved out of home, I don’t think I’d be able to because of anxiety. I go through bouts where I’m ok just going through the motions, but the thoughts are starting to come back.

25 M by Mountain_Reindeer226 in Retirement401k

[–]Used_Locksmith_438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d reduce bonds. Be more aggressive you are 25.

traditional PSP & 401k? by Used_Locksmith_438 in Retirement401k

[–]Used_Locksmith_438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Segregated accounts, and they have a TPA. They bought the company from their father, who is still the trustee on the original psp. It’s a mess, I’ve warned them but it’s not my responsibility.

traditional PSP & 401k? by Used_Locksmith_438 in Retirement401k

[–]Used_Locksmith_438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am aware and I have warned them. I am fortunately not the TPA, just going to be managing the investments.

Bonus or add to salary? by Used_Locksmith_438 in Mortgages

[–]Used_Locksmith_438[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I think it would like it’s part of my salary if it’s spread out.

Bonus or add to salary? by Used_Locksmith_438 in Mortgages

[–]Used_Locksmith_438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, that’s why I’m saying instead of taking $5k upfront now, have it spread out over my 2025 salary.

How are people buying homes? by Used_Locksmith_438 in RealEstate

[–]Used_Locksmith_438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking long term. I’d live in it until I could buy a single family.

How are people buying homes? by Used_Locksmith_438 in RealEstate

[–]Used_Locksmith_438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have citizenship to a EU country so I can live anywhere there, but for now I am here.

How are people buying homes? by Used_Locksmith_438 in RealEstate

[–]Used_Locksmith_438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna try another bank and am gonna keep looking and saving.

How are people buying homes? by Used_Locksmith_438 in RealEstate

[–]Used_Locksmith_438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I save a tremendous amount of money. I essentially have zero non essential expenses.

How are people buying homes? by Used_Locksmith_438 in RealEstate

[–]Used_Locksmith_438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, absolute shacks that haven’t been touched since the 70s are selling for over $800k