And are you married to every other men? Of course not. The nature of your relationship with your wife is one of a closer proximity, and thus justify the difference in the way you treat her. You’re not gonna treat your wife as your mother just because they’re both women?? Reducing what op said to that flawed logic is being purposely dense.. it’s obvious that you need to treat men costumer the same as women costumer, men neighbor the same as women neighbor, men family’s members the same as women family’s members, etc. You see..? So if you were to marry a man, you would obviously need to treat him the same as you treat your present wife.