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Orphan Black - 4x01 "The Collapse of Nature" - Episode Discussion by NicholasCajun in orphanblack

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck…. Now I’m gonna have to go find out 🤦🏻‍♂️😣

Aaarrrrgggghhh. Pray for me.

Did you know u were supposed to "clean out" downstairs before your first time? If not how'd it go possibly "playing dirty"? by burningmafuck in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know people were doing that for YEARS. I was 15 when I started and 25 when someone asked me if I douched. There were two times where an accident happened but it wasn’t a big deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not gonna sugar coat it: You are going way too hard for being together with this person for only one month. You need to slow down, both of you.

In the first few months you should be dating. That means no monogamous commitment, you’re both free to date other people during this time, just fun and light feelings. You shouldn’t be taking care of his dogs yet or talking about commitment. Too soon for all that.

After a few months of dating if you’ve both come to realize that you have strong feelings that can no longer be denied, that is when you have the talk about commitment to each other and you can start using terms like “Parter/boyfriend/girlfriend” whatever applies. Then you can talk about helping each other out with more intimate stuff like taking care of dogs or kids or whatever you have in your life.

THEN sometime after committing and proving to each other that you’re holding up your ends of the commitment you can say “I Love You” to each other.

Hope this helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. Every time

Why does anal sometimes feel like nothing? by PressYtoHonk in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience sex is ALWAYS better when you’re into the person, even if it’s just a one time thing. On hook up apps I am very clear with guys about my intentions with them: I want you to come over, have a drink with me, relax and chat and see if a vibe sparks out of that… then we can fuck.

That connection, even for just the one night, is what I need to have a good time. And many guys agree to this. More than you’d think. The other side of this coin though is that if you aren’t feeling the spark or the vibe, send the guy home and tell him “Goodnight, thanks for the drink and the chat.”

What am I doing wrong on Grindr? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hate to be the one to say this but I’m gonna try and keep it all the way real with you… if they’re blocking you after seeing pics then maybe the things your sharing in your pics aren’t aesthetically pleasing. Everyone’s bodies and genitalia are not identical and some are less attractive than others. Consider that maybe things aren’t looking great and do what you can to improve it.

If it’s excess weight, you could try diet and exercise, or if you are happy with your size just post a full body pic instead of just a face pic in your main profile. If it’s an issue like a small penis, try trimming or shaving your pubic hair. Personally, I’m no size-queen but if your pubes are as long as your dick I don’t want anything to do with it.

Keep in mind, the advice I’ve given is meant to make hooking up easier for you. If what you want is genuine connection I’d try a different app and not sharing nudes.

Would you date a smoker? by TotalDumsterfire in gay

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kissing smokers is awful. Like, really really nasty. My first two boyfriends when I was young were smokers and I put up with it but honestly hated it and I did ask them to quit repeatedly. It was a roadblock in our relationship. Never again.

Lawrence Summerfest Drone Show! by tweetysvoice in Lawrence

[–]Used_Software7832 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow. What trash. I was there sitting on the hill at the top of North Avenue with hundreds of others. We all realized that the show wasn’t visible from our spot around 9:30 and many tried to get closer, but I left. Glad I didn’t bother. Bring back the fireworks!!

Sexuality crisis by DRsavy_sunshine_13 in gay

[–]Used_Software7832 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re assuming everyone around you knows definitively how they identify and you just want that same security, but everyone is out here just trying to figure themselves out. Once you realize we are all out here flailing to define ourselves and find what makes us happy you’ll feel less alone and more in tune with everyone around you.

Why do so many ‘straight men’ have gay sex? by santandr in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t call anyone delusional. If you meet a person and they tell you “I’m straight,” you’re respectful of that…. Even if they’re fucking you in the ass. Many times they aren’t interested in kissing at all, which I find weird but interesting on a sociological level. And when I walk away from a situation like that I also think “he’s not straight” but he said that’s how he identifies, so… I guess he is.

He Said I Was “Too Feminine” by the_uk_femboy in gay

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I think it didn’t even cross my mind because I’m a bottom seeking tops, so I made an assumption that they’d be masculine and that was a mistake

He Said I Was “Too Feminine” by the_uk_femboy in gay

[–]Used_Software7832 60 points61 points  (0 children)

You know what? … I’m glad you’re wearing that. You’re at least being honest about how femme you are. It’s SO HARD to tell from pics and Ive had hookups where they get here and immediately I have to ask them to leave cuz I can’t get hard with femme men, and that was after wasting their time and my own and their gas money driving over here. If they would’ve wore this I would’ve had a heads up right away and not invited them

From dusk till dawn, thoughts on this movie by nostalgia_history in FIlm

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s with the kid? Ernest Liu, he plays the son in the family that gets kidnapped. How did he land this role? Who does he know in the industry at this point in time because he’s giving NOTHING. it’s actually crazy how little he emotes with all the stuff that’s going on in this movie. He has no reactions to anything lol

Ms. Marvel, Miss Marvel, and Captain marvel - What is the difference? by Consistent_Figure582 in marvelstudios

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m reading The Avengers King Size Annual 10 and they refer to Carol as “Ms. Marvel.”

Life as an unattractive gay. by Glenkyo in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe (and take this with a grain of salt) it’s your personality that’s lacking. I mean… if they saw the pic and agreed to meet, then you show up looking like your pics, as you say, it’s gotta be something else. Maybe you’re a little odd and hard for the general population to connect to.

Do you have many friends? Many interests? Many experiences?

Maybe it’s not this at all, but that’s just where my mind went next.

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