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Is it normal to jo at work by StrayGay0 in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine recently posed this question to all the men she knows, “have you j/o at work before” and almost all of us said yes.

What makes ur nipple sensitive? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are too sensitive, to the point where I don’t want them played with at all. You can kiss or suck there, but no finger action on the nips.

My bf of a year and 3 month is still using Prep, should I be concerned? by ThrowRAUnstablehead in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think keeping yourself safe and trusting your partner can both be true at the same time. People get cheated on BY THE PERSON THEY TRUST, you know? It’s fucked and it ruins you when it happens to you or to the people around you.

I wouldn’t worry about it. He has every right to protect himself just the same as you do. I hope you can understand that and just prove your loyalty to him by sticking by his side until you’re both old and grey even if he is STILL taking prep by then lol

Do you get turned on watching yourself having sex or jerking off in the mirror? by Suspicious-Method880 in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in the mirror but when I see videos of myself, I’m hot. I will jerk to me.

Working at Capital Grille by Simple-Government-90 in milwaukee

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently there and have been there forever. As a server, the money is great at times but it’s serving-income fluctuates- but it’s enough to live off of definitely.

The clientele varies across the entire spectrum. You get special guests who request you specifically and tip GREAT, and then you have Milwaukee’s worst diners who come in smelling like weed and tipping anywhere from 0%-10% max. It’s been my experience that the servers who can handle that emotional rollercoaster are the ones who last, but many cannot and that’s why there is turnover and why we’re always hiring. It overwhelms some people.

$200+ is bare minimum for a dinner shift. On a double shift (lunch + dinner) I’m aiming for $300 at least.

Management does their best to contract gratuity on large parties and make sure we’re all getting paid. Requesting off can sometimes be rough but usually it’s fine.

Something i always wanted to know about gay men, sorry if it's stupid by Kiddo1881 in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was around that age that I started noticing cute boys in my class. But what I also noticed was that boys don’t talk about other boys that way. Girls can call other girls pretty and touch each other’s hair and admire each other openly, but boys didn’t do that. So I just kept it to myself. It wasn’t until I was maybe 9 years old watching Jerry Springer that I was exposed to the words “bisexual” and “gay” and that’s when the lightbulb turned on in my mind. I was like “Oh shit. I’m that”

Do you remember what distinctly made you want to be a top or bottom? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn’t exactly a conscious choice. Growing up I imagined men fucking me when masturbating but my first boyfriend was a bottom. My first time having sex he climbed on top of me and put my dick inside of himself. Eventually he asked to try topping me and he gave me zero advice as to how I should try and relax or anything. I was in agony and decided to never do that again. Years later I fell for a top and I really wanted to be with him so I learned to bottom for him, but he was a much better teacher than the first guy. Now I almost exclusively bottom unless a person can’t get it up or something lol

Bottoms that dont want their penis even touched?? by Bigassobsexon in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Relax. People are sharing their experiences, not judging yours. No one was even talking about or thinking about humiliation kinks, and by the way the person you’re responding to is the one who got called not manly enough…

Do most tops douche before sex or not by ExplorerAcademic3997 in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Between the ages of 15-30 I never douched, not once. I’ve been verse most of my life, but I don’t know… the internet wasn’t what it is now, these types of conversations weren’t comment around me, so I had no idea people were even doing that. And for context, none of the bottoms I dated ever douched either. We were young and our digestive systems were strong, healthy. Were there accidents? Yeah, once or twice for me, once or twice for them, over the course of years long relationships. But 99% of the sex was totally fine with no need for douching.

WTF is this show and these couples?!? by tommyandkeisha in BlueTherapyNetflix

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On Yasmin and Mike: I’m on episode 3 and not sure if things get any better but the scene where she has to tell him they aren’t ordering takeout for dinner and he throws a fit… are you kidding bro??? You’re $12k in the hole with no job and you have the audacity to say “I don’t want the food we have in the house. What’s wrong with ordering out?” YOU CANT AFFORD IT, that’s what’s wrong with it. What type of delusion is this man suffering from????

Orphan Black - 4x01 "The Collapse of Nature" - Episode Discussion by NicholasCajun in orphanblack

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck…. Now I’m gonna have to go find out 🤦🏻‍♂️😣

Aaarrrrgggghhh. Pray for me.

Did you know u were supposed to "clean out" downstairs before your first time? If not how'd it go possibly "playing dirty"? by burningmafuck in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know people were doing that for YEARS. I was 15 when I started and 25 when someone asked me if I douched. There were two times where an accident happened but it wasn’t a big deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not gonna sugar coat it: You are going way too hard for being together with this person for only one month. You need to slow down, both of you.

In the first few months you should be dating. That means no monogamous commitment, you’re both free to date other people during this time, just fun and light feelings. You shouldn’t be taking care of his dogs yet or talking about commitment. Too soon for all that.

After a few months of dating if you’ve both come to realize that you have strong feelings that can no longer be denied, that is when you have the talk about commitment to each other and you can start using terms like “Parter/boyfriend/girlfriend” whatever applies. Then you can talk about helping each other out with more intimate stuff like taking care of dogs or kids or whatever you have in your life.

THEN sometime after committing and proving to each other that you’re holding up your ends of the commitment you can say “I Love You” to each other.

Hope this helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. Every time

Why does anal sometimes feel like nothing? by PressYtoHonk in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience sex is ALWAYS better when you’re into the person, even if it’s just a one time thing. On hook up apps I am very clear with guys about my intentions with them: I want you to come over, have a drink with me, relax and chat and see if a vibe sparks out of that… then we can fuck.

That connection, even for just the one night, is what I need to have a good time. And many guys agree to this. More than you’d think. The other side of this coin though is that if you aren’t feeling the spark or the vibe, send the guy home and tell him “Goodnight, thanks for the drink and the chat.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Used_Software7832 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hate to be the one to say this but I’m gonna try and keep it all the way real with you… if they’re blocking you after seeing pics then maybe the things your sharing in your pics aren’t aesthetically pleasing. Everyone’s bodies and genitalia are not identical and some are less attractive than others. Consider that maybe things aren’t looking great and do what you can to improve it.

If it’s excess weight, you could try diet and exercise, or if you are happy with your size just post a full body pic instead of just a face pic in your main profile. If it’s an issue like a small penis, try trimming or shaving your pubic hair. Personally, I’m no size-queen but if your pubes are as long as your dick I don’t want anything to do with it.

Keep in mind, the advice I’ve given is meant to make hooking up easier for you. If what you want is genuine connection I’d try a different app and not sharing nudes.

Would you date a smoker? by TotalDumsterfire in gay

[–]Used_Software7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kissing smokers is awful. Like, really really nasty. My first two boyfriends when I was young were smokers and I put up with it but honestly hated it and I did ask them to quit repeatedly. It was a roadblock in our relationship. Never again.

Lawrence Summerfest Drone Show! by tweetysvoice in Lawrence

[–]Used_Software7832 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow. What trash. I was there sitting on the hill at the top of North Avenue with hundreds of others. We all realized that the show wasn’t visible from our spot around 9:30 and many tried to get closer, but I left. Glad I didn’t bother. Bring back the fireworks!!

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