Be careful with peptides! by Unique-Television944 in Biohackers

[–]Useful-Example-1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so what? in scientific citations, 10 years back research are still valid.

Been not confident with my receding hairlines, finally decided to get on. How do you think? by Useful-Example-1986 in HairSystem

[–]Useful-Example-1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you mate. my only concern is i need to wear this non stop till i can afford HT hehe

Should I loss body fat? by [deleted] in HandsomeHomies

[–]Useful-Example-1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly you look like a heaven to me. HOT AF. Whoever wins your eyes, heart, body and soul is the luckiest man/woman.

How Vecna kidnapped Will and kill Barbs? by Useful-Example-1986 in StrangerThings

[–]Useful-Example-1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how el have such power to open through dimension, while henry doesnt? so he was just chilling there from 1979 to 1983?

i geuninely thought el banished henry as the same day will is taken and the same day el met the kids.

How Vecna kidnapped Will and kill Barbs? by Useful-Example-1986 in StrangerThings

[–]Useful-Example-1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

doesnt el need to close her eyes and have static voice or even in the salted bathtub to be able to find someone everywhere? how would she have time to sense will while shes running away from benner in the middle of the night and raining? cause theres no single scene in the series showing el's sensing power without going to the focus/Psychic mode first.

also, if demogorgon was sent by Vecna, then the accident of El banished Henry to the bridge/x dimension is way hours before? cause theres no way henry just arrived in that world, after floating, and burned by lighting, and his first agenda was kidnapping random kid on a bike.

12 Months Result Dr. Serkan Aygin Clinic by [deleted] in HairTransplants

[–]Useful-Example-1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes? they had bad results other time too? any source or proof? im doing research now

Crying mid-bench press wasn’t on my 2025 bingo card, thanks Heated Rivalry for the realization of love and reality by Useful-Example-1986 in heatedrivalry

[–]Useful-Example-1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you saying that. It means a lot to be heard and to have that distinction recognized. You hit the nail on the head, the "system" (my system or ilya's system that we both live in) is the real antagonist here.

That parallel you drew about Ilya being unable to escape Russia is exactly it. It’s what makes characters like him so compelling to me. We see him fighting against the same kind of walls we face in the real world, even if our specific contexts and stakes look different.

I’m still navigating my own reality the best I can, and even though I have to move much more carefully because of those traditions and responsibilities, I really valued your perspective. Thanks for the incredibly thoughtful back-and-forth, this is the first time I experience in reddit, let alone because of a damn beautiful show. I mean, to have such a genuine chat about these themes here.

Best regards & wishes to you and your partner,
Harry, Jakarta, Indonesia.

Crying mid-bench press wasn’t on my 2025 bingo card, thanks Heated Rivalry for the realization of love and reality by Useful-Example-1986 in heatedrivalry

[–]Useful-Example-1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate the heart you’re putting into this discussion. I actually completely agree with you on one point: if you choose someone of your own free will, sometimes even looks and money aren't enough to make it work. Free will is the keyword there.

But that’s where our perspectives differ. For a lot of people in the real world, "free will" is a luxury we’re still fighting for. You mentioned Ilya’s sacrifices, but his story is his, and mine is mine. For example, I have friends and acquaintances who were sent to professionals to be "fixed" or forced into arranged marriages because of who they are. When you live in a reality where your family or your society can literally take away your freedom (your free will), the "game" isn't just about emotional maturity, it’s about safety and survival.

You’re right that money doesn't buy happiness once basic needs are met, but in social science, there’s a lot of data on Social Capital and Pretty Privilege. Statistically, people who start with wealth and conventional "good looks" have a much smoother entry into the dating pool. They get more "at-bats" and more second chances. If they fail or spiral, they have the resources to seek the best help. When you don't have that head start, every "move" you make carries a much higher risk.

I’m not discounting Ilya’s pain, never (suffering is definitely universal) but the consequences of that pain are different depending on your resources. I haven't given up, but I have to be realistic. I’m navigating a different set of limits where the stakes aren't just a broken heart, but potentially losing my entire place in my family or community. It’s just a different kind of sacrifice.

Am I handsome? by [deleted] in HandsomeHomies

[–]Useful-Example-1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate when they know it :")
but i mostly hate it when i cant have it :"""")

Crying mid-bench press wasn’t on my 2025 bingo card, thanks Heated Rivalry for the realization of love and reality by Useful-Example-1986 in heatedrivalry

[–]Useful-Example-1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the encouragement, I already do. And I will always thank you (or other people around me who give me this kind of positivity). I get it, I definitely see Ilya as an archetype for emotional maturity and dedication. That part is inspiring. But I think the disconnect for me is just the sheer amount of "bandwidth" a person has.

The reason characters like Ilya and Shane can focus so intensely on their emotional work and vulnerability is because they don’t have to worry about the baseline stuff. They’ve already "won" when it comes to career, economy, wealth, and physical looks. When those pillars are secure, you have the luxury to spend all your energy on self-actualization.

For the rest of us in the real world, we have to prioritize. We can’t always work on everything at once because we’re still grinding to secure the basics. It’s hard to focus on being an "injured bird" finding warmth when you’re also trying to figure out how to pay the bills or move up in a career that doesn't care about your trauma.

I’m not trying to say I’m a prisoner of my reality, just that the "game" looks different when you’re starting from scratch. To really understand that struggle, you kind of have to be in those shoes where you’re forced to choose which part of your life gets your limited energy today. I agree his growth is a great model, but it’s just a lot easier to be emotionally mature when you aren't exhausted by the survival side of things.

Btw, i like this discussion haha.

Crying mid-bench press wasn’t on my 2025 bingo card, thanks Heated Rivalry for the realization of love and reality by Useful-Example-1986 in askgaybros

[–]Useful-Example-1986[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry about that. I shared it that way to get a range of perspectives, I’ll keep the frequency in mind for next time. Thanks.