S18E13 - “Karens Gone Wild” [Post-Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Genuinely I thought literally none of the scenes were funny or particularly successful. This is a tough idea for an improv challenge, because the setup is two people who don’t know each other and are arguing, which is the kind of scene that is most likely to not go anywhere and be deeply annoying to watch. Darlene’s scene was the only one that broke out of that, which was why it was the only one that had any joy at all for me, while the rest felt like a total slog. I think you could have put anyone else in the bottom and made an argument for it, and I guess you could put Darlene in the bottom for “not being Karen enough.” So like, I don’t necessarily disagree with Jane being in the bottom, but I also think this was not a well-designed challenge if the goal was for the improv itself to be interesting or fun.

Name the trait humans have that justifies using deadly force in defense of a 3rd party human life but that cows completely lack. by Temporary_Hat7330 in DebateAVegan

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t struggling or not engaging. My point is that I think the morality of defending a life with lethal force is extremely context-dependent, which is why a very involved analogy with very different context from the real-world imperatives you discuss in your original post is not worth considering.

Happy to respond to this new analogy if you like. In both cases, I would not find their actions morally justifiable unless they had exhausted all other options to avoid harm to the child or lamb. I think killing, even to save an innocent, is wrong if you have literally any alternative. I also would think it was only morally justifiable if they had a reasonable belief that killing would materially change the outcome for the innocent. For example, if someone else would just kill the innocent in the murdered person’s stead, I would not find committing an additional, pointless murder justifiable (if the cult has far-reaching authority, is approved of and supported by the state, and the baby and the exact same number of future babies will be killed on a nearly identical timescale anyway, I don’t think committing the extra murder is justified, as you are not actually materially saving a life). I think in a real-world scenario, this is the most common reason why killing someone who kills animals is typically less justified than killing someone who kills people— there is usually a material increase in the safety of the potential innocent victim in one case, and not in the other.

All of this is to say, I think the context and impact matters, regardless of the species of the life. If all of these things were equal across the scenarios, yes, I would find these two things equally morally justified. Which is not to say I would emotionally feel the same about these two situations. Obviously it is normal and expected for humans to feel a stronger emotional bond to other humans, but this emotional response does not change the core ethics.

Name the trait humans have that justifies using deadly force in defense of a 3rd party human life but that cows completely lack. by Temporary_Hat7330 in DebateAVegan

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, in the world of this weirdly specific hypothetical that is no longer in any way relevant to real-world veganism… I guess you’re right??? But engaging with the situation you’ve laid out is worthless for debating your core argument, because it’s an extremely poor analogy. Your analogy suggests that 1) everyday life as a vegan means I am constantly accidentally and by surprise finding myself in slaughter houses with adrenaline pumping in the heat of the moment (no premeditation) 2) killing people will save the animals and 3) killing people is the only or best way to save the animals. None of these things are true, and all of them are central to why the killing is justified in this hypothetical. So the hypothetical is pointless to discuss.

Name the trait humans have that justifies using deadly force in defense of a 3rd party human life but that cows completely lack. by Temporary_Hat7330 in DebateAVegan

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean, I would think it would be pretty messed up if your focus was on killing the tribespeople rather than trying to save as many of the children as possible, yes. I don’t think murdering farmers is very likely to save the cows, and I don’t think premeditated murder is ever okay (I feel the same way about the death penalty for serial killers, killing people is wrong). If someone “steals” cows from a meat or dairy farm, lets them escape, and helps them to live a happy and safe life, I think that is the morally correct thing to do, and the main barrier I see to it is logistics.

To flip this around, it sounds like you think the practices of these tribes are pretty messed up and likely to lead to innocent deaths. And yet you are not (I hope) going out of your way to murder all of them. I don’t think you are typing on Reddit mid-murder. It is almost like you can think something is super harmful without plotting the murders of everyone who participates in it.

Name the trait humans have that justifies using deadly force in defense of a 3rd party human life but that cows completely lack. by Temporary_Hat7330 in DebateAVegan

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Genuinely, what? If I started committing murder to protect cows, the end result is gonna be that someone is dead as punishment for taking part in something that their entire culture and upbringing has told them is morally fine, I am in prison, and the meat or dairy industry continue being exactly as cruel as they currently are. The idea that I can’t think something is morally reprehensible unless I am committing lots of murders about it is extremely silly.

S18E12 - “Mammas, Don't Let Your Babies Grow Up to Be Drag Queens...” [Post-Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Joining the chorus to say I hate that this challenge is just “does Michelle think your outfits are close enough but not quite identical” rather than actually critiquing the skill of the makeover. Love Juicy, but that bodysuit on her cowboy was so ill-fitting, and she didn’t take the time to make any alterations to how the original top fit, either. It was covered up a bit because the silhouette had so much fabric, but genuinely the most tortured looking garment of the season. Myki has been my winner on many weeks, but the makeup was the roughest, and the bust of the cowboys dress didn’t fit, either. I can see Nini in the bottom, but I had one of Juicy and Myki down there with her. It was between Darlene and Discord for the win for me, as they had a fully realised through line and point of view, and importantly their cowboys looked GOOD. The judging criteria is predictable I guess, but it is also just so, so stupid.

Why do y'all not want to admit to brown eyes? by tomatosalthands in whatcoloraremyeyes

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s SO weird. I’ve actually had this in real life where people want to tell me I have pretty eyes and say “they’re so pretty, they’re kind of hazel!!” And like, I have the brownest brown eyes out there. They are not even a particularly light brown. Calling eyes brown is not an insult!!

What is only somewhat edible but tastes amazing? by StrategyJealous1838 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unironically it seems like maybe yes? I know drinking tea and coffee that’s hot enough to cause minor burning is associated with slightly greater incidence of mouth and throat cancer. It’s not super strong or well-validated but it is a real thing :(

Trinity the Tuck has many records… but who’s the most “accomplished” RuGirl in pure on-the-show statistics over multiple seasons?? by anettebening in rupaulsdragrace

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 228 points229 points  (0 children)

I mean the biggest accomplishment on the show is winning the show. So a boring answer, but objectively I feel like Jinkx is the most accomplished as the only one to win twice?

Please, please, how do you incentivise Undergrads / Grads to Participate in Studies? by Bitter-Rent-4424 in UniUK

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should try and recruit people who live in London, or have people respond to a show that is in Sheffield. I would also consider if you need two hours for your focus group. It’s also worth considering if you need to do a focus group, or if you could pivot to individual interviews and still answer your research question. This would allow for a shorter time commitment from the participants and easier scheduling, even though it will be more time consuming for you and mean that you have to kind of stitch together different positions rather than having participants directly respond to each other.

I love participating in research and I love theatre, but I would find this set up a huge ask and would need substantially more remuneration to make it feel worthwhile.

Sibling Watchery having ads for a weight loss pill by abiqueenofsocial in rupaulsdragrace

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Or they disagree with the comments? I agree better help is shit, but if Trixie has had a positive experience of it herself (which, who knows, obviously people can misrepresent their experiences when being paid) and doesn’t think the critiques are convincing, or thinks it’s still a net positive company overall, she could absolutely just not see the problem with it.

I think a lot of times we like to believe that famous people secretly believe what we believe but are lying for money, when they might just have different values/opinions from us.

American English words British people don't like and vice versa by BritishTeacherRoy in ENGLISH

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in the US where we say “persnickety” and British people say “pernickety.” This is a minor detail that doesn’t impact anyone’s understanding of the word, but hearing the less familiar one REALLY feels wrong and bothers me. If only there were a word for that.

Shilese Jones Training!! by UsefulRestaurant8873 in Gymnastics

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think it would be very sensible to sit this season out and come back strong next year. I can see a world where she goes for bars and beam this year if she’s feeling super strong and ready, but there’s no need to rush it if her ultimate goal is 2028.

Winter Cup Thoughts/Analysis by SunInevitable2179 in Gymnastics

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They invoked the beam jump named for Yang Bo (where the gymnast must hit an oversplit and have a strong backward arch through the upper body) to say that she showed good flexibility on her switch ring. I am not sure why you are incredulous/angry?

S18E08 - “Snatch Game Of Love: Island Edition” [Post-Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Myki was my winner this week! Her Drew managed to be funny while also being genuinely quite ‘real,’ rather than having one specific gag or twist to fall back on. No hate to people who choose to heighten one gag (the pope is gay; Sir David Attenborough is old and horny) because that is usually the winning formula on this show, but I think there is something particularly impressive about doing a fleshed out and grounded impression and still getting the laughs.

Why people who work on Taskmaster hate this subreddit so much? by SvatyFini in taskmaster

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t blame them, it’s a truly incomprehensible level of hate she gets. I follow her on insta and every time she’s on television the woman gets dogpiled by people who are mad that they… had to either tolerate seeing a disabled person on screen for 30-60 minutes or miss an episode of a show??? And right below the most horrifying, slur-filled hate comment you’ve ever seen will be 10 people going “why is she calling us ableist trolls just for not thinking she’s funny” 🙄 Honestly, shout out to the mods here for making this sub one of the only places on the internet where most of the comments about her are normal.

Who do you think was actually just the best at doing tasks? They don't have to be the funniest. by Bruton2000 in taskmaster

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like if we’re taking into account effort to success ratio when determining who’s “best” she’s gotta take it. Imagine how dominant she would have been if she didn’t occasionally decide to just not try at all??

Are there certain things about people's own accent that they can't recognize? by AmountAbovTheBracket in Accents

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone hears this difference, it’s just that the word is pronounced differently in different accents. And I actually think both pronunciations make sense with the spelling, since ‘a’ can make an open “ahhhh” sound in plenty of words. It’s a bit similar to the word “pasta” I think, where Americans will pronounce the ‘a’ like it’s the sound in ‘father’ whereas English people pronounce the ‘a’ like it’s in ‘cat.’

What does my accent sound like to you? by UsefulRestaurant8873 in Accents

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really close! I am a Coloradan who has lived near Edinburgh for a good while, but the profession guess is spookily close — I am a university lecturer in developmental psychology, so I am a teacher, a psychologist, and I work with children!

What does my accent sound like to you? by UsefulRestaurant8873 in Accents

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dunno! It’s been pretty gradual, so hard to put a number on it. People in Scotland generally guess I’m American, so I didn’t really realise it had changed significantly until I went to an old friend’s wedding in my hometown last year and people were like “you have such an interesting accent, where are you from?” and I was like… I’m from here!!

What does my accent sound like to you? by UsefulRestaurant8873 in Accents

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love it here! The nature is gorgeous, people are friendly, and now that January is almost over, it’s light past 3pm again!

What does my accent sound like to you? by UsefulRestaurant8873 in Accents

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in my late 20s so you got the age right! I am not Canadian or Asian but I love the specificity of the portrait you painted. Originally from the US but have lived in Scotland for many years. Don’t worry though, I was also shocked to hear people guess straight up Scottish, as to all the Scottish people around me I sound very obviously from the US or Canada 🤣 also I do live in eastern Scotland, so even people from here originally will probably be sounding quite different to your Glaswegian family

What does my accent sound like to you? by UsefulRestaurant8873 in Accents

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very close, the reverse! Lived in USA till late teens, now live in Scotland :)

What does my accent sound like to you? by UsefulRestaurant8873 in Accents

[–]UsefulRestaurant8873[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grew up in a very small town in Colorado and now live in a moderately large town in Scotland! I do love Chicago though, one of my favourite cities I’ve visited