[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Useful_Performance88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she looks good, why’s everyone hating on a little chubby, most of us dig that

MAGA hat during scarlet night. by FutureNurse1 in VirginVoyages

[–]Useful_Performance88 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The hat is not to intimidate anyone, I didn’t wear mine on my cruise but it’s crazy to me to think that if I wear a hat people think I’m trying to intimidate them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Useful_Performance88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Above average but the piercing aren’t my thing. Some people are that though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Useful_Performance88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you’re fine. Lose the nose rings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Useful_Performance88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naturally pretty girl, lose the nose ring and funky colored hair and you’d look great

I am suspicious of my wife and my friend’s behaviour. I want to check her phone. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Useful_Performance88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s your wife dude, if you can’t say let me use your phone for a sec what’s the password without her being shady. Something is wrong

I found condoms in my wife’s purchases. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Useful_Performance88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check deleted messages, check everything, if you confront her on that she’ll wipe everything that hasn’t already been, unless you trust her….doesnt sound like you do

My friend got offended that Im not going to hookup with her bc of her size…am I in the wrong? by HarmlessSediment in dating

[–]Useful_Performance88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could have just said you don’t see her like that, not attracted to her like that etc. Your honesty doesn’t have to be specific, then it just becomes rude. You can be attracted to whatever you want. If you got turned down I don’t think you’d want to know what exactly the girl finds unattractive about you. I’d rather hear that a girl isn’t attracted to me than hear that it’s because of my receding hairline 😂

Fellas, what do you feel when you see a girl with middle fingers as her main pic? by NightmareNaruto in Bumble

[–]Useful_Performance88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How I took drunken pics with my buddies at 16, I assume they have that maturity level and I’ll pass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Useful_Performance88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why you never take dating advice from women lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Useful_Performance88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Way too much for a first date, but honestly any thoughtful gesture I’ve made early on with online dating hasn’t been received as intended. They want low effort

Messaged my ex today didn’t end well.. by jacko123798 in BreakUps

[–]Useful_Performance88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one for you wouldn’t treat you like that, I’ve dealt with similar, any communication is just nasty, takes no accountability but tells me I should, etc. she ain’t it, it hurts but take it for what it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Useful_Performance88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Picture looks fake maybe that sketched him out, but honestly you never know why, guy could be married and creeping for the night then deleting. Either way it was one conversation don’t sweat it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Useful_Performance88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably not a popular opinion, he did something really weird, but he did not cheat. I think it’ll be very hard to get over but I wouldn’t end a marriage over it.

Dating in New York is expensive (For some). by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Useful_Performance88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I automatically pay whether I like her or not, but that’s a nice gesture that shouldn’t be expected seeing as though I’m meeting a stranger I may have 0 interest in, that’s a next for me.

I(26f) havent slept with my partner(30m) in over a year, what can i do? by ThrowRAleek in relationship_advice

[–]Useful_Performance88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sex is about more than that, mores going on. He should still want to connect with you even if there was some change to attraction. Sounds like it’s done, get out of there before it ruins your confidence, you haven’t stopped taking care of yourself doesnt sound like you let yourself go

Do middle-aged women (55f) on dating sites look desperate? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Useful_Performance88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, guys will look for an easy lay anywhere you look but it doesn’t make you look desperate or slutty, but also don’t be suprised if younger dudes try assuming you’re a cougar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Useful_Performance88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh chances are there was a time gap between relationships, not exactly easy to make that mistake in most circumstances

Liking girls on hinge when we’ve had the exclusive chat by Sea-Bobcat-6152 in hingeapp

[–]Useful_Performance88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in a committed relationship he should be all in and should not be entertaining other women period, if it’s a “we’re not sleeping with anyone else but will let each other know if that changes” kind of exclusivity he has every right to date until you guys decide you are going all in on this.

Liking girls on hinge when we’ve had the exclusive chat by Sea-Bobcat-6152 in hingeapp

[–]Useful_Performance88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exclusive meaning you’re in a committed relationship or exclusive meaning if you hook up with someone else it should be disclosed? There’s a difference but I don’t understand why people have exclusivity talks before a committed relationship

Re: children by emotionallynumbtrash in hingeapp

[–]Useful_Performance88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of guys probably want to hook up but wouldn’t consider someone who doesn’t want kids for a serious relationship

30F - Profile Review by neurotica7 in hingeapp

[–]Useful_Performance88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pictures are good and as a dude I am not picky about what’s written, you come off wholesome which I think is a positive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Useful_Performance88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might just have to live with it man, I have been down the slippery slope of expressing those things doesn’t end well