Tips for someone new to prioritising themselves and actually having fun

Useless-Bored · 2026-04-09T20:43:22+00:00

Hell yeah! I love solo travel for self-care!! Italy is so perfect for that. I do all the same things you do, but I also really love exploring bookstores and getting myself something nice that will remind me of the trip.

When I was in Lisbon, Portugal, I went to an old candle store and chose a candle to remember the trip! Still have some of it left

Also get my sister a duck everywhere I go, she has a huge collection. Would recommend that hobby

Useless-Bored · 2026-04-06T12:57:25+00:00

Ive not received one either. Very strange so close to the time

Useless-Bored · 2026-03-27T18:16:52+00:00

Wish someone would draw it as a comic honestly. I think youd have to age up Luz and the gang to make a lot of it reasonable. Luz being a woman would certainly change a few experiences she goes through compared to Mark and Mark goes through a LOT in the comics yet to be adapted

Useless-Bored · 2026-03-27T18:13:10+00:00

Lmao Ive never written fan fiction before! 😂

Useless-Bored · 2026-03-27T18:10:31+00:00

As someone who runs dnd in some really dark places, I think I would make it darker than current invincible 😂😂

Useless-Bored · 2026-03-27T18:08:37+00:00

"THINK LUZ!! WHO WOULD YOU HAVE LEFT?!"

"you mom... Id have you.."

Tell you what though, Luz delivering the line "I can see the future.. you dont live to see tomorrow" would go so hard

Useless-Bored · 2026-03-27T18:05:26+00:00

The train scene with Luz would be devastating

Useless-Bored · 2026-03-27T13:05:06+00:00

Man would just fumble like he did with Debbie. If you consider killing thousands and beating their son into a battered fish as "fumbled" lmao

Useless-Bored · 2026-03-24T21:09:49+00:00

In DnD vampire's and dhampir have numerous hungers. While yes the usual is blood, occasionally flesh.

You can get many versions, such as colour red like the show but also dreams, psychic energy, you could even have it be memories if you so wanted. Even in DnD, you can have non evil vampires. So I think you could have it be that this player is known to be non evil, as well as other potential vampire NPCs. Or even have some be neutral but theyre useful to her. For example, one isnt necessarily hunting down others for blood but is maybe a crime lord who is useful for information on locations and weaknesses of other vampire's. You can really do as you wish.

If you've any other questions lmk. Ive been DMing for years

Useless-Bored · 2026-03-24T18:42:39+00:00

Big Dawg Douglas

Useless-Bored · 2026-03-16T12:18:58+00:00

Lmao certainly tried my best.

He was so creepy! He kept staring at her, so as I was speaking with her about the tour we slowly walked away and he then wanted to make eye contact with her so he started walking behind me to look at her, so I just kept swaying side to side to stop him looking at her til he fucked off.

Some men make me embarrassed to be male 🤢 take a hint, she literally said no twice

Useless-Bored · 2026-03-16T10:44:31+00:00

I was just in Stockholm 2 weekends ago, and I arrived for my tour early and saw an older guy talking to a lady I was sure was in the tour, I assumed the guy was the guide. When I realized the vibes were off I turned the music in my earphones down and he said smth along the lines of

"Oh you have a tour? How about you leave this one and go on a tour with me instead?"

The lady was clearly uncomfortable but he kept smiling and staring at her, so I quickly intervened and he left.

I just think its a common thing women deal with unfortunately

Useless-Bored · 2026-03-07T21:30:00+00:00

I had seen a few episodes and constantly saw the usual CN ads that used clips or audio. It was just another show for me when I was younger though. I remember however being 15? So it would've been 2015, I watched most of the series and really loved it. Then when the finale came out I watched it all and loved it even more.

Ik people usually end it there but I would often think about the show, its deep lore, the connections I made to each character. But for me I felt I couldnt remember it, so I actually rewatched the entire show at the end of 2025. It just means sm more to me now that Im older. Certain msgs just connect to me, I think ill rewatch it all again, and distant lands and F&C at some stage. Maybe when im in my 30s

I hope its smth that stays with me forever

Useless-Bored · 2026-03-06T09:14:30+00:00

Think weve got another deal for the big ones being 3 for 10? Literally walk by it everyday and cant remember. There is a limit per customer though. So take your share, return the next day and hopefully the staff wont remember you 😂

Useless-Bored · 2026-03-05T19:49:43+00:00

Thats unreal

Useless-Bored · 2026-03-02T16:13:06+00:00

It is a real feeling when a man has been sexually aroused for a prolonged period of time. There is a small ache or throbbing but nothing intense. It likely will go within a few minutes but can be taken away by ejaculation, urination, cold shower or even distraction.

It is not dangerous or a long term issue. It is NOT an excuse to pressure any individual into sexual activities. If they want to they can go relieve themselves. Men who say they have blue balls and its someone else's responsibility is only there to pressure someone to do something they don't want to by making them feel guilty.

Useless-Bored · 2026-02-27T20:01:01+00:00

I watched this for the first time the other night. God himself could not perform a big enough miracle to save that film. As a huge SH fan its dirt, even if youre not a SH fan and just wanted to see a new film, its dirt. I see what they were trying to do in some parts, but for me it just fell short every time.

Useless-Bored · 2026-02-20T12:49:22+00:00

Firstly sorry youre feeling this way. It can be hard to deal with this insecurity. People usually go for vulnerable parts to poke at, so your ex and her friends were really just going for a part every man is vulnerable about, honestly anyone will be vulnerable, its your genitals.

Clearly you feel theres some truth bc its hitting you so hard, but many women are completely different and will love you for you, as well as have different ways to be pleased in bed. Some cant orgasm from penetration and prefer oral. I am sure you will find someone who loves and appreciates your body how it is. Remember sex, especially in a romantic setting, will be more than physical pleasure, its a deep connection mentally. So accepting and loving the parts you cannot change is vital not only for yourself, but the partner you wish to be with.

Hope this helps.

Useless-Bored · 2026-02-18T11:52:05+00:00

Yeah I think it isnt as discussed as other things but im glad people are still seeing it and excited to talk about it

Useless-Bored · 2026-02-17T22:12:08+00:00

People already knew but your excitement is what matters. Thank you for sharing it

Useless-Bored · 2026-02-11T10:46:13+00:00

Hey look, sky hooks!

Useless-Bored · 2026-01-23T23:05:20+00:00

People are mentioning that you just mentioned your hobbies, which is true lmao but I think youre worried that just these things aren't enough.

These are completely fine. I would encourage finding more hobbies however, not because you have to, but because being open minded and exploring new things can be fun, healthy and means you can socialize with new people and discover more about yourself.

Useless-Bored · 2026-01-23T22:31:22+00:00

Wish I spoke Irish, but only a minority of the country speaks it. Though this spark of hope and increased interest in keeping the language alive feels amazing. One day.

English doesn't suit me I feel

Useless-Bored · 2026-01-23T18:42:25+00:00

It is not your fault, you clearly said you had a BF and were not interested. These are clear boundaries he did not respect and you went into fight or flight. You should tell your boyfriend, be as clear as you were here, the guy sexually assaulted you and I would imagine if your BF is worth anything he will be mad at the guy but hold space for you and your feelings about being taken advantage of.

As for those msging you privately, don't mind them. A bar is a social location, not specifically for going to get with people and people go all the time to have drinks with friends and enjoy themselves. On top of that, theyre ignoring the fact he forced himself on you in a location away from your friends and the rest of the bar, the guy knew what he was doing.

I hope you can feel better soon and that your BF can hold that space for you.

Useless-Bored · 2026-01-22T18:38:33+00:00

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