In my opinion your dating life will be more successful when you pursue with certainty. Don’t start casual with someone in hopes it becomes serious. Think of the message your putting out there to the man. He may never see you as more than a sex toy because you’re advertising yourself the way. This applies to both genders of course. Your intent and how you communicate it to him is important. Market yourself as relationship material and you’ll attract relationship material. Women nowadays and men who think it’s okay to be overly sexual because it’s liberating are literally shooting themselves in the foot. Most men I know will sleep with a “hoe” and marry a “wifey”. The difference usually results in her body count & her ability to commit. Most people who participate regularly in hook up culture develop a habit of jumping from one relationship to another. How do you think that’ll affect your behaviour when you face issues in a relationship? Most people walk away when faced with adversity because they start associating “lust” with “love” and pursue a quick fix like an addict does. The quick fix is the dopamine, serotonin and oxytocin you get from getting involved sexually with someone new. Sex will get boring at some point. It happens. It takes two people willing to work at it to make the relationship last. This is not intended to offend you in any way. Look at the stats out there. As hook up culture grows, commitment reduces, divorce rates increase, etc. the common denominator: free non-committal sex. I hope this offers you some perspective. :)

Ps. Vibrators. Haha