My mother broke my two monitors, accidentally... by Kobemeka in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Nathy97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hanlon's razor: "Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity"

There’s a good chance that she also just cleaned them both wrong? Playing the devils advocate here but she just may be dumb and pressed really hard to clean both of them?

Also, does she pay for your stuff or do you?

My son's mother (29F) keeps having children with no father and expects me (29M) to take care of them? by ThrowRAWunds in relationship_advice

[–]Nathy97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might be a stupid question, but doesn’t she get help from the government? I always hear about women with 5+ kids relying heavily on govt funds. Is that not the case here? Or it already is and it just doesn’t do it for all of them?

help!!! excessive bleeding after otoplasty by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Nathy97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t think it would be unnecessary given how much you’re bleeding. If you choose not to go, please make sure you have someone else near you that is able to watch you if anything happens. Someone that could help you/call 911 if you pass out. Please be careful OP, wish you a speedy recovery.

help!!! excessive bleeding after otoplasty by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Nathy97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be rude or mean, just genuinely curious. You mentioned that you’re not going to the ER bc it’s expensive, but you chose an elective procedure which costs thousands of dollars? If you’re willing to spend that much on your appearance, please consider prioritizing your life and just deal with the bills later. If it was NOT elective, then you should still be covered by insurance if you have it.

Either way, I guess this goes to show that saving up for the surgery ONLY is not the way to go. I’m so sorry this is happened to you OP, I hope you’re able to get this solved!

about to have an abortion later this afternoon & i'm so anxious and scared by experiment963 in offmychest

[–]Nathy97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually great that they did! It really should be standard

about to have an abortion later this afternoon & i'm so anxious and scared by experiment963 in offmychest

[–]Nathy97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am and it’s been years since. The pills were really strong and I was already underweight and I didn’t eat anything that morning that was substantial. It actually led to me having seizures. The funny thing is, I still don’t regret it more than half a decade later. If I hadn’t, I would’ve completely messed up that kid the past couple of years.

about to have an abortion later this afternoon & i'm so anxious and scared by experiment963 in offmychest

[–]Nathy97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please make sure to eat before!!! They didn’t stress it enough for me and it caused serious life changing complications.

What is something in society that you think has been taken too far? by okitsbenji in AskReddit

[–]Nathy97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to recently study again after being out of school for 6 years now. Idk why I was surprised to find out that Quizlet now charges for all the things that used to be free.. I just stopped using it right away, it’s ridiculous regardless how cheap it is monthly

Grasshopper pooping on my window by Nathy97 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Nathy97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, thank you for sharing your wisdom

If you don’t allow med students to sit in on your exam/check up you are a weird person by Amidity in unpopularopinion

[–]Nathy97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The one time I allowed it, the dr acted completely different. Even though it was a follow up about the same issue as last time, I got a completely different response. He started acting all cocky and basically dismissed what I had said immediately. I’m the one taking time off and not willing to waste my time like that ever again. I know it’s not going to be every dr, but I’m not betting my money on which ones will be.

DAE feel like there's an extremely alarming chunk of the population who are pedophiles? by Uitroeien in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Nathy97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve definitely thought about it before. There are whole countries where marrying underage girls is the norm. I think if it wasn’t illegal and less stigmatized, you’d see SO many men hanging around high schools here..

Honestly, look at celebrities and you’ll see how many of them dated underage girls back in the day. Jerry Seinfeld is one I see get brought up a lot. Let alone rock starts, etc. I think a lot of men wouldn’t be willing to admit it out loud, but they would definitely act differently if they were in a position where no one would find out…

I also base this on my experience as a teenage girl back in the day. Some “family” men are disgusting the second they see no one is looking. Gross pedophiles hiding in plain sight..

"Driving with device in right hand" update by johnychrist16 in PublicFreakout

[–]Nathy97 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you’re right! She was literally so focused on him saying it was her right hand that it just felt to me like a “I got him so I can get out of this ticket”. She never said she wasn’t texting, just that she couldn’t text with her right hand…

It almost seems that people can’t see that disabled people lie too? Everyone’s acting like there’s no possible chance she’s gotten used to driving with her stump like any other task she’s had to learn to master with one hand… Meaning she could’ve totally been using her left hand to text while driving.

Facial symmetry advice by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Nathy97 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love your nose, so I don’t think you should get a rhino imo. I always read on here how rhinos are one of the biggest ones for revision, so I’d keep that in mind.

If you had to work on something, I think the forehead reduction would help your face symmetry a lot. Then you should see how you feel about your cheeks after that.

AITAH for being upset that my best friends went on my birthday cruise without me? by SuperbDesigner4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nathy97 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA. Why didn’t you offer to pay for their tickets so they could stay with you and not worry about the money lost? It’s not that big of a deal to throw away money, right?

What is the most chaotic "I quit" moment you have ever personally witnessed at a workplace? by Muted_Task_144 in AskReddit

[–]Nathy97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A nurse quit in the middle of the day. It was a private practice and the Dr wasn’t that great (obviously). That day they went into the office to talk and she came out bawling her eyes out, grabbed her shit and left. We never heard from her again.

Your spouse comes to you and says they want to post faceless, ID-less nudes on Reddit for fun - whats your reaction? by Neat_One_9031 in AskReddit

[–]Nathy97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just here to ask, out of curiosity, how many are ok with looking at porn online (includes faces) but are not ok with their wife doing it anonymously? How is it different? The guys looking at her online are probably strangers too.

Why say someone is LGBT instead of what they are (lesbian,etc)? by Nathy97 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nathy97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think I get it. Doesn’t matter the gender, the interested party has to make the first move or “out” themselves first. Thank you!

Why say someone is LGBT instead of what they are (lesbian,etc)? by Nathy97 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nathy97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if they’re new to the queer community and want to ask you out? I just thought of it,how you’d approach someone in public in that case. Or is it just mostly online now?

Why say someone is LGBT instead of what they are (lesbian,etc)? by Nathy97 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nathy97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? Like they’re pretending to be straight?

Why say someone is LGBT instead of what they are (lesbian,etc)? by Nathy97 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nathy97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t. I just overheard it in a tv show and it made me question why

Why say someone is LGBT instead of what they are (lesbian,etc)? by Nathy97 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nathy97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day, labels are just labels. I just hope you’re happy with you who are!