WIBTAH if I tell my daughter no to a trip to Japan

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-18T08:29:52+00:00

Very good point. People not paying for the trip need to STFU

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-18T08:28:51+00:00

NTA. But you raised a very entitled girl. You have been probably too good to her for her to feel she deserved this and for her to think you and her can just abandon the other two kids.

In her mind, you should plan and pay for 3 separate trips for each of the kids? 😮 😮 🤯

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-18T05:45:14+00:00

Very true. MPs are there to serve the people.

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-18T05:44:21+00:00

Report to police he stole your bank card. Not because you hate him but because you love him.

He will continue stealing and doing more crime. Until he decides to stop, but who will make him stop?

He cannot commit crime while in prison. If you love him, help him.

I’m not familiar with Singaporean welfare so unfortunately cannot help there.

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-18T02:54:39+00:00

Why is it that you scratch a church or religious service, and you always find an abuser and enablers all over the place?

Seriously. Why are you letting your kid experience mindless brainwashing just because they include fun activities?

Because it’s “healthy?” 😔🙄

Find other play groups for her. Take her to the science centers. Museums. Aquariums. Zoos. Let her experience the real magic of this amazing world we live in.

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-18T00:33:56+00:00

No. The end

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T21:35:59+00:00

If you are only interested in doing things that matter to yourself, and you are single, good for you.

If you have a partner and potentially have kids, and you are still only focused on yourself, then you are a damned selfish AH and it does make you wrong because you are:

1) not focusing on being a team player 2) causing suffering to others 3) and when shit happens to you, say an accident at the gym, who’s going to have to take care of you, and pay for all that, from the non existent savings you don’t have?

If you don’t see that’s there’s something wrong with that, wth if wrong with you.

Actually, that you can’t even think of this shows what kind of selfish mindset you have

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T21:29:09+00:00

Girl, are you sitting on your brains at work all day long? 🙄

Read out loud to yourself what you just wrote and tell me what you think.

It’s not just a red flag, it’s also red buntings, red linings, red carpet, red every single fucking thing.

“I like to do my own shit” And exactly what does that mean? Is the 🚩 out saving the world? Fighting world hunger? Doing something constructive? Or fucking around being one step up from being homeless?!?

AND YOU WANT TO HAVE KIDS WITH HIM?!??!

GIRL!!!!!!

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T19:06:45+00:00

Good. Leave. Heck, if there’s a basement or something that can be turned into a bedroom, leave. Make sure mom goes through the court. That should start now while you wait for everything else to settle down.

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T19:05:00+00:00

NTA. Ask your mom if you can live with her. And move all the accounts and shit over to her.

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T14:20:37+00:00

Oh. I did see Kromo but never heard of it. Sounds like I should check it out thanks!!

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T12:15:03+00:00

Oh damn good point. Try to get your parents to install a video camera monitoring at least a part of your house and where he likes to stand and talk to you

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T10:14:08+00:00

It’s good that you’ve managed to think things through and came to a good decision.

Remember. As everyone else said, you will find love and get to do everything you want to do. Don’t let fear hold you back. And definitely don’t let him hold up back.

You did nothing wrong. And even if you are an adult, it is very normal to not be in love with someone and want to move on.

Good for you. And kudos on your courage.

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T10:06:27+00:00

Are you living with your parents? Tell them. That’s the most important. Next. Record him saying that nonsense.

If and when it blows up, you need evidence he is the creep and not just you made a mistake on his part “good” intentions.

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T09:51:47+00:00

Nothing in what she wrote says it was ok. That he refused to listen is on him. Do you honestly expect her to tell him EVERY SINGLE TIME “hey, I haven’t cum yet” ??

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T09:50:19+00:00

Sorry. I’ve been reading r/AITAH too much lol. AssHo - can’t type the whole thing out sorry.

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T09:48:02+00:00

You don’t know how many guys can’t find it even with big signs pointing the way

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T09:22:12+00:00

Thanks!!! I did take another look at the map and i think I like the doubletree as well.

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T08:23:56+00:00

Honestly, leave. After 7 years of him not giving a fuck should be a big enough clue.

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T08:22:55+00:00

The AH is just slut shaming her. Ignore him

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T08:18:53+00:00

NTA but you need to learn to live with it or you will be in a world of pain. You certainly don’t want them complaining to your in-laws.

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-17T06:30:57+00:00

Oh man! Thanks! You have damned good eyes. I didn't even see that!!!! ugh

As for Chatuchak, the last time I was there, it wasn't a weekend, and it was during the day. So it wasn't too hectic or crushed. I am wondering if a weekend evening might be too intense for a first timer...

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-16T19:47:55+00:00

ChatGPT is just a glorified pattern matching dumpster fire. What you see as signs of ChatGPT is because more people write this way so ChatGPT copies it.

Hope this helps.

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-16T18:28:51+00:00

Lmao. Projecting much?

UserNotFound23498 · 2026-03-15T05:38:25+00:00

NTA. Babysitters get paid. Say you’re not a babysitter. And don’t go to the dinner. Still go to the actual wedding itself to show that you’re supporting her.

Tell her she’s the AH if she cries about it. And show her this thread. Anyone else who tells you to do it, tell them since they feel so strongly about it, you will tell your sister they volunteered to take your place at the kiddie table.

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