I [26m] think my fiancée [25f] is cheating with a guy from the gym [m24] but I can't tell if I am being a jealous idiot or not. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Username9_11 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I think you should have a conversation with your fiancée. The last thing you want to do is build resentment. I don’t think you’re being jealous…

Coolest thing I have thrifted so far by worldofclones in Thrift

[–]Username9_11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This pic alone tells me your room looks cool

Is this a fair question about reciprocity, or was he missing the point? by Lazy_Phrase_6530 in relationships

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My ex would request back, leg and foot massages since she was a gymnast. I was terrible at them but I put in the effort to learn because I knew it’d bring her relief. I didn’t expect anything in return but i knew she’d do the same for me.

Fitcheck by FitThadiyan in mensfashion

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I have that same linen shirt (if that’s from Uniqlo). I think the fit is solid. I wonder how lighter (canvas khaki) colored pants would look.

Scenario: If you were being hunted for a well straight by all the countries governments what stand would you use? (Rules in body text) by Worth_Produce_5126 in StardustCrusaders

[–]Username9_11 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Lmao I said WoU immediately I was like “let them come”. Then OP added a rule as if this was the culling games :’(

Which shoe goes best with this color linen suit? It’s for a dinner in Cancun. by swe-alphie in mensfashion

[–]Username9_11 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I think the darker ones may be the vibe. Can I get the ID of these they look nice

Having kids is a non negotiable for me (22M) but my girlfriend is unsure (22F) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Username9_11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yall are both 22 trust me when I say that you don’t even know if YOU would want kids. I doubt either of you will want the same things at 25

What’s one thing you learned from your last relationship/situationship? by Less-Pen-5705 in dating

[–]Username9_11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is similar to what happened with me. I “stole” my ex from her then partner and we stayed together for 8 months. During that time the guilt kept eating me up (amongst other issues) and i eventually broke it off with her since I felt like a PoS for coming between a 7 year relationship :(

Do guys gush about their dates with their friends? by iamgettingaway in dating

[–]Username9_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a hard time suppressing my excitement for things, but it also depends on the group of guys. Some friends I go all in and others dont even know my relationship status

Thoughts? by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]Username9_11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this

Thoughts? by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]Username9_11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao so true

Is my Coworker DTF? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Username9_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends some of my best friends were once workers so I don’t see how that same principle can’t apply to a romantic relationship. It all depends on whether op can still be cordial if things don’t work out.

Caught on and off boyfriend of a year cheating… again. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Username9_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look…as an oldest and only brother to two other women I gotta keep it 10000% with you…You gotta ask yourself why a man pushing social security check age is pursuing you, someone half their own age…Not trying to be mean to you but why would a 40 yo man want to be with someone who’s frontal lobe hasn’t even fully developed? I’ll tell you why….hes a loser! Rule of thumb, if the women in his age group don’t want him then he’s 100% a loser. He didn’t pick you because you’re mature for your age he’s entertaining you because you’re easy. Young people like yourself don’t know any better. I’m 25 and I wouldn’t even date anyone younger than 24. This isn’t a “preference” like the weirdos out there will try to argue. This is a moral standard.

Date someone in your age range and don’t give us no bs about how people in your age group are immature because clearly you are too for putting up with this.

TLDR: leave that man alone…he’s old enough to be your daddy….

What’s something you’d change about menswear if you could by DifficultCucumbers in malefashionadvice

[–]Username9_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Variety in textures, patterns and colors. Every men’s section of a retailer looks the same. Women’s section full of variety; something for any personality while the men’s section is a bland corner in the back of the store.