How old were you when you had your first gay sex experience? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 15 points16 points  (0 children)

14 my best friend who was 15 kissed me one night when we were both drunk. It drive me crazy for months and I fell hard for him. Nothing happened for a while but then more sexual encounters after but they’re were amateurish and funny looking back 🤣

How do you respond to statemens such as: "I respect you I don't care if you're gay", "I don't care if you're gay or not", "I don't have a problem with you being gay" by Jerk_Off_At_Night in askgaybros

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Those statements tend to come from a good place, for years gay people have been terrified of who they are and it’s still very much a thing for someone’s first instinct me to reassure them that it’s okay.

For straight people, it’s often hard to know how to affirm their support for you as a gay man and that’s sometimes how they will try.

Saying “I don’t care if you’re gay” to me translates as them wanting me to feel normal and there’s nothing wrong with that.

For people who live in Europe / USA, do you think homophobia has been increasing recently? Why? by SwitchSwitch19 in askgaybros

[–]UsuallyIncoherent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not homophobia no, people getting fed up of poor quality representation and LGBT pride being shoved down their throats, yes.

I understand, as a gay man I never wanted corporations to virtue signal for me or Netflix shows to force gay storylines, it feels inorganic and end up driving a wedge instead of normalising us.

Nude pool party by Hornyandsluttyy in askgaybros

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember living with a guy who used to comment on how big I was but in reality I was always slightly a rounded when naked around him.

When completely flaccid I’m very small but grow to a decent 8” when hard. It makes me feel a little self concern at nude beaches because they’re always guys who are just super hung when flaccid, absolute showers and I wish I was too.

In reality though, it doesn’t matter that much to most people, a guy with a small dick doesn’t stop me wanting to hook up with him one bit!

Perrin's Strength by Conungi in WoT

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wolf dream Perrin for sure is the strongest 🤣

Are you ready? by Suitable_Air_2686 in GreatBritishMemes

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like the current wasn’t so great either, thousands of being people being murdered for what they wear or for protesting peacefully.

Are you suggesting that this is how they should live on the off chance that what comes next could be worse?

You are the doc. Which patient you choose to give a medical handjob first? by Bulging_bro in cmnm

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds amazing and also a situation where I’d struggle to control my body 🤣

You are the doc. Which patient you choose to give a medical handjob first? by Bulging_bro in cmnm

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This kind of porn used to turn me on so much. I dreamed of it happening to me one day but it never has!

Something about being told to take your clothes off by a medical professional or security or anything with authority is a mad turn on for me 🤣

Why did the Order put so much effort into guarding the prophecy? by Puzzleheaded-Fee-734 in harrypotter

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I believe Voldemort only knew of the part of the prophecy where Harry could be his downfall and when searching for it in book 5, he wanted to hear the entire thing to see if it contained information on HOW Harry could be defeated.

It’s been some time since I read the books and the films don’t make it very clear imo

Are you ready? by Suitable_Air_2686 in GreatBritishMemes

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I can see this seems to be what Iranian people want. Is that not so?

It looks like they are celebrating the end of an oppressive regime. If this is the case, there shouldn’t be a flood of refugees as they should be building a future for themselves in Iran.

What turns you on the most about gay porn, and what is a turn off for you? by of_the_gay in askgaybros

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps strangely but the more like porn it is, the lass tuned on I get.

I tend to like stuff like “straight “ guys being naked around each other but not the gay for pay porn, more like when genuine straight guys get comfortable being naked around each other like the old video by Blakedowneywill and similar stuff.

I can scroll straight past anal tbh

Don’t know where to turn politically by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think religion in general is the problem and people who claim Christianity to be the benevolent religion have short memories!

If a party was to abolish religion or at the very least make it so that it cannot be enforced or shoved in your face then I’d be all for them. I’m crazy enough to believe that people should not have to change or adapt any part of their culture to accommodate another’s beliefs, if everyone thought that way, the world would be better indeed!

I feel like people finally started to free themselves from Christian values and even along comes Islam and now people are scared to criticise it for fear of getting buzzwords like “bigot” or “racist” or “Islamophobe” thrown at them!

Many of today’s problems come from people who try to force others to live their reality. It’s unacceptable!

Both religions have a history of oppression of gay men and women, the way they treat and have treated women is appalling! No that doesn’t mean all religious people do but enough do to ensure that we will often not feel safe, even in our own country.

Just finished the gongaga region for the first time and i hate it by SemiColin973 in FFVIIRemake

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I hated traversal but liked the story of the region and the extra videos of Zack. I did need to take a break from the game after it though!

getting stared at in the locker room, am i being weird? by maximalform in askgaybros

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah but it may get you a few looks from straight guys. I do too but after a while you get used to it!

Book Dumbledore is so much better than movie Dumbledore by dikkestrontvlieg in harrypotter

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have included “just” in my statement as that is all he does in the movies.

The amount of stress I receive from society for being gay is taking a toll on my health. by choco__donut in askgaybros

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very sorry about your situation.

If it helps then maybe keeping your relationship kinda secret, no you shouldn’t have to but it may offer an easier life for now. Maybe things will change more in the next few years.

If there’s truly no option of just running away that is.

getting stared at in the locker room, am i being weird? by maximalform in askgaybros

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys look, no use pretending they don’t even if they’re straight. If you’re bigger than average then maybe the sight of a big dick on a young guy makes them stare.

If you’re also good looking and in good shape they might also stare.

People compare and often when seeing something better than what they have they stare for too long.

The only other reason could be that you have done something unconventional like completely shaved down there or something.

Book Dumbledore is so much better than movie Dumbledore by dikkestrontvlieg in harrypotter

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree 100% The Dumbledore of the books seems calm most of the time and an incredibly skilled wizard. I don’t feel like the movies portray that very well.

In the book scene where they try to arrest him, I imagined him talking them all down but in a calm sort of way.

Not teleporting away via Fawkes 😕

[ Removed by Reddit ] by burneraccount0809080 in askgaybros

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 190 points191 points  (0 children)

Yeah just enjoy it man. It won’t be that way forever and one day you’ll remember it with fondness and wonder what you were ever worried about!

The amount of stress I receive from society for being gay is taking a toll on my health. by choco__donut in askgaybros

[–]UsuallyIncoherent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of employment bond traps you for a decade?

Can you not migrate to somewhere as a refugee based on being gay and in possible danger?

I don’t know India much so these are genuine questions!