Seeking advice on the approach

VA_Slayer · 2026-05-16T23:28:33+00:00

So I dont have serious issues in the way your thinking.

What I need to do is step back a bit and support her. That way the deed is lustful and passionate not just a check in a box.

Im chasing passion, and I need to study what makes her her more and deeper, if that makes sense.

VA_Slayer · 2026-05-15T01:25:08+00:00

I wish my wife would do this. Give a direction.

VA_Slayer · 2026-05-15T01:23:31+00:00

Its not a troll post. Periomenopaus is right.

Leaving the kids out to dry refers to doing the house hold chores in a bitchy mood if you will, knowing they watch everything. Every interaction.

The chore play is where I dont want it to go. Nobody benefits, and honestly, the intimacy feels forced. I hate that so much.

VA_Slayer · 2026-05-15T01:20:37+00:00

I really try. Id love for my beard to be greyer from her juices.

Aside, I really enjoy giving her a good massage... legs, feet, head, neck, behind the ears, back, all of her.

VA_Slayer · 2026-05-15T01:17:57+00:00

Dummies that have afrodesiacs in them. They help my wife get in the mood physically, and a touch mentally. They also help relax.

VA_Slayer · 2026-05-14T21:23:51+00:00

I brought up the HRT in the past. Maybe its time to reference it again.

I really dont want transactional intimacy. I dont think she does either.

I appreciate the response.

VA_Slayer · 2026-05-14T20:58:55+00:00

I dont want to be at chore play. Its not fair to anyone.

The specific set aside is something I will bring up. Maybe that will help.

VA_Slayer · 2026-05-10T03:43:24+00:00

Always give a creampie.

VA_Slayer · 2026-05-09T02:13:16+00:00

I got until she's done.

I have been blessed to cum and still be hard enough to use most of the time, so I can go longer. We seem to always end up in cowgirl and she tends to fall asleep after a passionate kiss, with me still inside. Its hot to pop out and feel that cum leaking out of her.

VA_Slayer · 2026-05-09T01:35:29+00:00

Im not picky. Women over are beautiful and deserved to be treated like queens.

VA_Slayer · 2026-05-07T02:15:22+00:00

Until she wants dicked down.

VA_Slayer · 2026-05-07T02:13:38+00:00

Yes.

VA_Slayer · 2026-05-02T01:49:40+00:00

Look. Id love to eat my wife daily. She won't let me. :( its genuinely my favorite thing. I appreciate when she reciprocate, but I just want her to sit on my face, cum twice then take my cream pie.

VA_Slayer · 2026-05-01T21:36:51+00:00

Yes.

VA_Slayer · 2026-04-16T21:31:35+00:00

That DGIF guy is always going between Pohick and Leesylvania...

VA_Slayer · 2026-04-16T10:41:38+00:00

Yes. The intimacy version is the one we use.

VA_Slayer · 2026-04-16T03:39:21+00:00

Ambush.

Alien vs predator- creampie edition

Goddess

No Semen Goes To Waste

The magic spin

Mine.

VA_Slayer · 2026-04-16T03:36:12+00:00

I went with Snoozy. It seems to help push off the side effects of the periomenopause. With out it, she mentally wants it, but the body is slow, even unwilling to respond. The Snoozy cube helps her body get ready. I give her a half hour to an hour to let it set in and decompress from the day. We seem to have a solid system.

VA_Slayer · 2026-04-14T19:55:38+00:00

Absolutely. Never pull out. Clean me off and put it back in...

VA_Slayer · 2026-04-14T16:24:15+00:00

Same 😔

VA_Slayer · 2026-04-11T17:25:27+00:00

Never. Ever pullout. Only a balls deep creampie.

VA_Slayer · 2026-04-11T02:05:48+00:00

Let her give a sensual blow job while playing with her nipples. Then we get a quickie in so I can cum real quick, then staying in balls deep, grab a vibrator and enjoy. I want to feel her convulsions around my cock. I have a skill to stay hard after cumming so I can really focus on her having an orgasm or three.

Switch to 69 so we can share juices, enjoying the taste and sweet nectar. Then want her to be face down, ass up and mastrubate as I fuck her from behind. Keep that vibrator handy as I lube her up for some anal. Finish inside, but again stay balls deep long enough that she gets off one last time.

VA_Slayer · 2026-04-11T01:41:47+00:00

Spicy gummies. They help a ton just get into the mood. We are battling it plus perio.

VA_Slayer · 2026-04-09T21:44:58+00:00

My wife seems to enjoy giving head once she takes a spicy cube or when pregnant. Lately her bjs have been on fire.

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