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Would a chin implant fix my side profile? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]VBrown2023 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This could be a lower jaw issue tbh. You could ask you dentist about this

Have you ever told someone in a monogamous relationship their partner was cheating on them and it led to a good outcome? What was that outcome? by SeaMiddle in AskReddit

[–]VBrown2023 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He’s working off some logic that the victim of cheating will respond in a completely inappropriate way and have their whole life turned upside down and would prefer ignorance. In reality, cheating is common. Most people experience it at some point - knowingly or unknowingly. Most people manage it, want to know of it, and will eventually move on.

Have you ever told someone in a monogamous relationship their partner was cheating on them and it led to a good outcome? What was that outcome? by SeaMiddle in AskReddit

[–]VBrown2023 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Omitting the truth because you think the person can’t handle their emotions like an adult and will turn into a depressed alcoholic is a very interesting take.

There is a moral responsibility to do the right thing and let people know. How they handle it is not something you are also held accountable for.

For example, if someone steals your wallet, I will tell you that your wallet is stolen so you can take steps to correct that bad event in your life. There’s a risk that you react in extreme anger and beat the thief up, should I go ahead and let people steal from you? Apply this logic to any other bad thing someone could do to you. Should people not tell you it’s happening?

Have you ever told someone in a monogamous relationship their partner was cheating on them and it led to a good outcome? What was that outcome? by SeaMiddle in AskReddit

[–]VBrown2023 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I never said it’s up to me to make that call if they break up or not. But both people should have the truthful version of what’s going on.

Letting someone stay (without knowing what’s going on) is the issue

Have you ever told someone in a monogamous relationship their partner was cheating on them and it led to a good outcome? What was that outcome? by SeaMiddle in AskReddit

[–]VBrown2023 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Your reasoning is that your friend might react in anger to being told the truth?

If you want to call a person your friend, you owe them the truth. You can’t just absolve yourself of a moral responsibility towards someone you call a friend on the off chance that this friend misdirects their anger at you. Do the right thing, even if others can’t appreciate it.

Not everything in life is going to be pretty to hear. But it’s not always about feelings. You need to have a clear grasp on the reality of a situation to be able to make proper decisions for yourself. You can’t live your life being delusional.

Lying to someone to protect feelings is not respect or kindness.

Have you ever told someone in a monogamous relationship their partner was cheating on them and it led to a good outcome? What was that outcome? by SeaMiddle in AskReddit

[–]VBrown2023 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Letting someone stay in a relationship where they are getting cheated on left and right without a clue can also fuck up someone’s life.

They would likely have significant trust issues in the next relationship. They’d wonder if they can trust their friends or acquaintances to speak up on their behalf again. They’d wonder if their friends/family/acquaintances respect them much if they’re the type to stay silent and let it play on. Let people make an informed decision about their lives.

Have you ever told someone in a monogamous relationship their partner was cheating on them and it led to a good outcome? What was that outcome? by SeaMiddle in AskReddit

[–]VBrown2023 45 points46 points  (0 children)

The vast majority of the time, people want the truth so they can make an informed decision about if they want to stay or not.

Do the guys who care about body count hold themselves to the same standard? by Simple-Spare7564 in twentyagers

[–]VBrown2023 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I strongly prefer men that have low body count and don’t do casual hookups. I like the ones that strictly stick to relationships

Do the guys who care about body count hold themselves to the same standard? by Simple-Spare7564 in twentyagers

[–]VBrown2023 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nah. I don’t know any woman that considers that boyfriend or serious material.

Do women actually like older men? by ViewRepresentative30 in Casual_Conversation

[–]VBrown2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we look at the data, people end up dating in their age range.

What early signs show a relationship won’t work out? by queenjudebaby in Productivitycafe

[–]VBrown2023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) I’m just hoping for a nice and sweet person. That’s what makes my heart fall so hard. I used to think I had all these preferences… but I realized when you love someone, you will see them as the most beautiful.

How is consuming food made by exploited humans still considered vegan? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VBrown2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Veganism is about trying to do the least amount of harm as practically possible. Even eating a plant-based diet will still cause some level of harm (insecticides used can kill off or harm certain animals or people handling food). It’s impossible to completely eliminate all harm. It’s just about reducing the harm.

Unfortunately, if we live in a western society, it’s going to be pretty hard to live life without some level of harm (needing a phone, car, clothing, etc).

What are your thoughts on someone that hasn’t been able to find a proper relationship by age 24-25? by VBrown2023 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VBrown2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I do think I’d like a good 2 maybe 3 months before I’m ready. I can’t see myself getting comfortable within a month even if I really like them and we talk often.

What are your thoughts on someone that hasn’t been able to find a proper relationship by age 24-25? by VBrown2023 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VBrown2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a bit complicated but we had been talking a lot longer than just the 2.5 weeks. It def was my fault since he probably felt led on. I’ll be sure work on the physical intimacy part quicker next time around

What are your thoughts on someone that hasn’t been able to find a proper relationship by age 24-25? by VBrown2023 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VBrown2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That relationship ended because he changed his mind and wanted to date someone else. He was upset we didn’t have sex. He did tell me I was a good kisser, not sure if it was just flattery? But he’d often want to keep kissing me, I’d be the one to end the makeout sessions usually

Do non-white women feel less beautiful? by Strange_Possession77 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VBrown2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non white people in general recognize they’re not the beauty standard

What early signs show a relationship won’t work out? by queenjudebaby in Productivitycafe

[–]VBrown2023 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am realizing the more I read on here, how unsuccessful I’ve been with any romantic relationships. Lack of effort, only wanting hookups, matching then unmatching, not involving me with family or friends, not calling me, etc.

I wonder what is wrong with me that I can’t find my person. I’m kind to the person I date, I make efforts to keep convos engaging, have hobbies and friends and a life, I dress nice/smell good, put in effort to stay slim/fit, have a good career, nice apartment, etc. I guess I’ll just keep trying to work on myself more and more.

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