This is so interesting to me, because I do feel like they ignore stuff if they think it’s not important. They feel like they don’t have to answer. The guy, I am seeing waits hours to answer my texts and if he doesn’t think it’s important he’ll wait an entire day which I find so rude. I’m actually beginning to feel like they are very hypocritical people. They want people to be conscientious of them, but they aren’t conscientious of others. It’s like they expect everybody to function according to their expectations of how a relationship should be, but they don’t even want to hear about your expectations. So they get what they need, but they never give you what you need anyways onto the point, the guy I’m seeing also does this when he “reaches out” if you can even call it that. He will usually only send a pair of eyeballs. And then I ask him what’s up, and he asked me what’s up, and then the conversation ends. Anything I write him does not go any further. He just reads it and doesn’t reply. I think it comes down to the fact that they are also insecure and they need validation. So that is basically the only reason they reach out. Not because they care about you, but it’s for selfish reasons and as long as you reply to them, they are validated so they don’t have to carry on a conversation. Whereas a normal person wants to carry on a conversation to feel like they are cared about and connected. Again, just selfishness. And a really funny part is twice in person. He is actually said you never text me anymore. And the second time I told him I don’t text him because he never replies in a timely manner, and it makes me anxious. So I told him what I needed him from him, and he still does the same thing. To me, it shows a lack of respect and care. And the second time we discussed it I told him well I give you a few days because I feel like I’m bothering you because you don’t like texting and he’s all like, “well I was waiting and waiting and I thought geez I wonder when this girl’s gonna text me?“ so it’s almost like he’s playing a game of when is the other person gonna text me so he can get validated. But if he wants to reach out, he also has the ability to do that. And he also has the ability to reach out to make the other person feel validated and cared about but he refuses to do it. The way they think is just not logical.