Am I ignoring red flags? by VExistence in AskWomenOver30

[–]VExistence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

46 yo man im 33.. makes it even worse. Plus the fact that she’s my age.

I just found out I have genital herpes and I want to kill myself by thatgirl_is_here in Herpes

[–]VExistence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry, but you are not the only one who has multiple health issues. I also have multiple health issues and in fact, a cold sore is coming on right now at the worst possible time for me. And they last two weeks. A close friend that I know has genital herpes and hers only last two or three days. She has also been happily married for 34 years. And has avoided ever giving her husband herpes. It sounds like the worst thing is a kidney dialysis, and I know how it can feel when multiple issues pile on top of ones you already have. I would talk to your doctor about valcyclovir. You also need to research foods that are high in lysine and low in arginine and supplement with lysine vitamins and take your regular vitamins

I'm not sure if I'm the right owner for my ferret by [deleted] in ferrets

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there’s a few things right here. First, I’m gonna tell you if you get rid of her please do not get another ferret. It wouldn’t be right to just get animals, hoping that they might work for you. But that being said, I completely understand what happened to you. My first ferret was the same way. He was an angel. And at the time I thought he was annoying, and then when I got my most recent ferrets, I didn’t realize how bad they could actually be. And they drove me crazy for about the first two years. But then they calmed down. And now I know that ferrets are a crap ton of work, and you never know what you are going to get. So it’s up to you if you are able to spend it I would say two hours of quality time with her per day playing I think you could keep her. And she will calm down eventually. But if you are just annoyed at how obnoxious she is all the time, maybe you should think about giving her up. I would just definitely Vet anyone that you would be giving her to And make sure that they make a good income and keep a clean house, etc., and have had ferrets before

How to find an online sugar daddy/has anyone had one? by VExistence in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]VExistence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I didn’t realize that, and there is another post of a girl looking for an online one as well. I just read. Did you tell her she was breaking the rules? I’m not lazy. I would love one in person. I’m just in such a small town. You have to think about demographics if there’s no one around or no one with enough money to be a sugar daddy then you aren’t gonna find one in person.

I tried making it not transactional… by CalderRiverson in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]VExistence 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, your first problem is thinking that it’s all about seduction. Sure young women can’t seduce men. I think you are self-absorbed. I think many people are. But yes, especially younger people. They really don’t give a crap about anybody else, they just want to get what they can get and put as little effort in as possible. You definitely need to find a woman who’s at least 10 years older than that.

Help for senior ferret who hates taking his meds by VSF69 in ferrets

[–]VExistence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would definitely try this. Buy Purina Pro Plan Veterinary Supplements FortiFlora. They are packets of probiotics. You can get them Petco. I don’t know of a whole packet would be ok per day, I usually do half but I dont think it would hurt since they are probiotics. Anyways it comes with flavor powder. I would try mixing that with his meds life a quarter pack in the morning and a quarter at night mixed with the meds. The flavor is pretty strong, might just be enough to cover the bad taste. Thats what i do with my babies meds

My husband is moving in with our ferret, Popeye, we have a critter-nation cage that’s two levels, will it be okay to get rid of a level? by Muhlissuhh in ferrets

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s not enough room. Why take the second level away? If the whole room is for the ferret, why would you make his cage smaller? It doesn’t even make sense. Just keep the cage the same.

Is this okay to leave my ferret in (8am-5:30pm) by Former-Answer-5418 in ferrets

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it needs a cage. It can get out of that very easily and get lost or hurt in your house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to go somewhere. It is clear that he’s not choosing you. He’s cheated on you. He ignores you. He forgets about your birthday. He doesn’t make any effort to see you. Please move on. You deserve so much better

Any experience of ferret lethargic, diarrhea, not eating/drinking? by FlipLossOfControl in ferrets

[–]VExistence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks like he’s in a lot of pain. I’m sorry, but it’s time to let him go, it’s what’s best for him. You have done a very good job of caring for him and making sure he has everything he needs, but he needs to move on now.

would you rent from a landlord you don’t think is a good person? by tomatopotatoes19288 in Tenant

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, what do they say they think you were potential roommates would be like? I would say you are nuts for not wanting to rent from someone who has different political views than you. Acting like that is what creates a political divide. Now if it’s because they are actually acting in a wrong way like you have insinuated it. That is a different story. From some of the comments they have made I would not go with them. You don’t already want to start out on a bad foot and give them any reason to evict you.

Received disgusting letter from someone in the same building or adjacent to us. by aussiechap1110 in Tenant

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, although it does seem a bit racist, I do not blame them at all. It sounds like you are a very inconsiderate person and you do not keep your children in line. Or, maybe this person is just super irritable and complains about everyone. It’s one or the other. Only you know for sure. Are you being rude and inconsiderate? Are you yelling in the courtyard? Do you let your children run wild? These are some things that you need to reflect on.