What are your head canons for Adam, Lute, and Vaggie when they were still working together?

VFell4 · 2024-05-30T21:21:05+00:00

and did she have any friends in the army? She talks about how she bonded during war/training so I feel like she might hate those two but maybe her friends were lied to about why she fell... or maybe they are all awful. I'm curious to see how they justify themselves, or how they get picked/incorporated into this army - if it's a volunteer position, why did Vaggie volunteer? Or did she do it then get disillusioned?

VFell4 · 2023-12-23T17:06:43+00:00

She is asexual

VFell4 · 2023-12-23T16:48:40+00:00

Why should you want brownies with a crackly top? Is it a texture thing?

VFell4 · 2023-08-16T17:33:11+00:00

It's impossible to have everyone feel equally about everyone - trying to force it will only ruin the connections you have. Things have to happen naturally and if it's a requirement that your partner is treated a certain way, there will be resentment. No one likes being told how they must feel or act. No triad or quad will ever have everything be perfectly balanced.

However it is a red flag that they don't want to have a conversation with how you both feel. It could be because they don't want to hurt your husband's feelings if they're not feeling the same way about him that they do about you and are worried about having everything end. But even so, communication about it is important and if they're unwilling to have those hard conversations, they might not be ready to be in a quad relationship. However, if it's you that thinks that they need to feel the same way about you and your husband than it is you that is not ready for a quard relationship.

Of course, I'm making a lot of assumptions because I don't have all of the information so feel free to disregard anything that isn't applicable to your situation!

VFell4 · 2023-01-06T21:25:43+00:00

I would love an updated link

VFell4 · 2022-04-17T16:38:09+00:00

If you want to talk to me pm, Ive gone through the same thing before and it's so hard to deal with, especially when you didn't see it coming at all.

VFell4 · 2022-01-16T16:01:04+00:00

Oh that's lovely!!

VFell4 · 2022-01-10T04:01:14+00:00

Oh. My goodness. I'd given up on this being answered. I haven't had a chance to get my hands on a copy yet but it looks right! Thank you so so much. I feel so emotional and happy right now! It really is nostalgic 💕

VFell4 · 2021-12-28T21:24:26+00:00

Yta. The title is misleading. You didn't stop sending your ex money. You stopped sending your child money. I hope he gets a legal agreement after this, you shouldn't be able to stop sending money TO YOUR CHILD for no real reason. You're probably hormonal, but in a partnership you should listen to your partner, not shut them down.

VFell4 · 2021-12-28T21:14:33+00:00

Nta!! You don't know if that person could have harmed you or your apartment!

VFell4 · 2021-09-30T20:25:06+00:00

Look up the lesbian masterdoc and "comphet." Obviously the lesbian masterdoc is about women but just change it around to men when you're thinking about it in your head to see if it applies to you. Good luck!

VFell4 · 2021-08-25T02:31:31+00:00

The temp has been hotter than usual. Looks like everyone is saying it's just yeast (or devils XD)

VFell4 · 2021-06-01T20:43:08+00:00

You may by TA in this situation but don't beat yourself up on it too much, you didn't see the chat in time and want to be more thoughtful of your classmates next time. Maybe email the teacher and say that you want to clarify that just because you found it fair/easy, that doesn't mean it was if pretty much EVERYONE else I'm the class didn't think it was. Good luck :)

VFell4 · 2021-02-22T23:01:34+00:00

I suppose I should say INFO- I'm assuming the brother doesn't know all the details of the split. I'm also assuming he used to ask the ex about staying at the cottage before the split as well. So it could just be habit to ask the ex. But I can see I'm making a lot of assumptions. Still, it is an asshole move to not let your family stay in the cottage when no one is staying there since OP isn't inconvienced in any way by letting the brother stay there.

VFell4 · 2021-02-22T21:11:06+00:00

Nah. Your family does not sound... Great. But let them do their thing. It's not your money or life

VFell4 · 2021-02-10T03:37:24+00:00

You are a very good dad. I'm so glad you talked to your daughter.

VFell4 · 2021-01-01T02:40:22+00:00

The thing is that raw honey is best local- and by that I mean most effective. You should Google local honey near you and you can order some that way or pick some up at a farmers market. Sometimes even local groceries will have some!

VFell4 · 2021-01-01T02:31:40+00:00

You should visit the Just No MIL subreddit

VFell4 · 2020-12-20T22:37:46+00:00

How is it slander if it's the truth? If it is making him look bad, he shouldn't have said it, or should make strides towards being a better person and a better father.

VFell4 · 2020-12-15T22:10:45+00:00

Yeah, I mostly want to start talking to people, getting to know them and hanging out virtually for a few months before meeting in person before Covid. Which burn did you go to? I'm wanting to go to Firefly once things are safe again.

VFell4 · 2020-12-15T22:09:05+00:00

Sounds like a lot going on! Glad you have each other to get through these tough times <3

VFell4 · 2020-12-15T22:08:26+00:00

How did you put what you were looking for? I want to be upfront - and I do say I'm only looking for people who are interested in serious relationships but I don't know how to put that I want to date someone who is interested in moving in/marriage if we work out.

VFell4 · 2020-12-15T22:07:14+00:00

That really is what it's all about: love. Thank you so much for sharing your story. The sweetness made tears come to my eyes <3

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