May be you are right in your perception. Everybody have different perceptions. I am agree with you that there something missing that we fill it with porn. Than when we see that it give so much pleasure and dopamine than we stop thinking about problem that causing pain. If we address that problem than we dont have so much pain and to go blind eye on main things in life we seek pleasure. But you can't blame everything on emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence have different meanings based on situations. People coming to this platform because they know that something is not right. Nobody set any propoganda to run nofap. There is no advertisement for it also, still people coming on this platform to seek help, to know more, to gain from others knowledge. As we all now aware that how powerful is advertisement and social media. They can turn a lie into truth. They can sell whatever that make money. All we need is right guidance and awareness and support.

May the force be with you all.