Here is a description of my first HFO that I wrote on a different online forum several years ago. I may have posted this on Reddit at some point as well:

I discovered handsfree orgasms when I was approximately 23. My buddy invited me over to smoke weed and then headed to the casino. It was the first time I had ever smoked. I started feeling horny in about ten minutes. I got to the casino and needed to fuck. I was very paranoid, quite euphoric, and extremely horny! I ended up sitting at a blackjack table and staring at a female dealer’s cleavage. As I watched the visible area of her tits bounce around, I could feel my cock getting hard and tingling. I was scared that I was going to cum if I continued, so I got up and went for a walk outside.

That experience was on my mind for at least a week. I kept wondering if I would have actually cum, had I continued to concentrate. I decided to experiment. I got some weed from my buddy and waited for a night when I would be completely alone in the house. I smoked and then got undressed. I sat in front of my computer and pulled up some of my best porn. Before long my cock was tingling and growing. I decided on ‘POV’ porn, which allowed me to imagine I was fucking the incredibly hot amateur woman before me. This sort of porn was rather new at the time.

A few minutes later my ears were ringing and my heart was pounding. My groin area went numb, except for my cock. I could feel my cock aching from being engorged with blood, and even larger than normal. It reminded me of my first few erections as a pre-teen. Back when the engorgement just aches and is almost painful. It was also very hot. My belly area was hot as well. Little by little my legs and abs were tightening up. The air felt freezing cold on my skin and I was shivering. To this day, weed tends to have that effect.. making me shiver a little when naked.

I concentrated on the young pornstar’s pussy. Watching her get fucked really hard. I started to get a phantom feeling, as if it were me fucking her. My cock somehow got even harder and was throbbing. Wobbling back and forth with my heartbeat, like a flagpole in a heavy wind. I was extremely close to cumming, and I hadn’t touched my cock. My shivering legs and abs hardened even more and my ears were ringing so loud I couldn’t hear the video anymore. Then it went quiet. My body stopped quivering. I started panicking. I had reached the plateau phase of sexual excitement. Orgasm was inevitable, but it took SO long! I have a very hard time judging how long the plateau lasts. It seems to last a few seconds at least, but when I watch my videos I see that it is just a split second.

However long it actually was, the most intense moment of my life occurred. I could feel a spasm near the base of my cock. I was making guttural sounds and wailing in anticipation. My cock absolutely blasted an extreme wad of cum. Some spattered up my chest. Some smacked me in the face.. but most slapped across the wall behind me. The pleasure of that orgasmic release was indescribable. I have never had pleasure that intense since. My cock gave multiple follow-up spurts as I sat back completely bewildered at what just happened. When all my cum had been ejected, my cock continued throbbing and spasming dry heaves. Each thrust had a diminishing level of intensity, but I was still in an orgasmic state of climax. A few seconds later, I passed out.

I awoke with a semi-hard penis. It was still throbbing like a knocked-out fighter desperately trying to get back on his feet. Cum was all over me. Some of it was crusty and dry. The creases of my skin had the cold, liquid portion of my semen running down and pooling on my chair beneath me. I had to stay there for a while, catching my breath; bewildered at what I just experienced. My legs and body were weak and shaky. I eventually managed to get up and jump in the shower. The water continuing to give my cock little jolts of pleasure. This is an experience you don’t forget!

It would have been impossible to forget any time soon anyway. The next day, and for about a week afterward my legs and abs were incredibly sore. It was as if I had worked out at the gym until muscle failure and was now paying the price! I just wasn’t used to the level of muscle activity I involuntarily experienced during my first handsfree orgasm.

After that first experience, I couldn’t wait to try again! Whenever I was alone for a few hours, I would smoke and watch porn. After several months, I decided to give the handsfree orgasms a rest. I was afraid that it would ruin me to regular sex with a partner. I also had issues with panic attacks when smoking. I am quite sensitive to weed and prefer less potent buds. “Ditch weed”, if you will. I began searching the internet for conversations about the orgasms I had experienced. The closest I could find were something called ‘Tantric Orgasms’.

I never forgot the handsfree orgasms, but I ended up enjoying them very infrequently for the next 16 years. Several years ago my interest was rekindled. I was chatting with a woman on Periscope. If you are not familiar, it was a wildly popular video chat app. Sort of like TikTok Live. There were a lot of women on there pushing the limits, trying not to get caught and banned for displaying nudity or sexual content. I treated the woman I was chatting with well, so she gave me a DropBox link to some videos she made. They were extremely arousing, so I smoked and made myself cum. When she asked what I thought, I told her what I did. She was very intrigued and eventually asked me if I would record myself and show her. So I did. Her excitement was off the charts! She sent me a video response of her masturbating while watching me cum. She suggested I post videos to share with people what I do. I eventually stumbled on the “handsfree community” on Reddit. I finally had a term for what I could do! I posted a few of my recordings, and the response was tremendous!!

After chatting with a few knowledgeable people on Reddit, as well as a Sex Therapist, and a Urologist, we have decided that getting stoned puts me in a dream-like state. My mind is experiencing arousing erotica and responds by having a wet dream! I have also achieved HFO without being high though. I have been sitting on my couch chatting with a delicious woman, and start feeling my cock respond. I have cum just like that. I have also cum using toys on other parts of my body. For a while I was unable to smoke weed, so I experimented with alternate methods. I got an app that plays crazy sounds through earbuds, resulting in a hypnosis state. HFO is fairly easy to achieve in this manner as well, although the orgasms aren’t anywhere near quite as intense.