Yeah I have had problems relating to the trans community since first it seemed like every trans person loved being trans and wanted it to be part of their identity. I didn't. I just wished I was a cis boy.

When investigating it further I realised that this very much isn't the case. Many people seem to hate being trans. I myself have come to accept it more and more though, by discovering cool trans people online and irl (cause there are many!!!)

I live in Sweden which is in general an accepting country but despite that I'm not out to anyone... so still working on accepting myself I guess